Women v. beautiful women v. Playmates?
Another angle on it is this: it's a fantasy issue. Most of us can easily go out and find a sex partner. But how many of us have ever had sex with a girl the calibre of a Playmate?
I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with the "calibre of a Playmate" phrase. I've met a lot of beautiful women on this planet, and have heavily favored a few rare, select Playmates in my time. But I really think it's more "built up lust" combined with celebrity that drives most men.
Most men, after sleeping with an actress or Playmate (more so in the former than the latter) find themselves waking up with a different woman. Why? The conquest removes that pent-up lust and anticipation, which probably and eventually exceeded in assumption than the reality that came to pass.
In all honesty, the more celebrity, the more my "logic" balances that out. Sure, if I wanted to look like a stud with a woman on my arm, that's about all I can get out of it that's "special." But I've honestly worked with so many beautiful women in my time, I really don't ogle such celebrity any more than others.
There are curves everywhere I look, about 1 out of every 100 women are just knock outs, and 1 out of 1,000 are just as good as my all-time favorite Playmates like
Patricia Farinelli,
Karen Price and
Miriam Gonzales. In fact, I was totally absorbed with
Petra Verkaik (the women who single-handedly caused me to switch back to busty, curvy brunettes) doesn't appeal to me nearly as much as some women I meet.
Heck, people lust over blond Playmates like
Pamela Anderson and
Jenny McCarthy, when so many lesser known blondes like
Nadine Chanz just blow them the fuck away. And there are women around just like her, and even better.
I have had sex with only three women whom I would even consider sitting at the same table with a Playmate. So it's more of a vouyerism thing than a sex thing--like back in the 80s with the "Rich Lifestyle" shows, and people were getting off watching rich people's lavish lifestyles. Porn is just fantasy and release. Playmate porn would be lavish fantasy and release. Incidentally, I would choose
Giuliana Marino
Hmmm, I guess I can understand that more. To me, it's really not about the celebrity status and the enchantment. It's been a very long time since I've even been infactuated with a celebrity (I'd have to go back to my early teens). My fantasy is in the body of a woman, and any special recognition of and by others factors in none.
In fact, the more beautiful and unknown she is, the more she appeals to me at times. It's more than being about "less competition," but more about her not assuming anything. It's really wonderful to me a completely, drop-dead, gorgeous woman who is so relatively under-appreciated. Sure, some thinl she's pretty, but they really don't see that if she went down to her local "Glamour Shots" (not a good example of a good photography outlet, but I'm just using it for name recognition), she'd knock the fucking socks off of everyone.
Sure, I lust for
ERC,
Shay Laren and, probably the most ideal form in a popular, glamour beauty,
Jelena Jensen. But if I'm looking for some of the best, tight curves, I think
Bettie Ballhaus is too perfect, and there are just too many women out there like her (even with a cup size or two less). How about
Vanessa from
Score, the babe in
Natural Wonders of the World 1?
Now that's before I even start touching on my fuller types.
Chloe Vevrier has probably the most unreal and extreme, but tight body I've ever seen.
Nadine Jansen's wide figure is an absolute dream all around too.
Yoko Matsugane at her fullest is just pure lust in my book.
Kerry Marie (before she reached her recent, overly-plump state) is probably the best face-body combination ever in my book, my type of supermodel (God I love that little Greek ancestry that comes out in her).
Cassandra's H/C really made me jack off like nothing else, and she is heavily under-appreciated for her extreme beauty (at least before going platinum and losing too much weight).
Aneta Buena's small midsection between her wide and powerful hips/thighs as well as wide chest with massive breasts is another (even the breasts aside). And then there's countless, other
Voluptuous magazine models like
Nicole Peters that just extremely delight.
But even the rare, "softer" woman really gets me. So many are spoon/pear-shaped, but there is always that rare, extreme hourglass BBW that is just unbeatable. I'd have to pick
Maria Moore as a dream, even though she's a BBW and you can see the fat bulges in places. And then there are the stocky, apple-hourglass dreams like
Annie Swanson and
Devyn Devine, the latter being much like the woman I married. They
never make it into modeling or Playmate status, period, but are so fucking hot and overlooked (until they are in directly in front of most men
).
But they don't even have to be super-busty for their frame, although I expect them to have some curves up and down in proportion. Or even "softer" curves are everywhere, and just as sweet, even if they mainstream modeling wouldn't touch them. Just too many women like that on-the-street.