Why would the girl act like this?

Yeah same girl we work together have been speaking for 6 weeks and have only seen eachother and few times made out and she has cancelled 4 dates of mine. She is hard to get hold of and I only get to speak to her when she calls me. We have recently been playing PS3 online.

She is good fun and we have a laugh. Tuesday night she said to me "what ya want to do?" while I was ***** chatting to her on the phone and repeated herself like 3 times.

I said "COME ROUND!!" she was like "it's late. Don't think I want to see you because I do" Yesterday I txt her and then she tells me randomly she wants to come around and see me for a bit. I txt her saying what time and call her because she doesn't answer the txt.

She calls few hours later and says she wanted to play a few quick games on PS3 with me. She made lots of excuses even though it was her idea that she wasn't going to meet(mum doesn't want her out late, ******* is coming, has a rash) while saying she was still up for it. We spent 3 hours f***ing about on the PS3 playing GTA IV and decided she wasn't going to see me but instead of telling me just quietly vanished from online mod i.e standing still.

Before that she said she feels like she has known me for years and is comfortable. She then was asking me some stupid question about why I never fancied her friend at work when I first saw her, I said her friend was pretty but I didn't fancy her(friend is a bit fat and has a BF) and I prefer you and she was like "oh yeah but you spoke with her before you saw me" in a angry tone and I was like "you wouldn't want me to fancy her though would you" and then her tone was abrupt "no, but she is a very good looking girl"

I actually mentioned before that a girl I was with that I had a really bad date with and called the girl an idiot saying she wasn't anything fun.

I told her she kept talking about houses and loans and she said "you could just agree with her" I then mentioned I met another girl a few months later who was nice and I thought I would never meet anyone that special and then I said intil I met you. She might of not liked me talking about them, but I wanted her to know she seems so much better, even though I mentioned I got on well with the last one.

I told her about the bad date and was like "yeah I did but we just didn't get on" and then her phone cuts off(does this alot) and she doesn't pick up both times and I ring her and she ignores me and online too then appears suddenly and just f***s about on the game. Messages me a few times in game but ends up vanishing leaving me there. I like her and she is so humble for how good looking she is.

I don't even know why she said she wanted to meet me 6 hours prior all she did was say she was getting ready and eating while still logged in PS3. I'm pretty pissed off right now.

Just a few minutes before she was saying how loving and caring I am and she feels close to me. As much as you may bash her she is sweet but just is fucked in the head due to past relationships. I'm only wondering what you guys would make of this newest situation.
 
I'm only wondering what you guys would make of this newest situation.

Needs a half a cup of humor, 2 more tablespoons of drama and a dash paprika.
 
**** yourself, then her. Everybody wins.

:1orglaugh "Ooo! A brain teaser!"

This ought to be worth 4 or 5 paragraphs of confusion.
 

alexpnz

Lord Dipstick
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Ehh sounds like a tease, she could be playing hard to get but as long as she is interested the game continues, tell her how much you like her or make a move. I'd tell her I just won ten grand on a lotto scratcher then we'll see who comes around....... :D
 
She's playing hard to get with you because she knows your vulnerable and you want her. Just ignore her for a while or talk to more women while she's around. If she truly does like you and sees you talking with other women then she'll probably get jealous and try to initiate a true relationship with you.

Another thing I want to suggest to you is if you are really interested in a relationship with this woman is don't play video games with her. My girlfriend is really into video games and up until a few months ago I was too. When I barely started hanging out with her I'd stray away from playing video games with her just cause I didn't want to turn into one of her guy friend's , if that makes sense. Now that we have defined the relationship and we are dating, I'm happy to play video games with her but at least for those few months when you're flirting and hanging out every once in a while, you should not become one of her buddies just because I believe that's how she'll view you, not boyfriend material and just a buddy.
 

Ace Bandage

The one and only.
Three words to remember when dealing with women. These simple words explain all female behavior:

Bitches be crazy.
 

SpexyAshleigh

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Gloyster I am going to hold you responsible for the huge ass bruise on my forehead....my desk is harder than I thought.
 

Kingfisher

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Sounds like she's playing typical mental games, because she gets off on that in some way. The tease game, keeping you on a leash and waiting. Although, I will commend you on good spelling and paragraphs.
 
run, run fast and don't look back. Seriuosly though, the girl may be sweet as pie, but if you can't already see it, just read back what you posted and you'll see she is jerking you around. I'm not saying to give up talking to her, but I wouldn't put my eggs in that basket. If you wanna slam the clam, best bet is to be less available :)
 
Shes a girl bro, most girls love fucking with your head. She knows she got you dude.
Move on, find someone better.
 
1. You're putting her on way to tall of a pedestal.
2. She might not know what she wants. If that's the case she's going to be a flake for a few more years/boyfriends most likely.
3. If she knows what she wants and is doing this on purpose. She's an "emotional whore" and is keeping you around to make her feel good/stroke her ego. While waiting for another guy she wants to actually be with.

Get a hobby that doesn't involve her. Keep yourself busy; if she opens up contact that's fine. Invite her along to do something with you but don't center your plans around her being there. If she shows, great; move things slowly in that direction. If not who gives a fuck. Forget her and move on.

The harder you pressure her for a definitive answer the more she'll be wish washy or move away completely. She's not the end all be all of women. Give her the message you're interested, if you don't get the response you want. Move along; there's nothing to see there.
 
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