What makes you fall in love guys?

[tartanterrier]

Love is not in a guys vocabulary,but lust is

 

[Automate]

After reading most of this thread I see that there are many good answers here regarding personality and the attraction coming naturally. In addition to many other things, I would like to base a relationship on those wholesome factors as well... but the cold, cynical fact is that nothing really works for me anymore, even if all goes well. I'm just probably too far gone to the jaded territory to actually consider having a relationship with anyone. In my experience, people are so goddamn chaotic that there will always be something that ends up being a definite deal breaker. Additionally, really good women that care about things other than money, work, trends and all that other superficial bullshit are so insanely rare that it's really depressing by itself. Why bother? Not worth the trouble at all.

Going on with the negative attitude: I could write several books on the things I really hate about the typical relationship dynamics but one of the most significant things on my list of hate is the aggressive, manipulative, bitchy, hard-to-get behaviour advertised by many assholes who fancy themselves "good writers" and that think they're on top of the "game". That completely makes me lose any sort of respect for the person immediately.

Lust is really all that remains and even that seems to have died. I'm more concerned with babe IDs, statistics and arranging my subscribed threads, bookmarks and collection on my hard drive than actually fantasizing and getting off on the mountains of babe pictures here.

Sorry to be so depressing, but it's the truth at the moment. I would like to see some kind of change to this, but so far there hasn't been anything.

 

[mrtrebus]

Love? Same as everyone, when someone 'gets me'.

 

[The Grasshopper]

Lightning bolts?!? Just a theory.... it happened to me thrice. :dunno:

 

[roronoa3000]

Eyes.

 

[Vlad The Impaler]

Copious amounts of alcohol a restraining order and a gun.

 

[shootfighter8]

Hmmmmm...

Mutual physical attraction, great chemistry with the click factor, and then the great intense sex.

I think I'm referring about "in-love"...

 

[24788]

So.. I was reading an article in a magazine about how to make a guy fall for you.. It had some interesting tips but I noticed that the author of the article is a female and I was like, why would I want advice on how to get a guy to fall for you from another girl why wouldn't I want it from a guy himself.. So im asking my trusty freeones guys, what makes a girl 'girlfriend' material to you? What are the top things you look for in a girlfriend?

Hey, you are familiar? Did you get a name change from sexslave to nikki?

You are probably going to hate this answer.

Every guy is different and it takes time to learn how the guy works. Some guys are easier than other guys like how some women are easier than other women (no pun intended for sex). You'll learn how the guy ticks and what he likes/dislikes.

If a guy likes who you are and wants to be with you then he will if he doesn't than he will try to push himself away or out of the relationship. There's no clear cut answer to this game.

likes (brutally honest)
1. happy personality - everyone gets sad, but 24/7 negativity... "why would I try?".
2. open mind - is open to other cultures and ideas of life.
3. conflict in a peaceful manner. I don't want to date someone just like me.
4. looks are huge and I love fake tits, but fake tits only look good for so long and looks go away when your old.
5. nice/sweet/bitchy - different settings for different moods - find a good level (seriously I'm not dating a rock, make some mood changes for the setting).

dislikes
1. obese chicks (plump is ok, but I can't stand it to be overwhelming)
2. too much baggage - It's ok to share, but sometimes it's better left unsaid.
3. mind games - teasing is pleasant, but I'm not the joker.
4. boring/complainers - why can't I HAVE THIS OR BE THIS PRETTY? AM I FAT? I don't know ARE YOU FAT?... ARE YOU PRETTY?... seriously who are you trying to impress me or someone else?
5. NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG baabaa bitch baabaa bitch baabaa bitch baabaa bitch NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG - Am I dating a person anymore or a broken record?

MAKES HER FUCKING SEXY, but I'm dreaming on these...
1. Beats me in call of duty MW2 on the first date. We already know she's coming inside after she meets me.

2. Loves fitness/health + cooking. I love to cook, so if she can't cook I feel like I'm doing all the work.

3. Talks during sex of what she likes/dislikes. Quiet chicks usually are disappointed since they don't communicate (most chicks are quiet). I don't want to hear it after sex that I am the grinch. Seriously if I knew what you wanted done in bed wouldn't I have done it? Rather than hear about you bitch about it for the next week.

4. Loves to go out more than stay in and watch a movie. I hate watching movies and would rather do something better with my time, but I will watch a movie from time to time.

There's so much hard to scope it so I kind of went with the no scope and just put it out in the open.

How you are judged.
1. looks
2. abilities
3. personality
4. money
5. your goals in life

 

[vodkazvictim]

Money
Money
And more money.
Don't look at me like that; I aint shallow!

 

[Straight Shooter]

A girl that is easy and fun to talk to. A girl that when you talk to her you can talk about anything however stupid it is and seem as if you've known her your entire life.

 

[LukeEl]

I can honestly say that I have had love for woman. Meaning that I had intense feelings, lust, compassion, honesty, love, sincerity, loyalty, all those comparable traits...As for falling in love never been there to be honest with you, I have let go of or have been let go of by girls that I/they should have fallen in love...But I suppose when your not looking for it, it just happens.

 

[Smallville417]

A girl that is easy and fun to talk to. A girl that when you talk to her you can talk about anything however stupid it is and seem as if you've known her your entire life.

That's how it is was with my last girlfriend (who may still be my girlfriend). We can talk to each other and completely lose track of time, no matter what it is we are talking about. And yes, we have talked about some very stupid things, and enjoyed every conversation. We had a comfort factor with each other the very moment we came in contact with each other, that is a pretty amazing feeling. I feel like I never have to hold back with her, she accepts and loves everything about me.

And yes, I was/am madly in love with her. Throw in the most intense sex, amazing personality, beauty, and it's easy to see why I do.

 

[bustybbwlover]

the top thing on an aesthetic level is a pretty face, but after i get to know someone it's intelligence that really does it for me...i need to be able to have a talk with the lady i'm with, there's nothing less girlfriendy than someone you can't have a decent discussion with

 

[The Artist]

As my name suggests, I'm somewhat of a philosophical bastard - always thinking and questioning things, which can be very abstract at times.

I look for somebody who either takes an interest in my thoughts, or who at least humours them. But I fall in love if the girl is friendly and talkative. It's easier to have a conversation if one of you can't shut up

 

[Alyssa Rose]

I know I know... Zombie Thread!
But I guess I missed the last page of comments and I was just re-reading them..

A girl that is easy and fun to talk to. A girl that when you talk to her you can talk about anything however stupid it is and seem as if you've known her your entire life.

I agree with this ^^ :clap:

 

[cindy CD/TV]

I love a woman with a gentle, compassionate heart, who is open about her feelings and not afraid to let her barriers down, who is vulnerable but with a strength of spirit, she's independent, she's insightful and articulate, and she's perceptive about the feelings of others. She peforms acts of kindess spontaneously, anonymously. It also helps if she's willing to indulge my foolish whims and goofy ideas. She's willing to spend a day cuddling on the couch or bed and watching a movie marathon, she's someone who is comfortable sharing a simple quiet moment. No words. Just maybe a look, or a touch.

While physical beauty is nice, the traits listed here are really what make my heart ache with affection, make me willing to walk through fire for her. No amount of physical beauty can overcome a cold, cruel selfish heart. :2 cents:

 

[PirateKing]

 

[Straight Shooter]

I'm currently in love with a woman. She could be the one, yeah I said it:lovecoupl

 

[L3ggy]

I love a woman with a gentle, compassionate heart, who is open about her feelings and not afraid to let her barriers down, who is vulnerable but with a strength of spirit, she's independent, she's insightful and articulate, and she's perceptive about the feelings of others. She peforms acts of kindess spontaneously, anonymously. It also helps if she's willing to indulge my foolish whims and goofy ideas. She's willing to spend a day cuddling on the couch or bed and watching a movie marathon, she's someone who is comfortable sharing a simple quiet moment. No words. Just maybe a look, or a touch.

While physical beauty is nice, the traits listed here are really what make my heart ache with affection, make me willing to walk through fire for her. No amount of physical beauty can overcome a cold, cruel selfish heart. :2 cents:

Well said.

 

[Galactic]

I don't know. I don't know.