I've known this lady for 9 years- she's cut my hair. Roughly my age- has three kids (I really don't care about that)- is hot for having three kids- i think recently divorced- but not sure. Her MySpace page says she's single. On St Patty's Day she said I should meet her at an Irish bar down the road- non chalantly though- it wasn't like she was begging me to go out. All this while - for the last 9 years - I never was really interested in her - we would always strike up conversations - but lately she's revealed her wild side (actually told me she had a tattoo on her boob- out of the blue she said that!)-and its been a turn-on. I like tattoos on chicks as long as they are not covered. Should I meet her? What happens if I'm getting the signals mixed up? And she wants to only be the dreaded F-word (Friends...). What happens if she has a bf and he's there? What happens if she's still married and thinks I'm a pig for hitting on a married chick? Am I worrying too much? Should I just go out- it would have to be by myself too-and pray she's interested?
Should I meet her
- Thread starter howie789
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Yeah, sure, why not. You're not going to know unless you do.
None of us know her, and how her mind works. If you have nothing going on that day, why not. If she isnt interested, drown you sorrows in as much scotch as possible and You Might wake up next to some strange women you've never met :thumbsup:
I'm no good at giving advice :1orglaugh
None of us know her, and how her mind works. If you have nothing going on that day, why not. If she isnt interested, drown you sorrows in as much scotch as possible and You Might wake up next to some strange women you've never met :thumbsup:
I'm no good at giving advice :1orglaugh
Will E Worm
Conspiracy...
Three children and divorced? Sounds like a catch.
I might be friends with her. But, I'd find someone else to date.
Do you have any better options?
If not, then don't agonize over this. Just go and don't treat it like a big deal. Just see how it goes. If the bf is there just have a drink or two and say you've gotta be on your way to meet some people. See, that's not hard.
If not, then don't agonize over this. Just go and don't treat it like a big deal. Just see how it goes. If the bf is there just have a drink or two and say you've gotta be on your way to meet some people. See, that's not hard.
On the contrary Blueballs, I'd say your advice is spot on. If he doesn't go, he might never know, at best he'll find the woman of his dreams, at worst he'll endure a couple of drinks worth of awkwardness, and maybe have to find a new hairdresser.
all i got from that was I should go over to the Irish pub, get liquored the fuck up, on my heritage's tab.... you like tattoos on boobs, also that you worry about being laid by her, while she's drunk as hell.
My :2 cents: go get fucked up, and hit that shit like a fat kid on a jelly donut....
the kids are like late teens, and early 20's- so they're independent- the one kid has a kid, so she's actually a gramma (she had her daughter very young, she might have been only 20)- she's actually a GILF....lol.. maybe i'll show up late, so she'll be nice and drunk when i see her...lol
Thats the spirit :hatsoff:
kristoflaw10
Closed Account
Sounds as though she's either making the first move or values your friendship. In either case, go out and enjoy yourself. :glugglug:
ChefChiTown
The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
I stopped reading once I saw that she has a MySpace page. If you have three kids and you also have a MySpace page, something is wrong with you. MySpace is for kids, not for people who have kids.
So, no...don't meet her.
PlasmaTwa2
The Second-Hottest Man in my Mother's Basement
I just have one piece of advice for you if you do go: Watch out for the penis!
there is no reason why you should meet her, maybe a drink is on her... nothing better than friends right, no harm done. go into it if something happens then it does, if not then dont sweat it....
Wow Niceguy, that's so....nice! :angels:
did you mean there is no reason you shouldn't meet her??
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Go for a drink. It's pretty simple. She wants to get to know you OUTSIDE of her work evnironment. If she has a boyfriend, oh well. Be happy people think you are personable and enjoy your company.
thanks for the response- but now I'm looking at the Pics on her Myspace page- and man, she's with some guys, and looks drunk and flirty- i don't know if one of em would be her "significant other". I hate that, when a lady you might be interested in gets flirty with every guy at a bar. Now I'm thinking she asked all of her male clientele to go there, and they'll be like 10 guys there thinking the same thing I am. I don't know- now maybe I'm thinking I should wait til my next haircut appointment to ask her out..
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