What would you do?

[Alyssa Rose]

Okay so it's time for me to gets the trusty boys of freeones opinions again.

When you're in a relationship how flirty with other girls are you?
I mean like, if another girl were to message you on a social networking site (or even come up to you in person) and say, "I think you're really funny and super cute." How would you respond?

Would you just not respond at all?

Would you say something like, "Thank you, that's really sweet but I have a girlfriend." and leave it at that?

Or would you say something like, "Thanks, I think you're really attractive too, but I have a girlfriend." and then continue a conversation with her?

Or would you completely disregard your girlfriend and carry on a flirtatious conversation with the girl?

Also, what would you expect your girlfriend to do if the tables were turned?

Thanks guys!

 

[Mr. Numb3rs]

it depends if i was a douchebag or not.

personally, i dont put myself into a situation for female attention while in relationships.

 

[alexpnz]

Any dude who answers anything other than # 4, is either a liar or a homosexual. :yesyes:

 

[L3ggy]

I'd probably do a mix of 2 and 3.

 

[BlueBalls]

Close my account.

 

[Hypergalaxy]

Take turns flirting with her with my GF :thumbsup:



Don't get too caught up on your bf flirting, it is healthy and can only become a problem if it goes farther than just flirting.

 

[PirateKing]

 

[BCT]

Its just words so I'd flirt a little, if you don't make it a reality you're cool, that's just my opinion.

 

[Alyssa Rose]

Any dude who answers anything other than # 4, is either a liar or a homosexual. :yesyes:

I'd probably do a mix of 2 and 3.

Really? "/

I guess I'm just overreacting then. :dunno:

Take turns flirting with her with my GF :thumbsup:



Don't get too caught up on your bf flirting, it is healthy and can only become a problem if it goes farther than just flirting.

Its just words so I'd flirt a little, if you don't make it a reality you're cool, that's just my opinion.

I just feel like if you're in a relationship you shouldn't be telling other girls you find them attractive.. Pornstars, celebrities, unattainable women are one thing. Women who actually want to and COULD fuck you, are another.

It's really fucking annoying. Tell your guy friends when you think a chicks hot, sure. Hell you can even tell me.. But telling the girl is not cool in my opinion.

 

[L3ggy]

But that doesn't mean I'd ditch the current girlfriend. Besides, wouldn't it be rude to just ignore her?

 

[BCT]

What if the girl puts us on the spot and says do you think I'm attractive? Would that rule bend IYO?

 

[Hypergalaxy]

Really? "/

I guess I'm just overreacting then. :dunno:







I just feel like if you're in a relationship you shouldn't be telling other girls you find them attractive.. Pornstars, celebrities, unattainable women are one thing. Women who actually want to and COULD fuck you, are another.

It's really fucking annoying. Tell your guy friends when you think a chicks hot, sure. Hell you can even tell me.. But telling the girl is not cool in my opinion.

Telling her she is hot or nice is just a form of flirting and is good for self esteem and such. Obviously other girls don't stop being attractive when you start dating. If anything admitting other girls are attractive while being faithful and honest to you is a compliment and proves he cares more about you. No matter what we think its your relationship and he should respect what you want or not be with you.

 

[Alyssa Rose]

But that doesn't mean I'd ditch the current girlfriend. Besides, wouldn't it be rude to just ignore her?

I'm not saying ignore her.. I'm just saying there's no need to let her know that you find her attractive to. Respond and say thanks.

What if the girl puts us on the spot and says do you think I'm attractive? Would that rule bend IYO?

That's different.. I don't know. I'm just too freakin insecure.. "/

 

[L3ggy]

Insecure? While looking as good as you do?

 

[Alyssa Rose]

Telling her she is hot or nice is just a form of flirting and is good for self esteem and such. Obviously other girls don't stop being attractive when you start dating. If anything admitting other girls are attractive while being faithful and honest to you is a compliment and proves he cares more about you. No matter what we think its your relationship and he should respect what you want or not be with you.

It's not really about finding other people attractive.. Obviously we're both going to find other people attractive.. And other people are going to find us attractive.. It's more or less about letting the other people know that you find then attractive.. In my opinion that adds a sexual undertone to conversations that you have with that person from then on.

 

[Ace Bandage]

I'm never opposed to having a slam piece...

 

[alexpnz]

It's not really about finding other people attractive.. Obviously we're both going to find other people attractive.. And other people are going to find us attractive.. It's more or less about letting the other people know that you find then attractive.. In my opinion that adds a sexual undertone to conversations that you have with that person from then on.

Insecure like a mufucka....:yesyes:

 

[Hypergalaxy]

It's not really about finding other people attractive.. Obviously we're both going to find other people attractive.. And other people are going to find us attractive.. It's more or less about letting the other people know that you find then attractive.. In my opinion that adds a sexual undertone to conversations that you have with that person from then on.

Admitting someone is attractive doesn't always mean there is a sexual undertone. There are plenty of people I can admit are attractive that I don't wanna fuck.

 

[alexpnz]

Admitting someone is attractive doesn't always mean there is a sexual undertone. There are plenty of people I can admit are attractive that I Can't fuck.

Fixed.......to reflect ME. :crying:

 

[Hypergalaxy]

Fixed.......to reflect ME. :crying: