So here it is as I lay it down for all y'all. I was at the local billiards hall tonight just about ready to go as a friend was paying for our time there when I noticed two ladies out there with another girl in their party waiting for a pool table to open up. They were both looking amazing. Both were easily over 5' 6" in height and one was a brunette with 36D/25-26/35 measurements while the other was a redhead with 36C/24/34 measurements. And I didn't speak to either to them no matter how much my mind was trying to even get myself to say hello. Damn but I feel not stupid about it but more that my game is rusty. Nothing feels calibrated or honed anymore. It all feels like a mess. Probably will never see either girl again. Oh well, just thought I'd share this little war story with you ladies and gentlemen who still play the game of love and romance and dating as I do. Until next time I am out!
Man, I guess I am quite rusty...
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I hear you Rare. I just spent a good two hours talking to a busty redhead and got tired of the mixed signals. Cut to the car ride home when my friend tells me she said "I owe you guys and apology, your friend is pushing all the right buttons". Well fuck you Red! I'll play the games for only so long. After that your tired ass married friend and my tired for bed car ride are pushing me to go. Oh, Morrisey where is your CD when I need it?
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Yeah, but thats it. Sometimes when I meet this girl, I'm usually the first to make the move on her. I mean when I tell her stuff thats real about me, because she asks for it. She thinks that I'm a fake person. I won't get into the situation as I'm not here to brag nor flaunt.
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It probably didn't help getting your tape measure out and noting down there sizes
but I know what you mean, i have been married, engaged a number of times, and never been single since i was 18 and i don't have a clue how i did it because I have no game plan and useless at chat up lines to a point that i don't ever use them. it can be hard to create the opportunity without it seeming like a cheesy 'come on'.
I agree with not playing their games also, it bugs me all that hot and cold mind games stuff, if I'm played like that i just literally walk off and put it down to a lucky escape.
Just have to realise that no matter how good looking someone is or isn't if you don't get on with them so that the 'click' is obvious to both of you then its probably a waste of time.:2 cents:
Zoso, much kudos to you my friend. Morrissey Rules:glugglug:
cabey said:It probably didn't help getting your tape measure out and noting down there sizes
but I know what you mean, i have been married, engaged a number of times, and never been single since i was 18 and i don't have a clue how i did it because I have no game plan and useless at chat up lines to a point that i don't ever use them. it can be hard to create the opportunity without it seeming like a cheesy 'come on'.
I agree with not playing their games also, it bugs me all that hot and cold mind games stuff, if I'm played like that i just literally walk off and put it down to a lucky escape.
Just have to realise that no matter how good looking someone is or isn't if you don't get on with them so that the 'click' is obvious to both of you then its probably a waste of time.:2 cents:
Zoso, much kudos to you my friend. Morrissey Rules:glugglug:
I get what you're saying but understand: I've been to many places in my life, seen many women of all shapes and sizes (not to mention seen a lot of Net pron not just on my own comp but on other comps from past LAN parties I went to) so in a sense how I do put this: I don't need to pull the tape measure, I can tell by just looking at a woman and visually detecting by certain factors what's what regarding measurements. That and having an advanced Terminator-like photographic memory doesn't hurt in terms of me doing that either. I can also say I never use pick up lines or "icebreakers" either. In fact, I've never used one. Tonight though, it was a matter of me just wanting to simply say hello to them and maybe a little mindless chit-chat and I couldn't even bring myself to do that.
I think you're fine, some women are just that way ...
Well, it was rare that I went for women that were thinner with sizes 36/24/36 or tighter. I was typically oogling the wider, even if very slender/fit, babe that was 38-42/26-30/38-42. A woman that would have to be anorexic to be 36/24/36 and a size 6, but was very healthy at a size 10+ with increased dimensions.
I didn't have many issues back then, typically because I saw the immense beauty on a woman that was allegedly 2-4" "beyond standard" for most men -- especially when they were very slender and fit, just built by God differently. I also typically saw my desire the moment I first scanned the room, locked eyes and didn't bother to go for a "consolation prize" if she didn't bite (which only makes a second girl question why she wasn't your first choice). Now today, I'm no where near as athletic as I was when I was younger and dating, so I doubt I'd have that much luck today.
Well, it was rare that I went for women that were thinner with sizes 36/24/36 or tighter. I was typically oogling the wider, even if very slender/fit, babe that was 38-42/26-30/38-42. A woman that would have to be anorexic to be 36/24/36 and a size 6, but was very healthy at a size 10+ with increased dimensions.
I didn't have many issues back then, typically because I saw the immense beauty on a woman that was allegedly 2-4" "beyond standard" for most men -- especially when they were very slender and fit, just built by God differently. I also typically saw my desire the moment I first scanned the room, locked eyes and didn't bother to go for a "consolation prize" if she didn't bite (which only makes a second girl question why she wasn't your first choice). Now today, I'm no where near as athletic as I was when I was younger and dating, so I doubt I'd have that much luck today.
You guys are lucky though. Women think i'm usually fake, least the ones i met in person. At least you guys have actually been in love. I guess its me that needs changing.
I mean I'm usually the joke of the dating business. A HS sweetheart told me that her friend had a crush on me. When i approached her friend and asked her if it was true. She would truthfully reply a "no". If the friend had said a "yes", i'd actually admit i had a crush on her as well.
Maybe I should just give up on the dating business. Maybe I was born to be the single wannabe goth. Or maybe I was meant to be pushed around by girls so much, that I'd give up on love all together.
*Sigh* why do women hate me so much?
I mean I'm usually the joke of the dating business. A HS sweetheart told me that her friend had a crush on me. When i approached her friend and asked her if it was true. She would truthfully reply a "no". If the friend had said a "yes", i'd actually admit i had a crush on her as well.
Maybe I should just give up on the dating business. Maybe I was born to be the single wannabe goth. Or maybe I was meant to be pushed around by girls so much, that I'd give up on love all together.
*Sigh* why do women hate me so much?
Well, I haven't dated anyone but my (now) wife for over a dozen years.Asian Knight said:
My younger brother has told me of the stories of younger women these days, and they clearly seem immature and even psychotic sometimes.
Women play games like that to see what you'd say.Asian Knight said:
Sometimes they do it to see if they are "better" than you -- such as if you told her friend you like dher.
Sad thing is that they LOSE a lot of "good guys" as a result.
Or maybe you should not worry so much, and just be yourself.Asian Knight said:
In all honesty, from what I've seen from my brother and select friends, it's gotten really bad in the last decade.
Your male.Asian Knight said:
om3ga said:I never used to go out thinking "I'm gonna pull tonight". Just enjoy the night out - and most importantly, be yourself.
Attempting to act
Great advice - imo. Never, never go looking. Just let it happen.
Easier said then done though.
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