First we like to lie there for a few minutes, but not too long. For some reason, she thinks the condom is going to break or leak if it just sits there inside of her. So I usually go to the bathroom to take the raincoat off and clean up. Then she goes in there to do whatever it is that women do after sex. After all of that, we spoon until we fall asleep, which for me is approximately 48 seconds. Meanwhile, she stays awake for an hour or two worrying about and obsessing over everything in her life.