Is Masturbation different from real sex?

if you cum too fast with a woman the key is to say 'i'm done with you, clean yourself up, you disgust me' and everything will work out for the best
 
One time I finished really fast and cummed on her ass and sheets when a I pulled out and started apologizing...........

Man, she never talked to me again and I had two classes a day with her......
 

Supafly

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Bronze Member
Very good topic! I had another angle at this issue of crossing the bridge to have the first sex with another person:

I have Epilepsy, and with every erotic material I read, watched or witnessed... It was scary. Orgasms seemed to be like a mixture of Thunderbolts, Lightnings, Earthquakes and Nuclear Explosions, all mixed together.

So I thought, 'I can't do that! I will have a fit right there and then, the poor girl I would expose to that... No, that can't happen!'

Well, at the tender age of 19, it happened, and I can say:

It's a very nice thing to do and you just should enjoy and explore :nanner:
 

larss

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I doubt that condoms will help as most of the problem is in your head, not in your prick. Of course the sensation will have something to do with it, but really not that much. Focus on the girl and not yourself, and as has been said by a number of people. If you do cum quickly, just keep going.
 
It will take longer to cum when fucking since there is less friction. On the other hand when your masturbating you can chill for a second and choose when you wanna climax, etc

And as vodka said, if you find that you cum way too fast anyway, then use foreplay beforehand
 
Well, through constant masturbation you can learn to control your orgasms and prolong the time before you ejaculate. Don't just focus on the porn when you're jerking, pay attention to yourself and how everything feels. Try different things, don't just beat your cock like it's a race to get to the cumshot. Also, when you do finally get to the point where you think you are going to get in a girl's pants, a quick jerk before can help with premature ejaculation when you finally get to the promised land. Even if you have to excuse yourself to the bathroom during foreplay to squeeze off a fast cum, it will help prolong you later when you get to the act.
 

Deepcover

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That's weird because when I had sex for the first time I had a real tough time cumming. Everyone is different I guess. Just think about something ugly not sexual that might do the trick.
 

Erika Red

Official Checked Star Member
As they say Practice makes perfect, the trick is to bring yourself to the brink and back off, dont let yourself blow ;) and they go back to stroking. If you practice and hold, when it comes time for the real thing it will help. But all males (and females) are different and excitement and nerves play a huge role in the matter. Just relax, breath and have FUN!
 

L3ggy

Special Operations FOX-HOUND
How original.
 
Dude, have you learned nothing here? The only thing that matters when it comes to sex is whether or not you get off. Having the woman climax is secondary to your needs. Always keep this is mind:

Q: What's the quickest way to make a woman orgasm?
A: Who gives a fuck.

:hatsoff:

Agreed. Don't worry about blowin your load early, cause you just had sex! The more you have sex the better you'll get
 
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