It's definitely better to be dead when people stumble upon your little 'love nest' I would say. At least then you're dead and all of the embarrassment and shame is on and lies within your family, a lack of absolute conciousness then doesn't sound all that bad to be perfectly honest
. To even imagine what happens when your parents, friends or even a new girlfriend (*ahem* yeah right) find the giant rubber human hanging in your closet or as I say on a hook in the basement is just too cringe worthy to fully contemplate. The only thing I can really think of doing if I were in that situation would be to run, hide, change your identity and never go back - to be in the knowledge that the people closest to you know you're actually that pathetic would be too much to bear to be around.
Unless of course you're like the guy in that video who's completely comfortable with other people seeing him with "it," other than having to deal with odd looks and I'm sure he's relatively happy living in his own little fantasy world with his
girl.