Why do nice guys finish last? (A question for the ladies)

i was such a nice guy for my whole puberty and oh what i did for women
i talked with them when they feel they need somebody
i cheered the mup whenever they were sad
went with them to the movies
spend nearly all my money on them
tried to read every wish off their eyes

but all these girls i liked/loved/cared for... they went off with the greatest asses of mankind

so i decided shit there has to be something
went to a disco with some mates and there i danced with a woman she was hot but i wasnt friendly
we met some times and i wasnt such a nice guy(wasnt a complete jerk or was cruel simply not nice) and well she became my girlfriend i got laid etc

simply guy simply dont rock in youth if you are arround 30 and want to marry then women start to search for nice guys not before
 
An excellent question, TC. I'm confident and have no problem asking women out, and I can't seem to get one for some reason. Their loss, but I am a man and have sexual needs. Porn can only do so much before I lose my fucking mind.
 

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I don't agree with that. My g/f said she was into me because I was a gentle person, that I was good-hearted, honest and had a positive outlook. I've never been in a fight, never given nor recieved a punch and I don't plan on starting now. I always got the girl because I was myself. Taking care of oneself can't hurt either.
Sorry, I know this was intended for the ladies' answers only.
Thanks :hatsoff:

you nailed it man.. now that's the kind of girl that you would wanna have..
the others are just "fuckarounds".
 
Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss, it will change your life.

Or anything by Ayn Rand... her stuff changed my whole outlook on life. Now I go after what I want and I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks. It's liberating, operating from a place of inner strength.

Regarding alcoholism, drinking is only a problem if it's affecting your life in a negative way and/or you can't be responsible when you drink. :glugglug:
 

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I don't think nice guys finish last. I think it's the guy with less confidence that finishes last. Whether he is a nice guy or bad boy.

I stay away from the bad boys and they stay away from me. I guess cause I'm a nice girl. :)
 
Or anything by Ayn Rand... her stuff changed my whole outlook on life. Now I go after what I want and I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks. It's liberating, operating from a place of inner strength.

Regarding alcoholism, drinking is only a problem if it's affecting your life in a negative way and/or you can't be responsible when you drink. :glugglug:

:hi: CunningStuts...YOU are my hero!!! I am halfway through "Atlas Shrugged" by Ayn Rand and have read all the rest of her work. This is the last one I have to get through in my busy schedule...talk about changing your life!!! She is awesome...

Glad to know someone with class :D
 

ChefChiTown

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You can not ask a girl this, because they will always say they want a "nice guy". Which isn't true.

Exactly. It's just like asking a woman if size matters. Nearly 100% of them will say "no", but you don't honestly expect me to believe that nearly 100% of women actually don't care how big their man's dick is. :1orglaugh I've asked some of my best female friends that question and every single one of them has told me that size does not matter to them. Yet, those same exact women will break up with a guy if he has a small dick. Sooooo, :dunno:

The same applies here with the "nice guy" question.

Girls will never admit it. They want to believe they are only into nice guys, but they are blind to the truth. God forbid a woman actually realise us guys are right, the universe might collapse.

To be fair, men do the same thing to women (say one thing, mean another), but since I'm not interested in attracting a man, allow me to say this...

I have been told, by countless women, that I am smart, I am funny, I am honest, I am trustworthy, I am dependable, I am supportive, I am responsible, I am entertaining, I am romantic, I am comforting, etc; I am the kind of guy that, and I quote, "any girl would be lucky to be with" - I am a "perfect guy".

So, if that is true and "any girl would be lucky to be with" me, then why am I always getting stuck in the "friend zone"...??? Why don't girls want a relationship with me? The answer is fairly simple - even though I have multiple qualities that women supposedly desire, I have 3 distinct qualities that they want nothing to do with:

1) I'm not that attractive. Women always cry about how men care about how a woman looks and how they are judged for their appearance, but women do the same exact thing to men.
2) I don't have a lot of money. Like it or not, money talks. AC/DC wasn't lying when they wrote that song. Money makes a person more attractive, whether people will admit it or not.
3) I'm a "nice guy". Even though I would be the absolute best boyfriend/husband that these women would ever have, I am a "nice guy", so they want nothing to do with me.

And, to the people who think that it's all about confidence - you're wrong. I'm confident. I'm confident that I'm a good guy. I'm confident that I can make a woman happy. I'm confident that I can change a woman's life, for the better. I'm confident that I can be the best boyfriend/husband that a woman would ever have. I'm confident of all of that and then some.

...I'm also confident that women spew just as much bullshit as men. Women aren't sugar and spice and everything nice. They're mean, superficial, heartless liars, just like us bastard men.

Nice guys finish last. We always have and we always will. Why do you think there is so much porn on the internet? Because the guys who are already with a woman just can't enough? HAHA, no. It's because "nice guys" like me, who don't deserve to be alone, are always getting rejected and have to resort to using the internet if we want to see a naked woman.
 
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simply guy simply dont rock in youth if you are arround 30 and want to marry then women start to search for nice guys not before

I think what johnjjjohn said there makes a lot of sense. Girls in their 20s just want to party, so they'll either find a younger "bad boy" or an older rich guy they can party with. By the time girls are in their 30s they want to find "nice guy" husband material, but by then guys are more likely to NOT be interested in them and you get a Sex in the City situation. I'm a girl and I have to admit that I think girls are at fault here.
 

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I think what johnjjjohn said there makes a lot of sense. Girls in their 20s just want to party, so they'll either find a younger "bad boy" or an older rich guy they can party with. By the time girls are in their 30s they want to find "nice guy" husband material, but by then guys are more likely to NOT be interested in them and you get a Sex in the City situation. I'm a girl and I have to admit that I think girls are at fault here.

I do agree with this. Seems like the girls that are in their 30's and not married and bitter at the married girls.
 
Exactly. It's just like asking a woman if size matters. Nearly 100% of them will say "no", but you don't honestly expect me to believe that nearly 100% of women actually don't care how big their man's dick is. :1orglaugh I've asked some of my best female friends that question and every single one of them has told me that size does not matter to them. Yet, those same exact women will break up with a guy if he has a small dick. Sooooo, :dunno:

The same applies here with the "nice guy" question.



To be fair, men do the same thing to women (say one thing, mean another), but since I'm not interested in attracting a man, allow me to say this...

I have been told, by countless women, that I am smart, I am funny, I am honest, I am trustworthy, I am dependable, I am supportive, I am responsible, I am entertaining, I am romantic, I am comforting, etc; I am the kind of guy that, and I quote, "any girl would be lucky to be with" - I am a "perfect guy".

So, if that is true and "any girl would be lucky to be with" me, then why am I always getting stuck in the "friend zone"...??? Why don't girls want a relationship with me? The answer is fairly simple - even though I have multiple qualities that women supposedly desire, I have 3 distinct qualities that they want nothing to do with:

1) I'm not that attractive. Women always cry about how men care about how a woman looks and how they are judged for their appearance, but women do the same exact thing to men.
2) I don't have a lot of money. Like it or not, money talks. AC/DC wasn't lying when they wrote that song. Money makes a person more attractive, whether people will admit it or not.
3) I'm a "nice guy". Even though I would be the absolute best boyfriend/husband that these women would ever have, I am a "nice guy", so they want nothing to do with me.

And, to the people who think that it's all about confidence - you're wrong. I'm confident. I'm confident that I'm a good guy. I'm confident that I can make a woman happy. I'm confident that I can change a woman's life, for the better. I'm confident that I can be the best boyfriend/husband that a woman would ever have. I'm confident of all of that and then some.

...I'm also confident that women spew just as much bullshit as men. Women aren't sugar and spice and everything nice. They're mean, superficial, heartless liars, just like us bastard men.

Nice guys finish last. We always have and we always will. Why do you think there is so much porn on the internet? Because the guys who are already with a woman just can't enough? HAHA, no. It's because "nice guys" like me, who don't deserve to be alone, are always getting rejected and have to resort to using the internet if we want to see a naked woman.

This is exactly what I am talking about and I have been in these situations so many god damn times. It's not that I lack any confidence but of course I am at times unsure of myself (and anyone male or female who says they never have been is lying). If the girl ain't interested in me no matter what qualities I have that she likes or is attracted too, I get put into the brotherly friend zone. Which in and of itself I have no problem with, most of my closest friends are girls but for most of my life that's all I have ever gotten, except for the ONE drunken incident at a bar that was by the way a terrible night. I haven't tried any shit like that since. What I remember of it I wish I couldn't.
Anyway off topic. I too have been told by various girls that I am smart, honest, reliable, trustworthy, and fun to hang out with. If all that is true then why the hell am I still alone? :confused:
 

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reading the entire thread i guess i'm from another planet or something because i've never liked or dated the bad boy cocky type. i've never been into that nor have i ever wanted to be part of the party crowd. i like the nice guy geeky computer nerd types and that's the type of guys i date. as for being superficial, i guess men and women are at times about certain things. like i said i guess i'm from another planet cause in my case nice guys finish first. but that's me and i can't speak for anyone else. :2 cents:
 
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On another note; I'm the same as drf & Chef, even though I've had two girlfriend in my live, I've also got multiple female friends, but only two speaks to me, one of them refer to me as her Teddy Bear(don't ask why), the reason for that I do not currently have a girlfriend could be that I am highly shy to speak to the opposite sex.
 
my brother is in his late thirties and he always has a girlfriend hes not rich fairly good looking very confident which comes across as bad it does not matter if your a married or single women 20 or 50 if he asks you if you can get away for the weekend even if you say no i am sure its something you will always think about being bad makes you feel alive cheers rose
 
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