Need some advice.

[system_15]

My best friend is having issues with his girlfriend. No this isn't me I know how it looks, anyway...they've been together for 3 years, have a little one and have had a very solid relationship. They do brag about their sex life and how great it is, but he came to me yesterday rather flustered.

He said they haven't been sleeping together a lot recently. Only 3 times in April. He said she told him that it doesn't feel good anymore, he asks for it too much (which I know is crap because this girl grabs his package in public and in front of friends) and he's said that she has generally lost interest in sex altogether.

I gave him the normal talk and all, but I'm curious as to others opinions because I have a bad feeling, but I don't want to upset him.

If anyone could shed some light on this with their own opinion I'd be grateful.

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

Maybe he's not doing anything to put her in the mood anymore. Maybe he's gotten fat or has otherwise become less attractive to her. Maybe he's been getting selfish in bed. Maybe if it doesn't feel good it's a medical issue that she needs to have it checked out, since there are certain conditions that can cause a loss of sensitivity or an uncomfortable increase in it. Maybe she's having an affair. Maybe she thinks he's having an affair. Maybe she's put on a few pounds and isn't comfortable with her body anymore. Maybe she's tired from having to deal with the kid. Maybe anything. It could be just about anything. He needs to talk to her about this. She's the one with the answers.

 

[Mayhem]

Maybe she has a tumor.

 

[xfire]

Sounds like a typical blow-off. My guess is she's lost interest in the relationship and is ready to move on. Worst case scenario she's already fucking some other dude, he's starting to get jealous of the current boyfriend and is pressuring her not to have sex with him. I'd just beat the bitch to the punch and dump her ass.

 

[Mr_Balls]

Ecstacy?

Maybe bondage?

 

[Mr. Hyde]

Maybe she has a tumor.

 

[Jack Davenport]

The correct answer in a scenario like this is always


Bath Salts

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

The correct answer in a scenario like this is always


Bath Salts

Wait, do you mean he should buy her some, because women like to get soaps and things as gifts and that might put her in the mood? Or do you mean that she's been smoking some and that explains her behavior? Or are you suggesting he SHOULD smoke some, because then he won't care? Because two out of three of those scenarios could end with an undesirable amount of cannibalism.

 

[gunslingingbird]

Maybe your friend has small dick syndrome, and she's been fucked by a big dick bastard for 20 hours straight after her plane crash landed on a desert island and she was kidnapped by a tribe of pygmies.

/zdenka

 

[Ace Boobtoucher]

It might be SUPER AIDS. PM M12, he knows about that shit.

 

[Harley Spencer]

Maybe he's not doing anything to put her in the mood anymore. Maybe he's gotten fat or has otherwise become less attractive to her. Maybe he's been getting selfish in bed. Maybe if it doesn't feel good it's a medical issue that she needs to have it checked out, since there are certain conditions that can cause a loss of sensitivity or an uncomfortable increase in it. Maybe she's having an affair. Maybe she thinks he's having an affair. Maybe she's put on a few pounds and isn't comfortable with her body anymore. Maybe she's tired from having to deal with the kid. Maybe anything. It could be just about anything. He needs to talk to her about this. She's the one with the answers.

Exactly this.

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

My gut reaction was "she's cheating" simply because that's what happened to me when my ex suddenly went cold after 4 great years, but then [NOBABE]the voice[/NOBABE] of reason kicked in :

Maybe he's not doing anything to put her in the mood anymore. Maybe he's gotten fat or has otherwise become less attractive to her. Maybe he's been getting selfish in bed. Maybe if it doesn't feel good it's a medical issue that she needs to have it checked out, since there are certain conditions that can cause a loss of sensitivity or an uncomfortable increase in it. Maybe she's having an affair. Maybe she thinks he's having an affair. Maybe she's put on a few pounds and isn't comfortable with her body anymore. Maybe she's tired from having to deal with the kid. Maybe anything. It could be just about anything. He needs to talk to her about this. She's the one with the answers.

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[lurkingdirk]

You should suggest he kill himself immediately.

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

[NOBABE]Oh shit... I'm the voice of reason? Man, this place is fucked![/NOBABE]

 

[Mayhem]

[NOBABE]Oh shit... I'm the voice of reason? Man, this place is fucked![/NOBABE]

It's not as much reason as it is you're Canadian which, by definition, means you have a firmer grasp on your feminine side. What the other women are thinking, a good chick flick, the latest in hair highlighting; these are your schtick, you milieu, your (dare I say) raison d'être.

BTW, we'll need a Real Wives update at your earliest convenience.

 

[Ace Boobtoucher]

raison d'être.

You homo.

 

[lurkingdirk]

You homo.

You want him. That much is plain.

 

[fkknuckle]

She's getting cranked down by some other dude.

 

[VeronicaVice]

Sounds like a typical blow-off. My guess is she's lost interest in the relationship and is ready to move on. Worst case scenario she's already fucking some other dude, he's starting to get jealous of the current boyfriend and is pressuring her not to have sex with him. I'd just beat the bitch to the punch and dump her ass.

Sadly, this is plausible.
Wouldn't beat the bitch tho

 

[288gto]

-she might be cheating him
-she might have a secret she doesn't want him to know in sake of love
- his sexual skills has fallen down
and lot's other reasons, maybe they both gotta sit and have a honest talk.