Why would the girl act like this?

1. You're putting her on way to tall of a pedestal.
2. She might not know what she wants. If that's the case she's going to be a flake for a few more years/boyfriends most likely.
3. If she knows what she wants and is doing this on purpose. She's an "emotional whore" and is keeping you around to make her feel good/stroke her ego. While waiting for another guy she wants to actually be with.

Get a hobby that doesn't involve her. Keep yourself busy; if she opens up contact that's fine. Invite her along to do something with you but don't center your plans around her being there. If she shows, great; move things slowly in that direction. If not who gives a fuck. Forget her and move on.

The harder you pressure her for a definitive answer the more she'll be wish washy or move away completely. She's not the end all be all of women. Give her the message you're interested, if you don't get the response you want. Move along; there's nothing to see there.

exactly! like the wise jay in 40 year old virgin said...you're putting the pussy on a pedestal
 

Big Poppa Pump

- My Name Is My Name -

All you need to know IN those links right there.

If you were going to be in a relationship with her, you would have been by now. Don't put yourself in that lameass Friend/Never anything more role, cos you fuck yourself. :*****:
 

Kingfisher

Here Zombie, Zombie, Zombie...
Friday nite plan
------------------
go to the gym get your pump on
shower up
put on a clean shirt
get out the house, go wherever the party is
have fun
smile at girls
have sex with girls
rinse and repeat

Why do you need to rinse? Hand sanitizer gel and get back in the fight.
 

meesterperfect

Hiliary 2020
All you need to know IN those links right there.

If you were going to be in a relationship with her, you would have been by now. Don't put yourself in that lameass Friend/Never anything more role, cos you fuck yourself. :*****:

you listen to this man gloyster.
this is a very smart man.
 

SpexyAshleigh

Official Checked Star Member
Seriously, this girl is laughing at you behind your back. She knows she's got you wrapped around her finger and she's playing you like a banjo.
 
She is odd she will do this and then when I send her a message or do get in contact with her she will act as if nothing was wrong but as soon as we are getting on again she can't wait to find a reason to put me in the doghouse again so I just feel like I'm walking on a tightrope even though I'm quite good at doing my own thing during conversation and making her laugh or distracting her from whatever role she is trying to put me in.

Like tonight I txt her "We are very similar, that's why he connected right away and I still have the image of you strong in my mind" and then she called me knowing I was at work and then txt me she missed me with a few kisses. I txt back I missed her two and then she txt me back calling me baby and everything and how she had something she wanted to tell me. I wasn't sure but she asked me if I wanted to go and do this job with her somewhere at this racecourse.

I told her I will think about it and get back to her. When I get back home I log on PS3 to have a few games with her and she calls me(sometimes she just does a few rings so I can't answer it and then sounds pissed at me) I couldn't reach it and phoned back and asked her if she phone for a few rings because it said it disconnected and she was like "you always said that plus I tried to call you earlier" and I was like "yeah I was on the train" then I remembered I was calling someone else so she was all butthurt even though I spend days ringing her!

Then when were online she got butthurt and cost the team the match because U went idle for ten seconds to charge my phone and she logged off LOL.

It's like she is constantly wanting me in the doghouse. :p
 
see, even spex said she is jerking your chain....flip the script bud. be less available and completely emotionally uninvolvled. she'll be sucking you anytime :)
 

meesterperfect

Hiliary 2020
see, even spex said she is jerking your chain....flip the script bud. be less available and completely emotionally uninvolvled. she'll be sucking you anytime :)

dude don't lead him on with false hope.
the chicks been playing with him for months,

if there was any sucking going to be happening it would have happened a long time ago.

watch the video damn it.
this is exactly whats happening.
EXACTLY!

http://www.southparkstudios.com/clips/154318/butters-needs-an-advance

BUTTERS LOOKS LIKE A FOOL RIGHT?
 
dude don't lead him on with false hope.
the chicks been playing with him for months,

if there was any sucking going to be happening it would have happened a long time ago.

watch the video damn it.
this is exactly whats happening.
EXACTLY!

http://www.southparkstudios.com/clips/154318/butters-needs-an-advance

BUTTERS LOOKS LIKE A FOOL RIGHT?

true...I didn't really get the scope of the situation at first read. I still think if played right he can get a hummer out of it. Chick is playing him like silly but he can flip it. You need to play this perfectly and you can get this chick to suck you and after you cum in her eye tell her to fuck off. A chick that plays these games has a lack of confidence in herself...you need to play on that. she uses you as her confidence builder...don't do it
 

xfire

New Twitter/X @cxffreeman
This **** still? If you ever decide to go looking for your balls, gloyster, check her purse first.
 

Mr. Daystar

In a bell tower, watching you through cross hairs.
Jesus dude, lift up your dress. You will NEVER get this chick to stop playing games...it's to late, you let her start. Forget her...if she calls you, and comes right out and says, she wants to fuck...fuck her, and leave it at that. You WILL NEVER have a decent relationship, you will never be treated with respect, you will never not be her lap dog. This girl gets her rocks off on playing games, and is probably telling the guy that's fucking her, all about what a sad little puppy you are.

Next time she wants to do something with you, tell her no...tell her you have no use for her stupid 8th grade games, and it's better to just let it go now, so you can remain civil towards each other at work, and leave it at that.

Sorry to be harsh, but dragging this **** out is just going to make it harder.
 
She told me she went to work today and then was trying to get me jealous telling me all the guys were walking into the girls locker room looking at her and some peek at her ass in her g-string.

I tried not get to jealous but I felt it and then I said "what if they said it in front of me should I stand back because I would want to say to them back off"and she was like you can't it's work I can handle it" Anyway this ugly dude she knows and speaks with on the phone sometimes and she told me it's him asking for advice about his girlfriend.

She also says he goes around telling people that she is his girlfriend and it's annoying. Well the guy kind of knows she likes me and told me how much she kept talking about me and then today and walked up to me and started saying "how is your girl, I have 10 missed calls from her on my phone, I call her on my break too" I said nothing because she doesn't want the work to know about us and then he asked me if I speak to her and I said on FB sometimes. Then he goes "I won't take her away from you don't worry"

Well I want to told her but she was already upset with people at work. I should of known better really. During the conversation she was like "I don't have to explain myself" I said what you mean you don't have to explain I'm not asking you. I told her I paid the guy no attention and just said I see yuo on facebook sometimes that's it.

She is like "you should of said we are just friends and nothing else" and I was like "I don't even entertain the guy and I would of said more to him but know you don't want anyone knowing anything" she was like "I'm just saying to you" then phone goes off and when I call back she doesn't pick up.

I txt her saying I shouldn't of brought up the guy and that he won't get between us. I feel a bit annoyed at myself.
 

Mr. Daystar

In a bell tower, watching you through cross hairs.
She told me she went to work today and then was trying to get me jealous telling me all the guys were walking into the girls locker room looking at her and some peek at her ass in her g-string.

I tried not get to jealous but I felt it and then I said "what if they said it in front of me should I stand back because I would want to say to them back off"and she was like you can't it's work I can handle it" Anyway this ugly dude she knows and speaks with on the phone sometimes and she told me it's him asking for advice about his girlfriend.

She also says he goes around telling people that she is his girlfriend and it's annoying. Well the guy kind of knows she likes me and told me how much she kept talking about me and then today and walked up to me and started saying "how is your girl, I have 10 missed calls from her on my phone, I call her on my break too" I said nothing because she doesn't want the work to know about us and then he asked me if I speak to her and I said on FB sometimes. Then he goes "I won't take her away from you don't worry"

Well I want to told her but she was already upset with people at work. I should of known better really. During the conversation she was like "I don't have to explain myself" I said what you mean you don't have to explain I'm not asking you. I told her I paid the guy no attention and just said I see yuo on facebook sometimes that's it.

She is like "you should of said we are just friends and nothing else" and I was like "I don't even entertain the guy and I would of said more to him but know you don't want anyone knowing anything" she was like "I'm just saying to you" then phone goes off and when I call back she doesn't pick up.

I txt her saying I shouldn't of brought up the guy and that he won't get between us. I feel a bit annoyed at myself.

:facepalm::facepalm:
You should, you should, you should. What about her? This fucking chick is trouble, drama, and aggravation all rapped up into on giant wad of miserable pain in the ass. EVERY SINGLE PERSON in this thread, that has given you advise regarding this girl, has said the same thing. A girl, in this thread has told you EXACTLY how she's playing you...and you STILL want to justify, and explain away her inconsideration, and out right disregard towards you. You deserve what you get. You will suffer nothing but heartaches...and you will probably end up physically hurt, from the fights you end up in, because of the other guys she's doing the same thing to, confronting you, or slapping the **** out of you, when you confront them. Instead of wishing you good luck, I'm gonna wish you some common sense...it might serve you a little better.
 

Sunaman

Banned
ey ey ey whats goin on here man? you lettin this honey hustle you?

you gotta let her know you aint up for these games. quit embarassin yourself G-ster, just whip out yo dingaling and declare yourself a man to her.
 
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