Is Doggy Style Degrading???

[lurkingdirk]

most of the time it is

Who the hell are you quoting, and what the hell are you talking about?

:dunno:

 

[CherylFan]

do you think it`s an issue of trust? I mean, if you`ve got a girl kneeling on the bed, face buried in the pillow, waiting for you to enter her, she`s got no way of knowing whether youre going to sink your member into her pussy or her ass until it happens, whereas if she is lying on her back with her legs wide apart its pretty obvious where she`s going to get fucked.

 

[vodkazvictim]

do you think it`s an issue of trust? I mean, if you`ve got a girl kneeling on the bed, face buried in the pillow, waiting for you to enter her, she`s got no way of knowing whether youre going to sink your member into her pussy or her ass until it happens, whereas if she is lying on her back with her legs wide apart its pretty obvious where she`s going to get fucked.

Its not easy to just dive right into an arse.
Oft times it takes muliple tries.

 

[nowthese]

If doggy style is degrading then what isn't degrading?

 

[STDiva]

lol eye contact

 

[Arden Adamz]

I think any sexual position can be made degrading based upon the people engaging in the act. I love being bent over because it allows the guy to hit new parts of my pussy-- which is amazing! Changing positions can be really sensual if you have the right approach... I think "doggie style" gets a bad wrap because it's traditionally seen as a submissive position. For me sex is about what feels good, achieving intimacy, and arousal-- with or without eye contact. Maybe if you try going slowly, kissing her and rubbing her tits & back while you fuck her from behind, she could start viewing this position as more sensual and enjoy the new sensations! Another approach could be starting on your sides, spooning her and then transition to "doggie style"... Any good relationship (sexual, romantic, platonic) benefits from compromise and trying new things... you could ask her if she wants to try something new too. Hope this helps!
xoxxx
Arden

 

[hedonis]

Now, if you have handfuls of her hair, you're calling her vile names, you keep unexpectedly punching her in the back of the head and jamming a broom handle in her ass while doing doggy style, yeah ok... there might be something degrading in that.

But just as a sex position? Ehhhh.... not sure how someone could feel degraded from something that feels so good.

 

[kajsa]

no i like all positions where i can touch myself

 

[nerffren]

doggystyle is like, the fuck of all fucks, do you ever watch the discovery channel and see the lions complaining? no they just sit there and take it.
What you need to do is force her into doggystyle, she will be forced to enjoy it, afterwards tell her to go make you a sandwich and finally all will be well in the world.

If by some miracle you're still having issues, next time she goes to blow you(she does blow you right?), bitch and moan to her "what, you think I cant jerk my own dick that you gota suck it to get it hard"???? pull the same shit on her , =d

 

[arianajoladdict]

i dont think so lol

 

[xfire]

My first serious girlfriend wouldn't do doggie. She said it was too similar to anal. That relationship didn't last long. lolz

 

[pornfanmx]

not me

 

[anotheruser]

My ex actually liked the position and wanted it. So I've never had a negative experience with doggy style yet but then everyone is different.

 

[Galactic]

I think any sexual position can be made degrading based upon the people engaging in the act. I love being bent over because it allows the guy to hit new parts of my pussy-- which is amazing! Changing positions can be really sensual if you have the right approach... I think "doggie style" gets a bad wrap because it's traditionally seen as a submissive position. For me sex is about what feels good, achieving intimacy, and arousal-- with or without eye contact. Maybe if you try going slowly, kissing her and rubbing her tits & back while you fuck her from behind, she could start viewing this position as more sensual and enjoy the new sensations! Another approach could be starting on your sides, spooning her and then transition to "doggie style"... Any good relationship (sexual, romantic, platonic) benefits from compromise and trying new things... you could ask her if she wants to try something new too. Hope this helps!
xoxxx
Arden

Great post.

Now, if you have handfuls of her hair, you're calling her vile names, you keep unexpectedly punching her in the back of the head and jamming a broom handle in her ass while doing doggy style, yeah ok... there might be something degrading in that.

But just as a sex position? Ehhhh.... not sure how someone could feel degraded from something that feels so good.

:1orglaugh I think that would definitely qualify as degrading! To the OP.....I had a GF a lot like yours....just took a lot of conversations about it and persistence....when we finally got around to it, it became her second favorite position......so, don't give up on it!

 

[funkyman]

My gf had problem with this also, because of some negative memories.. don't know exactly.. But after few tries now I can fuck her from behind any time I want, so maybe you just have to convince her to try it for few times and she'll like it.

 

[BellaBellini]

I don't think it is degrading, it is good position to hit the g-spot so there is the potential to have stronger orgasms in that position. But maybe she had a bad experience with another bf? Talk with her about it some more and see if you can change some of things she might see as degrading about it.

 

[abejarano12]

Wow, most chicks I know love doggy and find it sexy as fuck

 

[ButtSmoker]

Doggy style only is degrading if you don't do it! Not letting your boyfriend do it doggy style is degrading.

 

[CWilliams]

I don't think it would be degrading many the adult actresses I normally watch have said that it was their favourite position. Though the idea of being degraded may be the reason.

 

[saschaxx]

Not at all ! :hatsoff: