I didn't at you, just at the whole thing. Everyone is entitled to their own feelings and thoughts yes. Just like you I am straight, have no intention of changing either. I do however stir watching two women together and admit it. Doesn't make me want to run out and become a lesbian though. Its a sensual stir, a moment, a visual stimulation. A woman masturbating is hot as hell as well as a man doing it is. I don't get the double standard, no I don't. Men expect us to get excited about two women yet if we mention two men its perverted sick and gay.
I don’t get it either. I’m straight yet will bring that “woman on woman” dirty talk thing to the mix to up the ante because I know it excites him, as well as myself. If I would really do it in real life has never come about and has nothing to do with the discussion of masturbation. Anyway, my last partner wouldn’t hear of anything to do with him and another man in the same room, not even in fantasy. Double standard hard at work again.
I personally don’t think its fair for men to think we should think women with women are hot (and I do), but men with men is sick perverted and not a turn on. Surprise, while gay porn is not my thing. The thoughts of a man watching another jerk off or jerking one another off is hot as hell. HOT NOT GAY!!
The whole homophobic thing is in the mind of the individual. I know I’m straight, but don’t deny that watching women together is hot. I would never question myself or who I am because of a momentary feeling of lust. I love watching porn stars in masturbation clips. Any masturbation is hot, doesn’t mean I want women or prefer them. Only that I appreciate them. Gay is gay, its a preference for men sexually and emotionally. It is not sitting in the same room watching your friend jerk off or your dick getting hard if you see a MMF movie and one dude starts stroking the other. That makes you sensual (sexually sensitive) not gay. Hot is hot.
It is the way of the world as you say and
nothing will change that, it has been passed down from man to boy for generations. The “macho” state of mind, "if you think this way it will make you gay," but it doesn’t make it right. Only makes it exist and show on the books.