This is a very interesting thread to me as I love humiliation and domination. I prefer seeing women owned, but occasionally seeing a woman completely dominate a man is hot too.
It has taken me years to get over the guilt I first experienced when looking at porn, but I've finally come to accept that the fantasies I indulge in do not make me a bad person. Now, is there something wrong with a person who is either sadistic or masochistic? Perhaps. I mean, I expect any day now that the world is going to cock an eyebrow at Japan and say, "Wtf is up with you people?" Still, I find it hot. Maybe I've been warped, maybe I was born a sicko (my father, I later found out, is into rape fantasies), but I'm through beating myself up over fantasies. In real life, I'm quite attentive to my girlfriend's needs and am always afraid I'll hurt her (this is straight sex, we don't do anything rough). I deplore actual rape and feel awful for those girls in porn who act against their will, yet for some reason I still get off on the rough fantasies.
In the film "I Am A Sex Addict," the guy gets off on what he calls a prostitute's "totally unconvincing delivery of the line 'rape me.'" Not sure why, but that willingness to spout whoreish lines gets me off too. I don't care if it's convincing or unconvincing. In Japanese porn, the girls' crying is so fake it's a joke, but the act is still somehow a turn on. I guess I'm sick, but once I got over the guilt (religious and the kind some of you pull on people), I realized aside from this bizarre indulgence, there's nothing really wrong with me. It might not be "normal" but fighting fetishes just perpetuates the conservative and repressive mind-fuck that probably caused these quirks in the first god-damned place.