My girlfriend, future wife, future mother of my kids...
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Wow...that's very interesting. Anyways, glad you did what you felt was right.
She was very pretty. Her hair always pulled back in a cute little pony tail. Her tight pink shirts. I'll miss her.
Though I am just assuming she was a gold-digger, or maybe I am trying to convince myself she was. I have no evidence that she was. She never asked anything material for me.
I miss her.
Though I am just assuming she was a gold-digger, or maybe I am trying to convince myself she was. I have no evidence that she was. She never asked anything material for me.
I miss her.
My wife and mother of 3 kids is the same kind of girl as the OPs girl. I've discussed this with her at length, and stated that the if it requires an effort by both of us for each of us to be happy, in the bedroom as well as marriage in general. I've explained that I'd never fool around on her if I'm happy in the bedroom. The points I've made to her were these:
1. She has been forewarned...if I'm not happy in the bedroom and I cheat on her, it is as much her fault as mine, since she failed at her end regarding the team effort towards happiness.
2. What exactly does that state about her desiring happiness in the bedroom and our life together, if a total stranger is willing to attempt to please me moreso than my own wife.
1. She has been forewarned...if I'm not happy in the bedroom and I cheat on her, it is as much her fault as mine, since she failed at her end regarding the team effort towards happiness.
2. What exactly does that state about her desiring happiness in the bedroom and our life together, if a total stranger is willing to attempt to please me moreso than my own wife.
if you really love her than stay but if you don't than hit it and quit it
It sounds like your "girlfriend" might not have reached puberty? Seriously, she doesn't seem to have matured much....then again...this is like a 2 yr old thread. Maybe call her back up and see if her opinions about sex have changed? (Girls aren't supposed to have any control?Huh? She thought that?)
I think oral sex and exploration is actually one arena where porn can be of help. If you ever find yourself in a situation like this again...maybe rent a few BJ vids, buy some candles, watch the vids with her with the lights out...and see if your girl just needs a few performance ideas/tricks...
I think oral sex and exploration is actually one arena where porn can be of help. If you ever find yourself in a situation like this again...maybe rent a few BJ vids, buy some candles, watch the vids with her with the lights out...and see if your girl just needs a few performance ideas/tricks...
Maybe she had a bad experience with oral? Some girls have really awful experiences and it kinda scars them and makes them not wanna do it again? I dunno. Ask her whats up. Maybe she wants to make sure your penor is clean...and if so, have a bath with her and clean it in front of her. Maybe she's turned off by the thought of you nutting in her mouth...if so, tell her that you don't need to cum in her mouth, just have her bring you to orgasm and have her finish you off by hand. Maybe oral just hurts for her...I know personally, I love doing it, but after a few minutes my neck and throat get sore...believe it or not boys, its alot more work to go down on a guy than it is going down on a girl...and trust me, I've done both, so yes I know.
Just have an open dialogue with her and figure out why she doesn't wanna do it. And once you figure it out, do what it takes to ease her fears...and don't pressure her. Thats the biggest way to turn any woman off.
Just have an open dialogue with her and figure out why she doesn't wanna do it. And once you figure it out, do what it takes to ease her fears...and don't pressure her. Thats the biggest way to turn any woman off.
That sounds like a ticking time bomb. Good luck with it but for the rest of us I think it is a very cogent cautionary tale explaining that no matter how much you "love" someone, if the fucking and sucking ain't no good then it will eventually strain a relationship beyond repair.
Ashli Orion
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a lot of girls don't like giving head, it's very rare to find a girl like myself who LOVES giving head. so if you love her you should probably keep her because chances are it will be hard to find a girl who loves sucking cock. what you should do is teach her to love sucking cock 
start off with a banana... let her practice...
the i think u may want to try something like putting whipped cream or chocolate syrup all over your cock so that she can lick it off
she will soon realize that sucking cock is very fun!
if all else fails, get her drunk!
start off with a banana... let her practice...
the i think u may want to try something like putting whipped cream or chocolate syrup all over your cock so that she can lick it off
she will soon realize that sucking cock is very fun!
if all else fails, get her drunk!
it seems like such a shame for any genitals of any living being to not have the holy hell sucked out of them..............it is just appropriate and right
It feels strange to say so, but fellatio does kind of strike me as a minimum requirement for an acceptable monogamous sex life - at least if she expects monogamy! I can understand that a woman may feel it's unfair that a guy complains about the WAY a girl sucks his cock, but if she refuses to even give it an honest try? That seems problematic to me.
I know that even before I was in a monogamous relationship the idea was to be "game" for doing whatever was necessary with your partner to please her. I've never licked a lady's asshole (at least not in any intense or deep way), but if a girl I was with was clean and really desired it, I'm sure I wouldn't hesitate. I actually GET OFF when I know that I'm getting the girl off - and I know I'm not alone in this!
I know that even before I was in a monogamous relationship the idea was to be "game" for doing whatever was necessary with your partner to please her. I've never licked a lady's asshole (at least not in any intense or deep way), but if a girl I was with was clean and really desired it, I'm sure I wouldn't hesitate. I actually GET OFF when I know that I'm getting the girl off - and I know I'm not alone in this!
a lot of girls don't like giving head, it's very rare to find a girl like myself who LOVES giving head. so if you love her you should probably keep her because chances are it will be hard to find a girl who loves sucking cock. what you should do is teach her to love sucking cock
start off with a banana... let her practice...
the i think u may want to try something like putting whipped cream or chocolate syrup all over your cock so that she can lick it off
she will soon realize that sucking cock is very fun!
if all else fails, get her drunk!
will follow that advice :wave2:
Some people find it discusting.. You should respect that and if you really loved her then it wouldn't matter!
I can't BELIEVE you are thinking of leaving her because she wont give you oral.. :/ That is so shallow.
I can't BELIEVE you are thinking of leaving her because she wont give you oral.. :/ That is so shallow.
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Put some cool whip on your dick.
