So, I just lost my virginity...

[t806]

DOA and Yankeefan, that's along the lines of what I've been thinking after this encounter, that perhaps it'll be different with someone I'm in love with and can live dangerously with. Unfortunately, I don't have such a person in my life right now, and the desire for sex alone is not enough to move me to start hunting for a life partner and all the complications that it brings. I guess that's why I sort of lack the desire to do an encounter like this again, either with an escort or some casual hookup, because even if it's fun, I fear it will still lack something that it would have with someone I love.

Edit: and it's expensive, lol

 

[t806]

I don't feel screwed though. I'm glad I went through with this, because it's been burning me up for years (I'm frikin 27!).

 

[Ainttalkinlove]

Just had an encounter with an escort and got laid for the first time. While it was pleasurable, and the lady was really nice and helped me get the ropes of things, I find myself wondering at the fact that very little of it wasn't quite what I expected, the whole thing seemed surreal. I've put this off till I'm 27, and I often wondered if losing my virginity would change my life in some profound way, and was surprised to find that the only major breakthrough was that there was very little change. I feel like I can go the rest of my single days now without screwing another woman, now that I got it out of my system. Jacking off alone seems to achieve the same ends, even without that sexy woman moaning and saying encouraging things. I didn't expect to feel this way at all.

Anyone else experience something like this their first time? Still trying to make sense of it here.

Yeah it could be that it was an "escort" She wasnt very tight thats why it wasnt that good I remember back in high school the girls felt way better than they do now and I have a feeling it because Vaginas arent made of elastic they tend to be more like a worn in pair of jeans only you cant throw them in the wash to shrink them up.

 

[mrtrebus]

I don't feel screwed though. I'm glad I went through with this, because it's been burning me up for years (I'm frikin 27!).

I think that's it, maybe you were building it up to be some magical life changing experience. :dunno:

 

[belgianass]

congrats on losing it :nanner:

hope you'll find a woman real quick, because you'll get quickly addicted ...
After my first time, couldn't wait to do it again ...

escort or not, i hope it was money well spend ...

 

[tunsty]

I lost my virginity to an escort..






























wait for it....





















but I soon got bored and shacked up with a Vauxhall Cavalier :hatsoff:

 

[Rey C.]

DOA and Yankeefan, that's along the lines of what I've been thinking after this encounter, that perhaps it'll be different with someone I'm in love with and can live dangerously with. Unfortunately, I don't have such a person in my life right now, and the desire for sex alone is not enough to move me to start hunting for a life partner and all the complications that it brings. I guess that's why I sort of lack the desire to do an encounter like this again, either with an escort or some casual hookup, because even if it's fun, I fear it will still lack something that it would have with someone I love.

Edit: and it's expensive, lol

I'm not trying to be funny here, but are you an engineer? You just seem to have put a lot of methodical thought into all of this.

You can also be friends with girls. And there's nothing wrong with having a "friend with benefits", ya know? Just saying...

Good luck with it all.

 

[efeezy]

Wait till you shoot a big ol load on some chick's face when she's not expecting it...then you'll be hooked. Mind you, there probably won't be any more sex with that broad.

 

[rwill25]

Next time do it with someone you like. Trust me, it's a lot better.

 

[Skyraider22]

Yea My first time sucked but after that man it was great so I guess what I'm saying is it will get better:hatsoff:

 

[STDiva]

1st time and you didn't break your clavicle? Congrats man. It's all downhill from there.

 

[Legzman]

27? damn! How'd you manage to make it that long???

 

[Ashleigh]

You probably feel this way because you had to fork over cash to get pussy. I think half of the excitement of sex is in the chase. Seeing a woman you think is attractive, and getting to know her...and once you finally get her in the sack, the excitement is just amazing. If you're in love, its just that much better.

Maybe instead of spending money on a hooker, take that money and try dating a few girls...maybe you'll find one that you can be with longterm and build a good relationship out of it. The sex gets better, trust me. Just stick to real women and not ones who are picturing dollar signs with every pump.

 

[Embryoyo]

First time's are never that great. I would advise you to continue on with this quest

It gets a lot better ... trust me :hatsoff:

Agreed, especially when you are in love with your partner :bowdown:

MUCH better than the random hook up. Too fucking amazing for words, really!

 

[iluvbriannalove]

First time's are never that great. I would advise you to continue on with this quest

It gets a lot better ... trust me :hatsoff:

true that

 

[iluvbriannalove]

and yeah after my 1st time i expected big things. it really didnt change anything. i would also suggest to keep having sex. it does get alot better. ya almost learn something new each time.

 

[Embryoyo]

If you're in love, its just that much better.

Fucking EXACTLY :bowdown:

 

[Boothbabe]

there is a difference between sex and making love

Absolutely true. I've had sex with 2 girls because it, well, just happened but I make love to my girlfriend. Making crazy hot sweaty love till you're exhausted with the one you love is the best there is

 

[Dan-O]

I lost my virginity to an escort...


...but I soon got bored and shacked up with a Vauxhall Cavalier :hatsoff:

I knew that was coming...but I still cackled quite a bit. :1orglaugh

I have to say that I was also a late-ish starter (23) and my first time was pretty disappointing. It was textbook 'great' for a first time in many respects - I came twice, she came four times, it lasted quite a long time. But there was something missing, I couldn't quite describe it, it felt like I was ticking loads of mental boxes in my head, making sure that I was doing the things I was 'supposed' to be doing. To be honest, I found it a wee bit stressful, and I was distracted from the 'sexiness' of everything.

Best sex is definitely relaxed sex, loving and sexy. Maybe a brief lust-fuck with someone who makes your dick tingle, whom you'll never see again.

 

[rockmandash]

well ....i don't believe in love or stuff like that...
Mainly because the meaning of the word " love " changes from person to person....

for example Mr Smith believes in love and he thinks that love + sex is the best
while Mr Jones thinks " love " is just a word that nowadays means nothing than a quick
escape from a ugly reality.... and other persons just have different thoughts and opinions about " love "....

So because of this i think there's no unique meaning for the love itself
since every person is different and unique on this planet....

and IMHO you have done good......

(sorry for my english )