Why I will never have a girlfriend

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My wife is my best friend. If you have no friends and see no need for a friend, it's very unlikely you'll ever have a relationship that lasts "until someone dies." Sorry to see you banned, but please try to limit your negativity and spite towards others to your own threads.
 
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Wow, that kiss thing really got out of hand. I haven’t much to say on the issue, I pretty well gave my thoughts on it earlier in the other thread. He was seeking a argument/debate from his first post or he wouldn‘t have posted he had never been kissed at 22 on here. Where do some of these people think they are? Did he think nobody was going to comment on a post like that. Its as though he wants to attack himself so he sets others up to get the heat going because he doesn't like himself. Self abuse in a sense. While most of our members toss little ha ha‘s in the mix they don‘t actually flame until attacked and they do try to help if they think someone is asking.

He was asking, or he would have moved on and let it die, apparently he uses the net as a release, although he does do it “calmly” not outright flaming (other than some childish name calling he did) to point out others shortcomings wanting prove himself better than others and above all this “Internet BS” yet he was here posting, arguing, defending...he was the whiner not us and he once again rejected any chance of friendship or comradery in his life.

Trying to belittle us is no different than flaming I feel. If one doesn’t want these things they shouldn’t join a forum (community) and try to interact at all. I had told him before in the other thread this was simply a game to him, that fact was apparent and I for one want to be friends with the members here and while most times we all agree to disagree, I fully respect each and every one of the “citizens” of our little community. I come here to get away from the stress of my real life, not to fill or replace it. We open our doors to everyone that’s the greatness of it, but once in awhile a drifter comes in that has to move on. it’s the way of the net/forum life. IMHO of course.

Damn guess I did have more to say than I thought, sorry I’m just late coming in on this thread. I was gone all day yesterday.

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Damn guess I did have more to say than I thought, sorry I’m just late coming in on this thread. I was gone all day yesterday.
Same here. I just let it go, but I was glad he finally posted his reasons. I actually feel sorry for him a bit, but he was just dragging down all sorts of other threads. Not even controversial ones, but things like contratulatory threads.

I sincerely hope he finds his way. The fact that he does not want any friends is a core issue. To have a lover, at least for a long time like he wishes, she has to be a close friend -- if not your best friend (at least that's what my wife is to me, hands down). You don't have to have a lot of friends, but you do have to have friendships where you care about someone, and learn to forgive and forget transgressions.

I still hope for the best for him. And I know if I was local to him, I could really help him in-person. Although he's a pretty tough nut to crack, without any friends. I thought everyone has at least one friend. Sure wish one of us could be his.
 
What an interesting read!!!.... This "King of the Loaf" fellow reminds me of one of those Trenchcoat wearing nofriend losers that has a gun fetish....
 
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I'm unemployed and haven't yet had a real job
Frankly, I can't think of any place where I could meet girls.
I have no friends. The reason why I have no friends is because I don't need any.
I like being by myself, and I think people just cause unnecessary drama that I don't want to deal with.
I even have problems with faking a smile.
I hope you get run over by a train, you asshat.
I cannot even imagine a realistic scenario where I could establish a relationship with someone.
As far as I can see, the girl would have to approach me

Man, with a sales pitch like that I can't imagine the ladies aren't beating a path to your door to watch you break boards with your head and lament the fact your father didn't pay enough attention.

Bow to your Sensi!
 
Man, with a sales pitch like that I can't imagine the ladies aren't beating a path to your door to watch you break boards with your head and lament the fact your father didn't pay enough attention.

Bow to your Sensi!
Oh my!

You`re getting rep for that one! :rofl:


Personally, my opinion is out toast friend needs a psychiatrist, not just a psychologist. He needs a serious, structured program and even then I`m somewhat doubtful of it`s outcome. Not only is he passive-aggressive, he`s downright BPD. *shrug*

I refused to get into this thread - it was silly enough in that other thread. There ain`t enough hours in a day.


cheers,
 
The conversation no longer has much to do with the topic and seems to just be flaming someone who is banned and claims to have no plans for coming back.

If you want to keep insulting a guy that deserves your pity, then by all means, continue. As you said, I'm not a mod, and I can't stop you.
 
I only have one recommendation for you. Visit this site: www.sosuave.com
It's a website for guys that have problems meeting and attracting women. I go there to get tips on improving my game. Look for the DJ Bible in there, it will give you everything you need to know about meeting women. This site will give you lots encouragement and will make a womanizer out of every man, I guarantee :hatsoff: .
 
Awww missed all the fun, where was I when all this happened!!??

Ahh well c'est la vie.:1orglaugh


PS. top modding by BNF, totally restrained :thumbsup:
 
Pity, not insults ...

The conversation no longer has much to do with the topic and seems to just be flaming someone who is banned and claims to have no plans for coming back. If you want to keep insulting a guy that deserves your pity, then by all means, continue. As you said, I'm not a mod, and I can't stop you.
Have to agree. This guy really deserves our pity, not insult.

I originally said he's just in great need of a blow job (a joke, but it was true). That was before his admission he has no friends. He really needs to work on that before he considers a male-female relationship. So maybe he was right about not being ready. But he needs to start by not pointing the finger at other people.

Hopefully he'll find a friend in-person that will pull him out of that rut. I really hope so. It'll take someone in his face to get him to change. But no one on this board can do that -- it's something that you'd have to do in-person. So I really hope he does find someone in-person.
 
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