Open minded?

[Smallville417]

Do you consider yourself very open minded when it comes to sex? And I don't mean in just what YOU are interested in, but in being accepting of what others might be interested.

There are a lot of things I've never done, never been interested in, and may never do, but when it comes to sex I'm in the camp that if it gets you off, and it is legal and doesn't hurt anyone, go for it. It's not for me to bash what I'm not turned on by. My girlfriend has turned me on to things I wasn't interested in before, and vice versa. It's one thing I LOVE about her, she makes me enjoy sex even more by having me think outside the box.

For whatever reason I expected a forum devoted to porn and sex to be a little more liberal. For instance, I'm not going to get interested in a thread about some guy wanted to be manhandled by another man, but I'm also not going to jump all over the guy. When my girl talks about wanting to have sex with another woman, I consider that hot. Yet I'll never read a thread about how sick it is for a woman to want another woman. I understand this is a board dominated by heterosexual males, and no one wants to read 100 gay threads, but I don't understand the bashing.

And it applies to other subjects, people into swinging, dp's and a host of other things. I think if it's not your thing, no problem. I just think a lot of time people come here to talk about their interests, and end up leaving here thinking if they don't fall into the majority, something is wrong with them.

I've never had that problem. I love this site, and the board, and find most members here entertaining. I just feel sorry for a lot of newbies is all, not that I've been around forever myself.

I'm not attacking anyone, or even telling anyone how to think, react, or feel, just throwing my thoughts out there.

 

[Elektra Knight]

Well, as a newbie here, I caught on pretty fast that most people who post on this forum are here to make jokes and have a good laugh, not really wanting their posts to be taken to heart. It seems all in good fun. However I have seen that when a serious topic comes up everyone does seem to take it serious. :2 cents:

 

[HELLRAISER]

Do you consider yourself very open minded when it comes to sex? And I don't mean in just what YOU are interested in, but in being accepting of what others might be interested.

There are a lot of things I've never done, never been interested in, and may never do, but when it comes to sex I'm in the camp that if it gets you off, and it is legal and doesn't hurt anyone, go for it. It's not for me to bash what I'm not turned on by. My girlfriend has turned me on to things I wasn't interested in before, and vice versa. It's one thing I LOVE about her, she makes me enjoy sex even more by having me think outside the box.

For whatever reason I expected a forum devoted to porn and sex to be a little more liberal. For instance, I'm not going to get interested in a thread about some guy wanted to be manhandled by another man, but I'm also not going to jump all over the guy. When my girl talks about wanting to have sex with another woman, I consider that hot. Yet I'll never read a thread about how sick it is for a woman to want another woman. I understand this is a board dominated by heterosexual males, and no one wants to read 100 gay threads, but I don't understand the bashing.

And it applies to other subjects, people into swinging, dp's and a host of other things. I think if it's not your thing, no problem. I just think a lot of time people come here to talk about their interests, and end up leaving here thinking if they don't fall into the majority, something is wrong with them.

I've never had that problem. I love this site, and the board, and find most members here entertaining. I just feel sorry for a lot of newbies is all, not that I've been around forever myself.

I'm not attacking anyone, or even telling anyone how to think, react, or feel, just throwing my thoughts out there.

It wouldn't be surprising at all to see that a lot of ultra-right wing males here are pretending to be heterosexual and are repressing their bisexuality or homosexuality that's why they pummel anyone here who expresses homoerotic desires or acts

 

[roronoa3000]

Do you consider yourself very open minded when it comes to sex? And I don't mean in just what YOU are interested in, but in being accepting of what others might be interested.

There are a lot of things I've never done, never been interested in, and may never do, but when it comes to sex I'm in the camp that if it gets you off, and it is legal and doesn't hurt anyone, go for it. It's not for me to bash what I'm not turned on by. My girlfriend has turned me on to things I wasn't interested in before, and vice versa. It's one thing I LOVE about her, she makes me enjoy sex even more by having me think outside the box.

For whatever reason I expected a forum devoted to porn and sex to be a little more liberal. For instance, I'm not going to get interested in a thread about some guy wanted to be manhandled by another man, but I'm also not going to jump all over the guy. When my girl talks about wanting to have sex with another woman, I consider that hot. Yet I'll never read a thread about how sick it is for a woman to want another woman. I understand this is a board dominated by heterosexual males, and no one wants to read 100 gay threads, but I don't understand the bashing.

And it applies to other subjects, people into swinging, dp's and a host of other things. I think if it's not your thing, no problem. I just think a lot of time people come here to talk about their interests, and end up leaving here thinking if they don't fall into the majority, something is wrong with them.

I've never had that problem. I love this site, and the board, and find most members here entertaining. I just feel sorry for a lot of newbies is all, not that I've been around forever myself.

I'm not attacking anyone, or even telling anyone how to think, react, or feel, just throwing my thoughts out there.

Cause you started this thread.:rofl:

Well, as a newbie here, I caught on pretty fast that most people who post on this forum are here to make jokes and have a good laugh, not really wanting their posts to be taken to heart. It seems all in good fun. However I have seen that when a serious topic comes up everyone does seem to take it serious.

I pretty much just come here to joke around and say crazy shit I would probably not say in real life.

 

[Death-Proof-69]

i'd have to say i'm pretty open-minded when it comes to sex having participated in several MMF threesomes with my girlfriend...the first couple were admittedly a little awkward but after a little while it was no big deal and it was pretty easy to get into it...now there was no gay and/or bi stuff that went on as male intimacy just isn't something i'm into, but i don't freak out or anything if and when the other guys stuff rubs up on me in the various 2 guys 1 girl sexual acts...however, if my girlfriend decided to bring up the idea of doing stuff that would cause many to question my heterosexuality (which she has recently, we just haven't done anything about it yet) i'd be down, i'd try it at least once unless it was way out there and if i liked it i'd do it again ...........anyway, i have also noticed that about this forum as well, not that its necessarily a bad thing but it was certainly unexpected (i've been going through this forum semi-regularly for quite a while, just haven't always been an active member)

 

[britlover]

I agree with both the original poster and Death Proof69:

Even though I am Heterosexual, I'm a fairly open-minded guy. Sure, I've made some recent posts in the "Things in Porn that are a Turn-Off for you" now almost legendary thread; mostly on how I most certainly DO NOT like the modern adult film world as the industry currently stands (with it's often way too disgusting as fuck sloppy/wet and too raunchy and degradful acts). So as a result I mostly go to the FlashVideo sites that we can't mention on here, and look up my favorite older stars and some much older films from the late '70s and a ton from the '80s and mid '90s that were shot on film or much better interview/early Gonzo work days for a lot of the then younger stars. This was a certain period of porn that I feel that while like any other period it might have had it's flaws (reguardless of age, you'll notice that bad lines of dialogue and of course bad camera angles will abound; hey, it's porn baby), is nowhere near the puddle of often mindless Misogynist, as in the makers must obviously be having nearly a full psychatric mental problem cause of I don't know what 100% tasteless shit is out there these days that chould be worse, ectera.

And yet, even though there is a lot I am not into (so sorry: I just don't "get" BDSM role-playing, as well as the modern Gonzo world with too much moaning and obvious counting-down-until-the-popshot so the actress can get up, wash up heavily, and go sign the check at the next bank so she can shop & consume more as everyone seems to be doing to buy happiness now, ect). However, I simpy learned how to do more refined searches with search engines online, and have learned to stay away from certain assholes vids (such as the early BangBros stuff with too much Sanchez talking, and all of the Facial Abuse.com fuckers; hope they get they'res Max Hardcore style one day. they're find out karma can be a bitch sometimes). To each their own as they say.

But indeed it is WELL worth acknowleding. Sorry but like many others, I to thought this place would be fairly open-minded a lot more. Though I do respect everyone's wishes and tastes. It's the adult film industry after all, and like music ( foreign to you're ears accents) that is produced either indie label, 100% bootleg type or through a more modern major conglomerant label, you'll have people who either only like certain things like me, or a bit of everything. Sort of like an adult Baskin Robbins (31 Flavors). Very well made points to the original poster.

 

[Bloodshot Scott]

Well, as a newbie here, I caught on pretty fast that most people who post on this forum are here to make jokes and have a good laugh, not really wanting their posts to be taken to heart. It seems all in good fun. However I have seen that when a serious topic comes up everyone does seem to take it serious. :2 cents:

Yeah, you gotta be careful around all these locker room perverts, ya know. I'm surprised they haven't all either: scared all the OCSM's off, or dissed them so bad they just all left. :wave2:

 

[roronoa3000]

i'd have to say i'm pretty open-minded when it comes to sex having participated in several MMF threesomes with my girlfriend...the first couple were admittedly a little awkward but after a little while it was no big deal and it was pretty easy to get into it...now there was no gay and/or bi stuff that went on as male intimacy just isn't something i'm into, but i don't freak out or anything if and when the other guys stuff rubs up on me in the various 2 guys 1 girl sexual acts

This is fun.

 

[Elektra Knight]

Yeah, you gotta be careful around all these locker room perverts, ya know. I'm surprised they haven't all either: scared all the OCSM's off, or dissed them so bad they just all left. :wave2:

Yea , but I guess I can hang with the best of them. :nanner:

 

[Death-Proof-69]

This is fun.

meh i'm not gonna lie it's certainly a lil weird and easily seen as questionable, it just doesn't bother me...not too many years ago i honestly would've had a completely different opinion about it all but i'm much more secure with myself than i used to be...i like the pic btw :thumbsup:

britlover, i'm with ya on that about the current porn floating around...i'll check some of it out just to see what its all about but the 'play-rape', max hardcore stuff and all that is a serious turn-off...theres still plenty of good stuff being made but like you said, you have to look harder...i think the biggest problem, like you said, is people just doing it purely for the paycheck and not even trying to enjoy it at all, i realize the check is the whole point of it but IMO it'd make the product alot better if there was more of a connection and mutual enjoyment between the people on camera instead of it being repetitive robotic fucking...

 

[britlover]

britlover, i'm with ya on that about the current porn floating around...i'll check some of it out just to see what its all about but the 'play-rape', max hardcore stuff and all that is a serious turn-off...theres still plenty of good stuff being made but like you said, you have to look harder...i think the biggest problem, like you said, is people just doing it purely for the paycheck and not even trying to enjoy it at all, i realize the check is the whole point of it but IMO it'd make the product alot better if there was more of a connection and mutual enjoyment between the people on camera instead of it being repetitive robotic fucking...

Big thanks on the agreement.

There is most certianly a slightly much more uncomfortable pigg-ish nature to the Gonzo world, as well as the major distributors who are producing they're own stuff. And the online world as well. There is an extra layer or even two or so of grime & too sleaziness to the adult film industry that has changed over the last ten or so years, that I feel it hasn't fully recovered from. Indeed there is simply too much "robot-fucking-just-for-the-check" female stars, as well as very questionable, often too brutal (ahem) "gentlemen", heavily tattoo'd up, and often "biker dudes" type leather-clad guys, who often look like as I recently said they just got done doing some pretty serious jail time.

And as we both said, if you learn how to use your favorite FlashVideo site's search engine very well with refinded searches, then you can always find your favorite things that'll get you off much sooner (since in the end, the adult film industry are the makers of fantasy film producets and little oddball projects; nothing more) these days. And as I stated, I'm a fairly open-minded guy but indeed: just can't tolerate overly rough play that wasn't seemingly in the business until over night a few years back, and only now seems acceptbale, and of course Max Hardcore-style "Take my under-sized cock while I spit on you and tell you what a cute lil' fucking school girl whore you are!" and continuing to abuse them type shit. You just KNOW with the few clips of that type of stuff that you've clicked on out of morid curiosity (such as the fat-fuck guy who obsessed over Icelandic musician Bijork and later killed himself on tape, or the whole 2Girls1Cup thing) that you'll probably regret it later. Glad many more these days are agreeing with me.

And fine points. But yet another thing is the checks & money. Women have of course always gotten paid in their choosen film in the industry, but back then, they sure as shit made a HELL of a lot better projects that they worked on. Since they were often the 'leaders' of the scenes and over all shot on 35mm films. Go back and watch some of the late '70s to mid '90s stuff that you yourself personally dig and fancy. And you'll immdiately notice that many of them just didn't get into it to possibly pay for a boyfriend in rehap, or to fuel they're own cocaine addiction and shopping sprees in the valley, ect. Many of them seem'd like they actually WANTED to be there and to have fun and to get off sexually on top of it, getting paid for something they know they're good at & enjoy. But to each their own. I don't wanna take nothing away from anyone. Just overall found the industry A LOT more sensual and romantisized and they seem'd to "try" more back in the mid '90s studio film days.

 

[jod0565]

There's a saying I invented a long time ago - "To each, his own."

 

[StanScratch]

I could care less what others do in their bedroom, just what I am doing in mine. Yes, I like to watch what others are doing in their bedrooms - and will pick and choose what I personally enjoy, but I don't think it is the right of any man to suppress the sexual activities of others. Yes, there are little Big Brothers out there who believe that the small-minded god they created parallels their own view, but those few are quickly dying out.
In other words, live and let live and stop fretting what others are doing in their own privacy.

 

[jinxypie]

I love understanding other fetishes, even if I don't want to participate in them myself. I'm open to discussing something that a guy wants to try, and most of the time it's not outrageous, just something they've seen on a porn video and want to try for themselves. Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't. I'm not going to turn someone away just because they have some weird fetish... heck, some guy bought me one of those wedding dress lingerie outfits and wanted to pretend like it was our wedding night. The shoot didn't happen due to scheduling conflicts, but I still took pics in the lingerie... it was his fantasy, not mine, but I was willing to play along.

As far as being open minded, with cuckolding I have very few places to turn. Lots of people suggest that I try to hang out with those in the swinger scene. Problem is, they think what I am doing is freakishly weird. So, what about the people into D/s? They think worse of people like me! So where do I go??? I don't fit into anyone's little box of "you're cool, come hang with us". Really sucks sometimes.

 

[Bloodshot Scott]

Yea , but I guess I can hang with the best of them. :nanner:

Be careful what you wish for. :shy: We're a dirty bunch, we really are. The rumors are true...

 

[Icewater Jones]

I love this board because nobody has to be real, not even with themselves. I think it would be hilarious to see the thread activity of some some of the members who love to bash other members and their particular fetishes. You look at how many fetish threads get bashed by so-called open minded members have like 12-20 posts, but 1800 views. C'mon man, some folks just need to stop drawing lines in the sand that they know damn well they would love to cross.

 

[Lust]

i gotta admit, when i first arrived to freeone's i was really surprised by how judgmental people were on alternative sexual lifestyles.

it was this discovery as to why i decided not to ever mention my alien sex slave i captured on planet Zapismo in the Orgillian Constellation. As far as I know, no one has yet to discover this and I intend to keep it that way less i be judged severely by fellow FO members.

 

[JayJohn85]

 

[Smallville417]

I love this board because nobody has to be real, not even with themselves. I think it would be hilarious to see the thread activity of some some of the members who love to bash other members and their particular fetishes. You look at how many fetish threads get bashed by so-called open minded members have like 12-20 posts, but 1800 views. C'mon man, some folks just need to stop drawing lines in the sand that they know damn well they would love to cross.

Agreed. I've thought about posting this topic for a while, with each thread bashing I come across. One reason my girlfriend and I love each other so much is because we can talk about anything regarding sex, completely open our minds without the other person judging one another. I've changed the way she looks at certain things, and I've done the same.

I enjoy hearing others discussing what interests them, especially stuff I'm curious about like threesomes, swinging, etc...It doesn't mean I will do anything of these things, but it's fascinating to me, and I enjoy finding out a little bit of the mindset of the people into these things. Certain things get me and my girlfriend onto very interesting conversations, even if they may be fantasies that only stay in our minds.

I've already crossed a couple of lines with my girlfriend I never thought I would, and it has made sex 100 times more enjoyable.

Again, I don't think people have to love the alternative things others are into, I just don't understand how anything that doesn't fit into the "norm" makes you a freak or gay. And even if it does make you a freak, or gay, who cares. Sometimes it just seems to be very conservative around here, which is very surprising to me on a site filled with porn lovers and porn stars.

It's still a lot of fun around here, and I get a few laughs every single day that I come on here, the humor is great.

 

[lurkingdirk]

I hope everyone takes every word I write here seriously and literally.

And by every word I mean none. And by seriously I mean not at all. And by literally I mean pudding cups.

So, to sum up, I hope everyone takes none word I write here not at all and pudding cups.














This is a porn forum. I write a lot of stupid stuff here. Please, don't take me or ANYONE seriously. Have fun. If you don't like the post or the thread, just move on. There isn't a shortage of stuff to look at or read on FreeOnes.