Is my sister acting like a slut? she is 16 and been with 6 men already?

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I wanted your opinion on this:


She is 16 years old.

When she was 11/12 she started giving oral to men, when she was 15 she was even after a married man in his 40s.

Also while being 15 she had oral sex with her dads cousin who was 31 and an alcoholic

She was going out with a lad who was on drugs she stayed with him for a while, trying for a baby luckily it didnt happen.

She was also cheating on him with her ex boyfriend and having sex with him when she could.

She is now also seeing a lad who has got 2 kids and a missus.

She has had one night stand with people, she has slept with 6 people in total, most of them were older than her, one of the men were 33.

She has also got another date for next week with a guy who she will probably jump straight in with.

She just basically loves any guy that gives her attention and jumps straight into bed with them

She has bi-polar aswell im not sure if that has anything to do with it.
 

Spleen

Banned?
She's not acting like a slut.


















She is a slut.

Sorry.

You need to sort that shit out. I know it's her life, but she's too young to realise the mistakes she is making. She'll be sorry when she ends up pregnant.
 

jasonk282

Banned
kill her and hide her body, problem solved you can thank me later.
 
You need to tell her to stop all this silliness, who knows what sort of men she hanging out, if she doesn't stop this soon then she could end up getting pregnant or getting sex viruses or even worse dead.
 

jod0565

Member, you member...
I don't know if this is true or not.
Are there not laws where you are from that prohibit having sex with minors?
With all the knowledge you presented, I believe you should have gone to the authorities on this one.
If that puts a wedge between you two, then so be it.
 

jasonk282

Banned
I think the sister is actually You Mister OP
 
After everything you have said about her, I would have to say yes. I think she needs to learn that attention isn't respect and sex isn't love. Not to mention the chances of her catching an STD or getting pregnent are so high with her current behavior that she need's to slow down and think, she's just a kid for fuck's sake. What the hell does she know about anything? My suggestion to you is talk to her not only as her brother but as one of her closest friends and let her know how you feel without preaching to her or judging her. The rest is up to her.
 

turtle825

Yippee-ki-yay, motherfucker!
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Yeah man I would have a heart to heart with her. Too many things you can catch, or chances of getting pregnant, and plus as many perves are on here dude sex should be for a least a committed type thing.

Its not a healthy way to be to act like that in the long run. Plus years later she might regret acting like that.
 
You need to tell her to stop all this silliness, who knows what sort of men she hanging out, if she doesn't stop this soon then she could end up getting pregnant or getting sex viruses or even worse dead.

After everything you have said about her, I would have to say yes. I think she needs to learn that attention isn't respect and sex isn't love. Not to mention the chances of her catching an STD or getting pregnent are so high with her current behavior that she need's to slow down and think, she's just a kid for fuck's sake. What the hell does she know about anything? My suggestion to you is talk to her not only as her brother but as one of her closest friends and let her know how you feel without preaching to her or judging her. The rest is up to her.

Yeah man I would have a heart to heart with her. Too many things you can catch, or chances of getting pregnant, and plus as many perves are on here dude sex should be for a least a committed type thing.

Its not a healthy way to be to act like that in the long run. Plus years later she might regret acting like that.

1.) I't not a brother's place to decide what's right & wrong, especially when the brother likely isn't that much older than the sister himself (probably only a few years). I doubt he has gained much more wisdom than the girl.

2.) If a boy has fucked 10 girls by the time he's 14, it's ok, great even, but if a girl does it, she's a slut... (she should stick to guys closer to her age though, at least until she's mentally mature enough to handle adult men...)

3.) Assuming this baby thing was only a phase, is she on the pill? If so, good, if not, that's something she should use. It's what the damned thing is for. (& condoms)

4.) You're not her guardian, you're her brother. Her & your parents are her guardians. If they know of this and agree with it, it's none of your business. If they don't know about it, tell them instead of us!

5.) How do you know all of this? Were you there?


So, if this is true,

is she a slut? No more than any guy of that age.
Is she being smart? No
Should she stick to guys her own age? Yes
Should you have posted this on a public message board? No
Should you have told your parents? Yes
 
By the way you write I'm guessing you're from the UK. If that is true then she is now of the age of consent. So it really is none of your business, nor can you dictate to her what's right or wrong because under the law she really isn’t doing anything wrong, if those she’s having sex with consent and so does she and they’re of age then it’s completely lawful. If you’re really worried you should talk to her and make that clear and you think it would be best for her to change her ways. But if she is happy in what she's doing then you really can't do anything about it.

Originally posted by Gordar
So, if this is true,

is she a slut? No more than any guy of that age.
Is she being smart? No
Should she stick to guys her own age? Yes
Should you have posted this on a public message board? No
Should you have told your parents? Yes

^^^ :hatsoff:
 
When she is 18 tell her to hit me up!
 
Wow thats a fair amount of sex shes having, is she not planning on being around much longer so decided to make up for it?

Answer to you question is yes definately, shes what you call yo-yo knickers by the sounds of it.
 
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