Kenpo, you currently have so called "negative reputation" on the board. That sentence you mentioned about "relationship" is just a mouse-over text that has no meaning, don't pay attention to it.
You wonder how you can get back to green. Well, in a nutshell, this is how it works: If people like what you post they will give you good rep. You can do that by clicking on the small icon with the X in the lower left hand corner in the field where your username and the red / green dots appear. If people don't like what you post, they can give you bad rep the same way. This is what happened to you. I believe somebody did that to you because you started posting here with a vengeance. It is generally not too popular around here if someone who has just joined starts vposting like a madman, i.e. posting like 20,30 comments without really contributing anything. See what I mean? I think that if you posted some nice link to a gallery that hasn't been linked to before in one of the existing thread (for example the thread about your personal fav porn star), people will appreciate it and give you good rep for that, That's what I usually do. So, if you want to get back to green, post good stuff, interesting stuff, stuff that helps others in their search or something like that.
If you want to see who gave you bad rep, click on "Profile" in the upper left hand corner. There you'll find a list of all rep points accumulated or deducted, along with a comment (if you are lucky). But please do not retaliate against the member who bad repped you. Believe me, this is only going to bring you even deeper into the red. :hatsoff: