Very good topic! I had another angle at this issue of crossing the bridge to have the first sex with another person:
I have Epilepsy, and with every erotic material I read, watched or witnessed... It was scary. Orgasms seemed to be like a mixture of Thunderbolts, Lightnings, Earthquakes and Nuclear Explosions, all mixed together.
So I thought, 'I can't do that! I will have a fit right there and then, the poor girl I would expose to that... No, that can't happen!'
Well, at the tender age of 19, it happened, and I can say:
It's a very nice thing to do and you just should enjoy and explore :nanner: