Sick of being lonely
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RichardNailder
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If an asshole like me can get laid - anyone can get laid - you just need to pay them what I do.
RichardNailder
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I know that sounds flippant but stop and think for a moment......
Now, name me one creature that doesn't have some sort of mate selection criteria. Lucky for us, unlike the great deer, elk and moose (elche & hirsche on your contention), the human animal doesn't rely solely on the best antlers, strength, physique and the ability to beat the competitors ass to get a mate. And unlike may birds, human males don't need to have the prettiest feathers or the best dance steps in order to be an acceptable mate - but we still need to understand what motivates the females of our species to choose a mate.
Regardless what you may wish were true, the females of our species are not immune to the genetically programmed mate selection processes.
Get off your ass, take a shower, cut your hair, manicure your nails, press your shirt, smell nice and start loosing a few lbs. - in short, look and act like a desirable mate.
Of course, if you're too lazy to give the appearance of a "provider", you can always skip those steps and pay for the pussy directly - but trust me - there is no such thing as a free ride on the propagation wagon - for any species.
take their advice..........stop feeling sorry for yourself.......... every day is a good day when you're looking down at the grass and not up at the roots....
StanScratch
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The gym advice is a rather good one, for a few reasons.
Several years ago and at almost the same age, I was in the same boat. Then I discovered running. The weight started coming off, I started socializing a lot more with runners, and started seeing a running lady. It might take a while, but it can eventually fall into place if you let it. And in the mean time, with the exercise, you will have an opportunity to enjoy life a lot more. Amazing what a 20 mile run can do to your outlook on life.
Several years ago and at almost the same age, I was in the same boat. Then I discovered running. The weight started coming off, I started socializing a lot more with runners, and started seeing a running lady. It might take a while, but it can eventually fall into place if you let it. And in the mean time, with the exercise, you will have an opportunity to enjoy life a lot more. Amazing what a 20 mile run can do to your outlook on life.
HehehehehehehehehehahaHyena
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Ventilate your misery?
English please.
hug means blowjob in his language.
Much though I hate to agree with a woman, this one is, in this case at least, correct.
Yeah.
Didn't VV also do that? Look how well that worked.
Just ignore the drama queens.
You? Single? No...
I'm not sure "propogation" is his concern.
Or that I care.
RichardNailder
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I'm pretty sure the act that humans use for propagation is EXACTLY his concern. But only because he said so "Help Niklas get laid".
HehehehehehehehehehahaHyena
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Propogation and getting some no longer coincide as final ends. Many endevour greatly to enjoy themselves without propogating.
If you're not happy, stop doing everything you currently do and do something else. Whatever you do now isn't working. Change is in order.
There's nothing egotistical about exercising. Don't make excuses. You say you're fat? Exercise will fix that. You say you're unhappy? Exercise will fix that. Get off your ass. You still have a long life ahead of you. Don't become a grumpy, self loathing old man.
This may sound cliche, but nobody will love you if you don't love yourself. How can you expect someone to love you for who you are if you don't like who you are?
C'mon, son.
There's nothing egotistical about exercising. Don't make excuses. You say you're fat? Exercise will fix that. You say you're unhappy? Exercise will fix that. Get off your ass. You still have a long life ahead of you. Don't become a grumpy, self loathing old man.
This may sound cliche, but nobody will love you if you don't love yourself. How can you expect someone to love you for who you are if you don't like who you are?
C'mon, son.
thanks for the input...u are one funny dude! I will take ur advice in consideration! thanx
You had me fooled.
You need to start listening to Tom Leykis ASAP. He will turn your life around. www.blowmeuptom.com (his site is under construction, but you can still listen to the show there). You can also listen to him on your smart phone on the TuneIn App, just search "Tom Leykis Show." I'm going to take a wild guess here, and say you were raised without a father or strong male figure in your life.
What I can tell you is that you need to start learning to like being with yourself. Love yourself first. If you can't do that, how do you expect anyone else to? Also, if you want to get laid, stop being a nice guy. Nice guy's don't get laid, and don't listen to women who tell you otherwise. The only women who fuck nice guys are women you wouldn't want to fuck in the first place.
Question is, are you fat because you are depressed or are you depressed because you are fat? Depression is one of the common triggers for people to start eating lot of food. Some people eat to make themselves feel better, some people drink alcohol, some people believe in gods (yes, correct wording is to say gods not god, for those who have found enlightenment), some people watch porn, some people buy a puppy, each one with their own ways. Your first step is to drop stupid self pity open door, go outside and take a deep breath of that fresh air mixed with smell of dog poo, take a walk outside of smelly nerdbox and go to see some real women...
I am 1.70 and my weight is 85 kilos with my panties on (told u guys I was shy) Real women, is there a place where they gather in wait for short, corpulent dudes? Just kidding... The thing is I kind of like myself, my problem is I can´t stand a certain type of people and I give up. go home and read o book or send sobbing messages to forum... I know this all sounds like I am the biggest narcissist in the world. Talk about contradiction...damn..
Deepcover
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can't recall all the events but a couple of years ago a user posted the obituaries and news of ppl who recently passed and cut an paste of an article of a young guy who killed himself through the week. Not sure if it was based or in connection to the actual user who planned to commit suicide but a lot of ppl in the forums were like "fuck...he really did it!" while others would say something "what a fucking loser...dude kills himself just cause he couldn't get a fucking girlfriend...good riddence" like I said before it was pretty disasterous.
We all have a certain type of person we can't stand; the simple solution is to not associate with them and do with those you can stand.
I'm pretty introverted but I can't count the number of women who have "noticed" me and subsequently started a conversation while I was just doing my own thing like class, work, or even getting lunch. In my case, they seldom turn into anything more than a brief encounter, but the trick is that I was doing that stuff in public, not alone in my bedroom.
To summarize, this ^.
hey lets pretend I am fine, handsome and my life is just full of joy. I kind of get tired of hearing myself complain. Belive me I will end all self pity and just carry on with what I got... No matter what u say I lost almost 30 kilos! My face is my face, sorry. My personality is ok. Shy, sure...I am pretty liked by my friends, yes I have friends...It is just a bit of a 40 year old crisis. I feel like shit for getting too personal. Bottom line is, I miss sex and the touch of another person.... I think I crossed the line and I am sorry for that!
haha thanks. ive been here a while, just lurking mostly, don't post often.
