Talk about presumptuous! You are the one judging here, not me.I didn't think anything of the sort. This is you being presumptuous yet again.
We get it already. You're this new generation of sensitive male that forgives every transgression committed by a female before it's even occurred. I'm not trying to take that from you, I just wish I didn't have to listen to you preach since I live in the real world and do not wish to subscribe to that flawed system of beliefs.
I am monogamous. I have been with the same woman for nearly 2 decades. I'm the "new generation?" Hardly!
Why do you feel the need to judge so much? And how are your statements any less of a "preach" than my sincere wish for you to not judge?
Honestly, look in the mirror at this.
Wow! I guess then I was fucked up as a young adult too, eh?You don't have any idea what this has to do with respect because women have an unencroachable status to you. Those of us who are more socially realistic understand what pitfalls lie in wait for people who sleep with random people.
Really? So you can throw this entire sterotype blanket on everyone? Or maybe you just see some of the people that are too irresponsible for such?Those of us who are in the mental health community know that random sex with uninformed partners is indicative of something else going on and that scorched earth approach to sex is not about respect, it's about destruction.
Huh? You're jumping to countless conclusions here.You chose to turn this in to a debate of "what ifs" instead of reviewing the factual content in what I said. If she has multiple partners and uses protection and is honest with all parties about it, I agree there is little harm. However, that is. Not what she said she is doing. She said she is seeing multiple men and picking up random men...by you're own admission that is unacceptable.
And thus we get to the meat ... you are saying I'm a "white knight." You are jumping to conclusions on me. You are judging me, just like you are judging her.You would have saved face if you had gotten all the facts before you decided to stand up against what you erroneously thought was going on. Ask a question or two before you white knight yourself and take on a cause blindly.
And that's the problem. All I merely questioned was your judgement of her. I am not trying to be a "white knight."