Can't wait for "my good friend Stiffy to rip me on this post
With pleasure.
Not just because you're completely vile, your
horrid post about Rikki in the "vs" thread in the wake of my last post of this thread has proven that, since you can't control your need to bang on about her now you're banned from posting in her thread, even though I FUCKING CREATED a
gripes thread for you to get off on that particular line of conversation. Go and post your "sperm depository" crap in there if you must, you disgusting worm.
No, not because of that, but just because you make a fresh asinine statement that I feel compelled to dispel. Although at least in this regard, I'm not the only one that noticed.
Just a guess - I may be wrong - but doubt it because if I had Elizabeth Hurley giving me a BJ at home no way I go on the street and get it from some skank.
Why would you assume the woman is to blame for the man cheating.
Yeah. You would think no stunningly beautiful women that give their beau blowjobs have ever been cheated on. Yeah, they have. Often.
While there are always exceptions, generally when a man cheats it's because he has an impulse control problem and can't keep it in his pants for more than five consecutive minutes. And with him in LA shooting a film, and Hurley back in merry ol' England...
Yes, a man that acts on his impulse to cheat has a problem with self-control. Distance apart, lack of ongoing sex in the relationship and temptation are clearly things that can provoke that impulse. Some people get off on the thrill of doing something wrong, or the chance of being caught. The cheating itself is not a problem, it's a symptom. The actual problem is that
something is wrong in the relationship. That could be anything you want to name. Sexual compatibility/satisfaction is just
part of what matters in a relationship. You could have an Olympic gold medal cocksucker at home, but if you spend the rest of the time hating her for one reason or another, you're going to crave intimacy somewhere else. So you have the option of being a man and leaving, or wanting to keep seeing her for whatever reason (the cocksucking, if you're that shallow) and cheat.
Real life story - my best friend has a long term girlfriend of over four years. He has another girlfriend of nearly two years. Neither know about the other. He has been seeing
another girl for a few months now, who knows about both of his other relationships (and doesn't care). He has regular sex with all of them, and odd as this sounds, I know he's the kind of guy that doesn't hang around too long if he isn't getting everything he likes in the sack, including blowjobs. His cheating/polygamy, from where I stand, is due to deep-rooted insecurity/no self-esteem and the need for such constant validation that when a woman makes it apparent they want him, he
has to act on that, and fuck her.
So yeah, not every guy that gets his dick sucked away from home is doing it because "her indoors" isn't doing it.
For what it's worth, cestmoi2010, you make a valid point that a bigger woman who is happy with her body and confident is fun to be around and will be great fun in bed. But then.... that point is just as true even if you remove the word "bigger."