Sick of being lonely

[BAYAMONXXX]

Get a pet...

 

[spegeln]

Well, that was a troubling peek behind the curtain.

I recommend you spend your birthday with Sam Fisher. Your self-esteem will raise immeasurably and you'll realize that your life doesn't suck at all (comparitively speaking).

Yes I know, there is always someone worse off or that´s what you think... Maybe I really am a contender...My stories would make u piss ur pants in embarrassment. I just think I´ve been dealt the worst hand ever. From my infant years to this old age of soon 40...I try to look at it with some sort of humour. Sometimes it works...

 

[spegeln]

Fyrtio är ju det nya tjugo.

I sure hope so...don´t know why but I think I was an ok person then...excentric as fuck. Beaten up every day for liking Boy George. It got easier when I found out about Ginger Lynn...

 

[spegeln]

Buy a gym membership and commit to going at least twice a week. I guarantee you will feel better about yourself in a month and probably meet some nice people too.

Nah I t not my thing starring in a mirror and adore yourself... That´s too much of self admiration of once body. Don´t want that ego, thanks...

 

[spegeln]

Get a pet...

i KIND OF HAVE...LOL

 

[spegeln]

When someone feels the need to post something like this on a board especially on such a personal level I worry that people will say something to them that will make their despair worse. Tread carefully people.

When you reach the point that you reach out to strangers it says a lot about the seriousness of the depression.

i GET THAT THAT SOMETIMES BUT I TRY TO HANDLE STUFF...BUT THANKS!

 

[spegeln]

it's true what they say, "the grass is not always greener..." you pretty much described me in your first 4-5 sentences. I got a gf finally after a 10 yr drought and have been with her for past 6 months. the relationship is good but it comes with a price. ive lost most of my freedom and everything got complicated. sometimes i'd rather be single again. I suggest you buy a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss. he was a fat and ugly nerd just like us and now he bangs 10's on a weekly basis. imagine having 1 or 100 supermodel girlfriends, lol. the book is definitely the man's bible and helped me get my gf. i'm convinced any man can get a 10, you just gotta put some effort into it. I hope this helps you feel better.

Thanks but i think he is a shallow opportunities and I wanna be found, loved for me, my personality. I read that book and i kind of vomit in my mouth. I don´t like games...

 

[Lacey Black]

Nah I t not my thing starring in a mirror and adore yourself... That´s too much of self admiration of once body. Don´t want that ego, thanks...

That is a horrible excuse not to exercise, taking care of your body doesn't mean you have an ego lol. You said you were "fat" meaning your not taking care of your body which can contribute to you not feeling great about yourself. Exercise has been proven to release endorphins that combat depression so that is why a suggested it.

 

[spegeln]

That is a horrible excuse not to exercise, taking care of your body doesn't mean you have an ego lol. You said you were "fat" meaning your not taking care of your body which can contribute to you not feeling great about yourself. Exercise has been proven to release endorphins that combat depression so that is why a suggested it.

I know u meant well...im so sorry...

 

[Philbert]

Thanks but i think he is a shallow opportunities and I wanna be found, loved for me, my personality. I read that book and i kind of vomit in my mouth. I don´t like games...

+1 for you...


Although if you don't like games that's a big minus and shows a lack of creative thought, atrophied self-respect, and a discombobulated sense of adventure. Undiscombobulate now, before it's too late!
Play games...start with hangman, computer Backgammon, Call of Duty, Pacman...paintball could be in your future.

 

[bobjustbob]

Okay, chin up dude. These are the best times of your life. Not satisfied? Make some better. Do it whenever you feel it. Do stuff that makes you feel good. Good things happen to good people...except me. Good things should never ever happen to me for any part of my future life.

 

[sean miguel]

enjoy the summer folks, I love you all!

I love you too.

 

[Jack Davenport]

spegeln

Whenever I feel down in the dumps I just look at a photo of a smiley face and immediately I start to feel better.

 

[Aaliyah Love]

Then my advice to you would be to log off, turn your computer off, stop feeling sorry for yourself, get some confidence, and GET OUT THERE!

 

[Aaliyah Love]

Buy a gym membership and commit to going at least twice a week. I guarantee you will feel better about yourself in a month and probably meet some nice people too.

and this!

 

[BCT]

You have to be the man and make the move, you can't just sit around and expect the pussy to magically come to you because it doesn't work that way.

 

[humperbink]

"Yeah it was pretty disastrous. He was teased obviously on FO but it looked like he really ended his life cause he hasn't be online since and a lot of ppl were wondering if he really ended his life. Pretty sad but you know it happens."

I don't believe he really ended his life- sounds like he was doing what is often a common occurrence on message boards- throwing a pity party and wanted you to believe he killed himself by no longer typing another reply/topic. People are sick enough to do this.

 

[humperbink]

By the way I wasn't accusing spegeln of throwing a pity party. I feel the way he feels quite often, and to my knowledge this is the first time spegeln created a topic like this so I'm inclined to think he's being serious. Yeah the best thing would be to just walk around town, invite yourself to parties and meet new people. New people = new experiences.

 

[Big Poppa Pump]

If your weight is affecting your self esteem then that's what you have to take care of. Start walking more to places & cut down on calories so you can lose weight and feel more confident. Keep at it and this time next year you will be out there chasing the girls. GOOD LUCK :clap::clap:

And can I just say that the people on Freeones (well, most of them) are great and no one has giving this man shit. If this was Twitter he'd be swinging from a rope by now.

 

[TheSpokenWheel]

it's true what they say, "the grass is not always greener..." you pretty much described me in your first 4-5 sentences. I got a gf finally after a 10 yr drought and have been with her for past 6 months. the relationship is good but it comes with a price. ive lost most of my freedom and everything got complicated. sometimes i'd rather be single again. I suggest you buy a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss. he was a fat and ugly nerd just like us and now he bangs 10's on a weekly basis. imagine having 1 or 100 supermodel girlfriends, lol. the book is definitely the man's bible and helped me get my gf. i'm convinced any man can get a 10, you just gotta put some effort into it. I hope this helps you feel better.

I've never seen you around here, and I just have to say.... Your avatar and username are fucking awesome.

To OP: Do something/anything. The one thing that won't help you out of your withdrawn misery is sitting in it till it drives you crazy.