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Spunner

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Just said what I feel to a woman I love. She plays around and avoids it. I think she feels the same way but will not say it. How do I get it out of her?
 
you simply have to ask her. you don't have to have her read a love note to look in her eyes. shes' only shy. maybe she does feel the same way but feels she doesn't have to tell you. she may think you already know woman are complicated and like to move on to the next thing. in which case you should not be ashamed of yourself, it is only normal to love someone who you have a compassion for. there may be moments of uncertainty but through it all you find she is the one for you.
 

Spunner

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you simply have to ask her. you don't have to have her read a love note to look in her eyes. shes' only shy. maybe she does feel the same way but feels she doesn't have to tell you. she may think you already know woman are complicated and like to move on to the next thing. in which case you should not be ashamed of yourself, it is only normal to love someone who you have a compassion for. there may be moments of uncertainty but through it all you find she is the one for you.

I have been offline for for 4 months now. Just got back yesterday. I told her what I feel and she still will not tell me how she feels. :( Do not know. Maybe people from Colorado do not know anything?
 
shes just being sure you still care. shes very understandable and thinks maybe you do not understand her. sometime she probably thinks of you the same way but does not want to cause an argument. shes aware, she has to be. shes going to push you. well, in a different light. with questions that cannot be answered, but have well deserved reason to be asked. you should not be afraid to tell her how you feel without criticizing her judgment.
 
okay maybe your in a different situation, leave the girl alone is the only advice
I can give you. shes emotionally drained that is why she is speechless and she doesn't want to hear your bullshit
 
Ugh, two newbies getting in a bicker.


Just ignore her. She doesn't feel the same way about you at all. Trust me. She sees you as a friend and nothing more. Move on.
 

ChefChiTown

The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
Just said what I feel to a woman I love. She plays around and avoids it. I think she feels the same way but will not say it. How do I get it out of her?

What is your relationship with this woman? Are you dating? Are you just friends? Are you co-workers? :dunno:

My advice, regardless of what your relationship is with this woman is:

If she does has feelings for you, don't try and force it out of her. Let her tell you on her own. You can't force love or attraction...it just happens, so don't try and push it.
 
Ugh, two newbies getting in a bicker.

I know. Isn't it great? It's like watching a mongoloid and a hare lip with a stutter argue over the existence of Santa Claus. :D
 

meesterperfect

Hiliary 2020
My piece of original advice is to be read while imitating
Christopher Walken:

You can't, hurry love.
No.
You just have, to wait.
Love, don't come, easy.
Its .....a game
Of give......and take.
 
^^
And with that...MEESTER wins this thread!

OP: I think a nice, long wank session is order. Head over to the Watch the Vid thread and have a party in your pants...
 
Some people just aren't good at expressing their emotions. Then again, some people are too good at it, you know what I mean?

Just try and enjoy the time you spend, don't take things too seriously or ask for too much and let it go where it goes. Yes, I know that no one wants to hear that because they don't like having a situation out of their control, but that's the problem right there.
 
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