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lol, that poll was OBVIOUSLY conducted by comparison an asian full of wishful thinking. No way in Hell thats true. Even the asian girls I know date black and white guys, not asian men.
Indian (India) guys and interracial relationships, is it really odd?
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same thing I thought, I mean if they said Asian men do better with the ladies than Indian men? I would have believed it but come on, Asian men doing better with the ladies than Black men is hard to believe
anyways it would help if you guys voted more on the poll itself, after 50 or so votes I can probably have an accurate representation of something I always wondered about, here is what I hear
1. Indian guy with Black girl is pretty common
2. Indian guy with Asian girl is next
3. Indian guy with Latina and White girl are much more rare than the first two
that is what I have heard a lot from my friends and other people =/
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its not very common to see married indian/interracial couples, dating yes... i can go on and on about this but will not right now unless somebody says something stupid
Is this going to be the new if you are white would you be with a black woman thread?
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don't see how this relates to it in any way
It is odd, but isn't that what makes it awesome? I mean, every self respecting straight man fantasizes about getting with a hottie way outside of their spectrum. The questions you have are just a part of the experience. Man, enjoy yourself... do you and keep growing. This is coming from someone who had a lengthy relationship with an Indian girl. Being from the Chi myself, I felt a little like you, but the whold thing gave me confidence, and in the end, I realized that more people respected the fact that I was willing to go outside of accepted racial barriers, and doing something that others wish the had the nerve and opportunity to live out. I hope this helps with your inquiry.
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Honestly before I ever got with my girlfriend and before I ever hooked up with a Latina I always wondered "do Latinas even care for Indian men?"
See when I was young I lived in California, for a state that is supposed to be nice and open minded they really didn't like my kind much out there. Most Latinas were with Hispanic guys and if not them then White or Black guys, a small number being with Asian guys (Cambodian, Filipino etc.). I remember when I was 16 I really liked this Cuban chick and wanted to ask her out, as soon as some Hispanic guys heard about it they said "you know Latinas don't like Arab or Indian guys right? Why don't you stick with your own women?".
I decided to ask her out anyways, we went out, kissed, and I lost my virginity to her (yea the girls I was with before her I didn't really do). This didn't sit well with some of the Hispanic guys and I got jumped as a result of it, bruises and minor injuries but the fight ended up getting broken up by a cop, felt like a wuss for not putting up much of a fight.
Thing is I ALWAYS loved Latinas but used to think me being Indian will hold me back from getting with one. Pretty sad but I really lacked confidence back then until I stopped viewing myself as an Indian guy.
As for my preferences, I have never been into White girls or Black girls much, I always liked that brown look on women (Latinas, Indian, Middle Eastern and Asian).
See when I was young I lived in California, for a state that is supposed to be nice and open minded they really didn't like my kind much out there. Most Latinas were with Hispanic guys and if not them then White or Black guys, a small number being with Asian guys (Cambodian, Filipino etc.). I remember when I was 16 I really liked this Cuban chick and wanted to ask her out, as soon as some Hispanic guys heard about it they said "you know Latinas don't like Arab or Indian guys right? Why don't you stick with your own women?".
I decided to ask her out anyways, we went out, kissed, and I lost my virginity to her (yea the girls I was with before her I didn't really do). This didn't sit well with some of the Hispanic guys and I got jumped as a result of it, bruises and minor injuries but the fight ended up getting broken up by a cop, felt like a wuss for not putting up much of a fight.
Thing is I ALWAYS loved Latinas but used to think me being Indian will hold me back from getting with one. Pretty sad but I really lacked confidence back then until I stopped viewing myself as an Indian guy.
As for my preferences, I have never been into White girls or Black girls much, I always liked that brown look on women (Latinas, Indian, Middle Eastern and Asian).
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Plus I have read through some threads on dating forums and people keep saying no one wants Indian men because they all smell bad and because of some funny accent crap.
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i'm happy for you revamp but maybe youre thinking about race too much.
just roll with it.
just roll with it.
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when you take the walk of life I have taken you do think about race at times, because it has been shoved in my face a lot
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oh yeah?
i understand.
i live in a foriegn country myself.
to most people i am gringo first, meesterp second.
many people dont take the time to really know me and realize what a great guy i am.
i understand.
i live in a foriegn country myself.
to most people i am gringo first, meesterp second.
many people dont take the time to really know me and realize what a great guy i am.
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it says you live in New Jersey
revamp, just do as many as you can. they're all the same. the only question you have to ask yourself, is... "is this one worth all the trouble"
the sooner you get to the point where you dont care you'll be busting nuts in/on so many girls it wont matter what color they are or what language they speak so long as they have all the right body parts and can crack a smile. im not saying you have to be the stereotypical interracial dating asshole but you do have to grow a thick skin. if you feel awkward out in public with your chick around "her own" people then you are still caring too much. do you know how many death threats are in my inbox every morning? just stop caring dude
the sooner you get to the point where you dont care you'll be busting nuts in/on so many girls it wont matter what color they are or what language they speak so long as they have all the right body parts and can crack a smile. im not saying you have to be the stereotypical interracial dating asshole but you do have to grow a thick skin. if you feel awkward out in public with your chick around "her own" people then you are still caring too much. do you know how many death threats are in my inbox every morning? just stop caring dude
Hey I am the product of two races marrying my father is from Switzerland which makes him a Eurpean mutt, and my mother is from South Korea. Hey we're all people just trying to do the things that make us happy in life, so do what makes you happy and screw what other people think.
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Not really all the same to me bro, I can't get a hard on to a blonde girl in most cases or a White girl, dark skin girls just don't do it for me either. The inbetween skin always gets to me. I don't feel awkward with her at all, in fact I have suffered little animosity because of her, the one I suffered animosity for was Cuban.
Also, this was to just get a general poll or consensus, since ya know, Indian guys supposedly don't date or marry interracial.
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I take that back, Blonde Latinas (ones with curly blonde hair) are so freaking hot!
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just curious, how many active users use this forum daily?
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who is the woman in your avatar?
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1. Do you work out a lot? Do you think people would classify you as very fit?
2. Is you girlfriend very good looking? Would people classify her as very fit?
3. Is your girlfriend outgoing and you're a little more reserved?
"...sometimes guys hit on my girlfriend and say why is she with some Indian who is going leave her for a wife his mom has set up."
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If they hit on your girl while you are around it's because they are bullies and take you for a punk. If they try that you need to lay down the law on their asses. If it's behind the scenes and she's telling you about it, some of that may be her female friends or maybe guys interested in her who tell her that.
There's a lot of truth to stories that Indian guys will use non-Indian girls, usually White or Hispanic, for sex and relationship practice but will dump them for an Indian gal when the time is right. I even hear of Indian-American or British Indian girls who get dumped in favor of a girl from India, but that's mostly MUSLIM Indians, a whole other kettle of fish.
You're basically going to get hit for this because of too many Indian dudes in the past who've pulled this. Also, you have some ignorant people who pile Indians in with Middle Eastern people who have also established a stereotype for misleading women, based on actual trends. That reminds me of the poor Sikh store owners who got abused because someone wanted to "get back" at the Muslims...
It's not what you want to hear but there you go.
As for smelling like curry, I have heard that before from people on the internet. I grew up eating curry since I was a baby so I don't see the difference but some people find it overpowering. You're going to get people who stereotype you, but you don't want to date those folks or hang out with them so w/e.
I'm not so sure about racism against Indians. If anyone gets crapped on it's illegal immigrants and Muslims. I think Indians get subjected to a lot of very crass and humiliating incidents partially based on ignorance and partially because some people view them as nerds. I don't think they consider Indians a threat or evil or beyond the pale. If Indians can get elected in the Deep South by Republicans, than I don't think it's White people that are racist towards Indians. I'm not sure about Puerto Rican men or Black men or Muslim guys.
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