Perhaps the same way Mexicans aren't citizens (I'm not trying to start a debate fire here about immigration) but what I mean is, just like "undocumented immigrant victims", prostitutes are:
- Alive and well and working in every country of the world.
- Are treated pretty much the same way.
- can charge more money, the more EXCLUSIVE they are.
So in the U.S., where it is almost always not legal, they charge a ton! I have friends tell me that most pornstars (yes the ones on FO too..) charge $2000 or more for one session or "pop". But even at $2000 sites like Itsyourporn can hire just about every girl for a nice visit and make money of them.
As for the immigrants, like any subset of society that is not tolerated by everybody, with this "hiding in plain sight" they can be exclusive and that affords them certain abilities, like to never reveal their true identity, and RIP YOU OFF!
In places like Singapore or Thailand where entire districts are segregated for this purpose, there are beautiful girls that any American talent scout could go to and hire a girl for $30. Beautiful, young, talented, and ready to move anywhere.. for $30. Want a video? $100. Want 10 videos? $200. Yeah. We have had girls fly there for surgical work. It's fun to walk into the clubs and see the collections of girls behind the glass. Numbers on their spaghetti string blouses. You tell the old guy with an always lit cigarette "I will have 54, the tall one", and he says "That's $30, go to room 12". Simple as that.
In Germany most towns also have this segregation. The Red light districts are divided usually from view by natural barriers like a cul-de-sac or big industrial area, or they sometimes just have a big STEEL WALL at the intersection like in Bremen. In Hamburg too. However pops are 30 euros. Maybe 50. Two girls? 60. And they are pretty. AND disease free.
Maybe that's why?? Honestly why not make it legal.. when I visit to Vancouver and Calgary next year I'm looking forward to see what it is like.. however since Canada doesn't REGULATE prostitution it's like it was in Germany a few years ago.. dirty, risky.. Not that prostitution is ever a safe or clean act.. hey "the chances of you dying in a car crash on the way to work....blah..blah.."
Technically the pay-for-porn sites are just 3rd person prostitution. Ironic that in the U.S., (Best country in the world by the way!!!) they lead the porn industry world wide, yet while the display of the acts in the videos is not illegal, the act itself they commit in the videos is illegal.
As my brother says, "DUDE THAT IS JUST WEIRD."
The difference between sex as a problem and sex is not a problem is when something is combined with the sex that is already a problem. Irresponsibility, lack of consent, violation and even violence, those are the problems. Sex is just the excuse, as it comes out in other forms as well.
The argument that pornography is harmful is based on an industry that is partially run by outcasts and cater to the minority of consumers that want those acts. Erotica and the enjoyment of mutually consenting sex, between two (or more) adults, fantasy and positive role-play and other situations, is not harmful because it is not introducing anything that is already a problem outside of sex.
Here in the US, we grow up learning what is absolutely right and wrong, and are force-fed abstinence. Some teach responsibility along with lack of abstinence, but it doesn't go far enough. Instead, we should teach consent first and foremost. We do not. We have all of these pressures and other non-sense, and people do things they do not want. We do not each consent, we do not teach kids how to say no, we do not teach them to be responsible.
And, frankly, the lack of responsibility my generation has shown as adults has not provided an good example anyway. Which is why it doesn't surprise me how it comes out in our education system either. We're so focused on judgment, alleged morals, and saying we're better than others that we forgot, long ago, our basic instincts to respect the decisions of others, and not "respect" as if it is some absolute that we can say others wrongfully disagree with it if doesn't match our "values."
So this is the result. And we're only getting worse. Freedom used to be about letting adults consent. Now it's about "policy" and other things lawyers talk about. We've been so irresponsible that we've taken away from ourselves. Why? Out of the name of protecting ourselves from ourselves, instead of focusing on what is important.
We argue over whether pornography is bad or if prostitution is bad, instead of arguing what pornography is harmful and how to protect women, and what we need to do to ensure prostitution is sustainable for the women. Anyone who wants to go into those details are laughed at or, worse yet, considered just "part of the problem" -- from both sides (those who want it gone, and those who want to keep it raw and unchallenged).
When did we ever reach this point?