I posted a comment on
www.guntotingliberal.com ref. to the Ashley Dupre' scandel..My message was meant for her to read.If you have MySpace and can send it to her I would appreciate it.For those who are under a rock or out of the U.S...Just google her name and you can read the story.But a short version..SHe was busted recently for excepting $ for sex with a politician(Shock me).Let me kno what u think of my posting.Which is below....
I am in the adult industry.Except I work legally and pay my taxes on it.Here’s my take on this situation..Of course I believe prostitution should be legal everywhere.We’ve all heard the reasons why..If it’s regulated,the ladies will be tested one time a week for several STD’s,there will be security present to protect the women and the “Trick”,and the gov’t will get their money.
I have no problem with Ashley Dupre selling her ass(Let’s be blunt here) because I worked at a legal brothel when I was younger,I was a porn actress for many years and was featured in over 25 films,posed in numerous magazines nude,worked as a stripper,did phone sex and webcam sex for work,you name it…
When people ask me why I chose this line of work I did say,”If I didn’t come from such a fucked up upbringing,I am sure I would have chose a different route.I went to college and got a degree and a career and I STILL work as a stripper.I have no sympathy for someone such as Miss Dupre’,who cries,”Poor me,I have an apt. that costs thousands of dollars a month and I can’t pay my rent.
“And,”Poor me,I had a terrible childhood so that’s why I am a ho.” I can say this because I was a legal ho,and I mentioned all the other lines of work I did.And those who feel that sex for $ is prostitution,then when I did porn I was a ho.I don’t care what you call me.If I cared,I wouldn’t have done that line of work.
I own it.I am not in denial and I never was.That’s why so many people that knew me respected what I did,and what I had to say.Women that marry rich men and don’t work are whore’s too.That would be sex for money.If your husband(Who is rich and sometimes ugly) lost all his money,would you stay with him? Doubt it,you would find another.
The women on my favorite reality show,”Housewives of N.Y.”..The redhead with the old and unattractive husband,”Bobby”..You think she thinks her husband is super hot?You think if he lost his millions she would still be with him? Never.I have never had anyone support me financially as an adult.My message to Dupre’…
You are a beautiful women on the outside indeed.Hopefully on the inside as well.I only wish I made that kind of $ when I was in the brothel..AFter reading on the internet,it’s obvious that you too are a fan of,”The Secret”.I live by that book and dvd.So, good for you.But please don’t use your f&$ked up childhood as an excuse for your illeagal activity.
You know you can be a stripper or porn actress if you are really that desperate.Then you are within the legal limits.If you are desperate and afraid of being homeless you can start off my moving out of Manahattan(One of the most expensive cities in the U.S. next to San Francisco and L.A.).Then you can find a roomate,and an apt. that costs a few hundred a month.I lived in the cities I just named for you and I have never paid more than $1000 a month for rent.And I lived alone some of those times.I don’t have to be a stripper because I have a career that can pay my bills.
But I too like to have nice things,travel,I spend alot of beauty each month.But I don’t tell people that I am still stripping because of the abuse I encountered.I am actually still stripping because I am lazy as hell when it comes from work.,I love not having a schedule,and going out of town whenever i want.ANd the articles mention that you are quoting,”I moved here because I am a struggling musician”..Who isnt? I too am a musician.My songs ended up on a successful DJ’s cd after I sent him files to his country.
With file sending now,there is no excuse.You don’t HAVE to live in NY or L.A to make it.Ashley,I am 11 years older than you.I was in this industry long before you.That’s why I am offering this advice to you..Please dont play the porr me card.I am willing to mentor you and help you in any way.I will raise a benefit if you needed me to.I have done alot of good for the communities I have lived in.I know musicians and people in the business that can help you.
So if I sound mean,just understand that I am strong women who blames noone but myself for the career paths I have chosen.I have been on meds for my mental disorder for 12 years.I spend alot on medication,psychiatry,psychology,and health insurance.My work is a big part of why I am still struggling mentally.But I know I can get out anytime.I am a grown women and I still choose to stay in an industry that hurts me emotionally.I am beating myself up.I wish you all the best.I hope you get out of this situation a free women.Obviously all this publicity has given you positive fame as well.
But you know what,now that everyone knows what line of work you are/were in..Your safety is at stake.I have experienced several unfortunate events because people look at me different because of the adult industry.One of those events was recently.We cannot tell women,”It’s o.k. that you sold your ass because you were raped as a child,but tell the prostitute who came from the rich perfect family that it isnt o.k.,they should have known”.
You are not any better of a prostitute because you are pretty and talented.To society,you are just a whore.Currently I am dealing with a legal case of my unfort. event and finding that to the legal system..I am just another stripper.I always quote this with sarcasm,”Noone cares about a dead stripper”.I feel that society would care about my case if I was a doctor with out a night job.I would get justice then.ANd for more help,I will let you live with me for a free for a few months till you get a legal job and your shit together.Iv been doing years of volunteer work.I am currently helping out at an org. that helps women.Why not do something nice for others.It’s good karma.I get the feeling I can do alot to help you.ANd that you and I would get along fantastically.If I were you I would be really careful about playing on MySPace.Everything will come up in court.And those on your friends list may get questioned.I read about that happeneing before.I am not on MySPace so I cannot emil this to you.Maybe someone else can.If not,you can check out my posting on
www.freeones.com .Search for postings by N
e e s a .I am not out to make a buck.I don’t have a website that I sell my vids and stuff on.Just want to help you from one former ho to another.Damn I got balls.Read my postings and you will get the idea as what type of person I am.Good luck to you .
N on March 13th, 2008
