im seeing alot of girls with biracial babies but no dad

[Hot Mega]

They tend to have issues with their mom and dad and have low self esteem. Women with low self esteem settle for trashy guys who leave them.


This is a common theme among many people who exclusively date interracially. They have self-hate issues.

If you read articles written by east Asian, black, Indian, White folks whatever you want they'll point it out.

It makes sense seeing that interracial dating is only done by a minority of each group. Some people have no choice to date out and others don't see color, just see the personality. Then you have the folks who will not date anyone of their own race, and those tend to be the ones with a lot of issues.


The ones who tend to be trashy looking single moms/dads with a chip on their shoulder.


It's a result of bad parenting.

and don't twist things. bio said some people who only date out of their race have self hate issues, not all and not serious mental issues.
he also said some look past color and only at personality, but you chose to ignore that one.

Too bad there aren't really any Cliff's Notes on the subject of reading between the lines but thankfully BDG provided a classic example to deconstruct.

He could have said the more practical and realistic reasoning being simple preference. But here are each of his reasons white women (for the purposes of this thread since that's the context laid out by the OP) are involved in interracial relationships;

1. They have issues with their mom or dad.
2. They have low self esteem.
3. They're beset with self hatred.
4. They have no choice.
5. They don't see color but personality.
6. Bad parenting.

Seeing as the No. 1 reason is most likely personal preference, BDG doesn't list it once among his 6 reasons. Now you (meester) would likely conclude the suggestion of not seeing color but personality as equal to saying personal preference.

Ahh, but is it really? Every one of his reasons serves a negative connotation. While the most harmless, practical reason (preference) is conspicuously absent. Even his suggestion of not seeing color but personality implies a negative excuse as there are people who see those who don't distinguish by race as having a problem too. He has alluded to some significance in racial distinction tirelessly in his posts.

So in spite of his elaborate outlining of 6, apparently separate reasons..when you read between the lines there emerges only 1, most (if not all by his observation) people who involve in interracial relationships have some psycho/sociological issue.

You question my use of the word 'most'? Well, aside from the 6 reasons really equaling 1....when you look at what he says of those who date exclusively interracial he attributes 'a common theme among..'. Common theme just about equals 'most' IMO.

This is what some people think you might have missed.:2 cents:

 

[qiinson]

sure they didnt

i guess i just imagined BDG saying that anyone engaged in an interracial relationship has serious mental issues

i guess all those white guys that date asian chicks feel bad about their fathers or grandfathers bombing pearl harbor

i got no problem having a mature discussion about race

but pardon Zolf for treading lightly when two of the participants have a history of shovelin borderline and over-the-line racist rhetoric down peoples throats daily

you mention obama and cosby sayin the same thing

you failed to mention that their actions cant be held in question cuz they r doin it to help their people

whereas guys like BDG and Manifest only seem to do it so they can act holier than thou and speak of people not like them in a condescending and demeaning way

also i dont remember calling you a name in this thread

or ever for that matter:dunno:

Too bad there aren't really any Cliff's Notes on the subject of reading between the lines but thankfully BDG provided a classic example to deconstruct.

He could have said the more practical and realistic reasoning being simple preference. But here are each of his reasons white women (for the purposes of this thread since that's the context laid out by the OP) are involved in interracial relationships;

1. They have issues with their mom or dad.
2. They have low self esteem.
3. They're beset with self hatred.
4. They have no choice.
5. They don't see color but personality.
6. Bad parenting.

Seeing as the No. 1 reason is most likely personal preference, BDG doesn't list it once among his 6 reasons. Now you (meester) would likely conclude the suggestion of not seeing color but personality as equal to saying personal preference.

Ahh, but is it really? Every one of his reasons serves a negative connotation. While the most harmless, practical reason (preference) is conspicuously absent. Even his suggestion of not seeing color but personality implies a negative excuse as there are people who see those who don't distinguish by race as having a problem too. He has alluded to some significance in racial distinction tirelessly in his posts.

So in spite of his elaborate outlining of 6, apparently separate reasons..when you read between the lines there emerges only 1, most (if not all by his observation) people who involve in interracial relationships have some psycho/sociological issue.

You question my use of the word 'most'? Well, aside from the 6 reasons really equaling 1....when you look at what he says of those who date exclusively interracial he attributes 'a common theme among..'. Common theme just about equals 'most' IMO.

This is what some people think you might have missed.:2 cents:

Two damn fine HQ posts gentlemen. :clap: :clap: :clap:

That's the sad, cold reality of these guys right there. I gots to agree and I think most people can see what these small minded people are trying to achieve here. :2 cents:

 

[JayJohn85]

Stereotype. Find me the one stereotype that is true. Back it with undeniable evidence.

You referring to me? Cheers for pointing out your own ignorance....There are shit loads of academic texts both scientific and sociological that expunge that theory. As for proof undeniable, Are you crazy, Can you imagine the size of the sample group and the amount of interviews....I'd need to link every shitty day time chat show on the planet.

Oh and I am not prejudice either I said it isn't selective to anyone plenty of white guys plough the fields.....Impregnating what the fuck they can and running.

 

[Ulysses31]

You referring to me? Cheers for pointing out your own ignorance....There are shit loads of academic texts both scientific and sociological that expunge that theory. As for proof undeniable, Are you crazy, Can you imagine the size of the sample group and the amount of interviews....I'd need to link every shitty day time chat show on the planet.

Oh and I am not prejudice either I said it isn't selective to anyone plenty of white guys plough the fields.....Impregnating what the fuck they can and running.

From his answer he seems to be addressing the opening post rather than you and I'm sure he would have quoted you if it was aimed at you, maybe he needs to come here and clarify this :dunno:

 

[JayJohn85]

Then I apologise for jumping the gun....But the other points in it are still valid....

 

[BioDefenseGrad]

Two damn fine HQ posts gentlemen. :clap: :clap: :clap:

That's the sad, cold reality of these guys right there. I gots to agree and I think most people can see what these small minded people are trying to achieve here. :2 cents:

Did I say just White women?

Go look at my post.

 

[BioDefenseGrad]

I think the mods are going to have to step in here and lock this thread, it's all personal attacks.

 

[Hot Mega]

Two damn fine HQ posts gentlemen. :clap: :clap: :clap:

That's the sad, cold reality of these guys right there. I gots to agree and I think most people can see what these small minded people are trying to achieve here. :2 cents:

Did I say just White women?

Go look at my post.

There are two posts above. One contains the expression 'White women', who's the one saying it?

I think the mods are going to have to step in here and lock this thread, it's all personal attacks.

I'm not a mod but it seems the remedy for personal attacks is censuring the individual member not censoring the entire thread. You can't call for the censoring or censuring of everything you disagree with BDG.

 

[meesterperfect]

I think the mods are going to have to step in here and lock this thread, it's all personal attacks.

yeah i'm done with it.
obviously some aren't mature enough or something to discuss this topic like normal people.
just twist and run......
oh well, where's that what hand do you masturbate with thread, i've got serious input to give?

 

[BioDefenseGrad]

There are two posts above. One contains the expression 'White women', who's the one saying it?



I'm not a mod but it seems the remedy for personal attacks is censuring the individual member not censoring the entire thread. You can't call for the censoring or censuring of everything you disagree with BDG.

To the first quote, which was to another poster I asked to quote me where I said it was just White women. I explicitly said it's among men and women and people of all backgrounds.

But yes, keep misquoting me and bashing me without even the hint of an argument. You're not even the worst.

Threads that are just flaming and not on topic get locked all the time by mods. I'm not doing anything out of the ordinary.

 

[CunningStunts]

Stereotype. Find me the one stereotype that is true. Back it with undeniable evidence.

Stereotypes are by definition conclusions based on empiricle evidence, whether concrete or perceived. Many are true, because to exist, there was first an observation by someone based on observation.

What I think you are trying to say is that just because a stereotype exists, it doesn't make it universally true when applied to every case, and on that I will agree. :2 cents:

 

[Hot Mega]

To this question....

what is it with the trend of white girls having biracial babies and then of course i see them all the time walking around by themselves. this confuses me
this seems like it might be a problem but it seems society is afraid to address it

You responded with this...

They tend to have issues with their mom and dad and have low self esteem. Women with low self esteem settle for trashy guys who leave them.


This is a common theme among many people who exclusively date interracially. They have self-hate issues.

If you read articles written by east Asian, black, Indian, White folks whatever you want they'll point it out.

It makes sense seeing that interracial dating is only done by a minority of each group. Some people have no choice to date out and others don't see color, just see the personality. Then you have the folks who will not date anyone of their own race, and those tend to be the ones with a lot of issues.


The ones who tend to be trashy looking single moms/dads with a chip on their shoulder.


It's a result of bad parenting.

To the first quote, which was to another poster I asked to quote me where I said it was just White women. I explicitly said it's among men and women and people of all backgrounds.

But yes, keep misquoting me and bashing me without even the hint of an argument. You're not even the worst.

Threads that are just flaming and not on topic get locked all the time by mods. I'm not doing anything out of the ordinary.

Now of course you threw in some filler generalities which I will credit you for. But in the end you still resolve whomever (race, woman or man) as having psycho/sociological issues of one sort or another. Therefore for the purposes of this thread's question (if one can call it that with a straight face) re white women; your answer redounds to some psycho/sociological abnormality. Ergo, the betrayal of your underlying intent in the response. Maybe it was subconscious on your part but it is still nonetheless obvious.

See how easy that was?

 

[BioDefenseGrad]

To this question....

You responded with this...




Now of course you threw in some filler generalities which I will credit you with. But in the end you still resolve whomever (race, woman or man) as having psycho/sociological issues of one sort or another. Therefore for the purposes of this threads question re white women; your answer redounds to some psycho/sociological abnormality.

See how easy that was?

I "threw in some filler generalities" hmm like noting that this is seen and commented on among all ethnic/racial groups? That negates your argument against me and invalidates so much of the character assassination in this thread.

 

[Hot Mega]

I "threw in some filler generalities" hmm like noting that this is seen and commented on among all ethnic/racial groups? That negates your argument against me and invalidates so much of the character assassination in this thread.

Fair retort. However, what indicts you specifically isn't your statements here in (in this thread) a vacuum. It's your statements here in the context of many of your other statements and themes you have added to these types of discussions.

I can understand if your position is now that you have asserted positions in the past that upon reflection weren't as well thought out as you once believed. Then there's room to consider you contemporary comments, positions and assertions on their own individual merit. Barring that, you (all of us) have to sleep in the bed you made.

Fair enough?

 

[qiinson]

Did I say just White women?

Go look at my post.

No thanks. I'm tired of reading your pointless hate-gate posts. I can promise you I will not reply to any more of your posts unless it's about sport or some thing amusing.

I suggest you read your own posts and keep re-reading them until you discover why people like myself, mega, mrtrebus, zolf and many others find your posts offensive, sad and childish. :2 cents:

Fair retort. However, what indicts you specifically isn't your statements here in (in this thread) a vacuum. It's your statements here in the context of many of your other statements and themes you have added to these types of discussions.

I can understand if your position is now that you have asserted positions in the past that upon reflection weren't as well thought out as you once believed. Then there's room to consider you contemporary comments, positions and assertions on their own individual merit. Barring that, you (all of us) have to sleep in the bed you made.

Fair enough?

Again :hatsoff:

 

[BioDefenseGrad]

No thanks. I'm tired of reading your pointless hate-gate posts. I can promise you I will not reply to any more of your posts unless it's about sport or some thing amusing.

I suggest you read your own posts and keep re-reading them until you discover why people like myself, mega, mrtrebus, zolf and many others find your posts offensive, sad and childish. :2 cents:




Again :hatsoff:

It's the same group of people who find a bunch of stuff racist. Oddly enough, some of those people have no problem spewing racism about White people.

You weren't interested in looking into that though.


You also would not point out or explain what was so racist about my posts. That just makes you a troll. If you don't want to read my posts, put me on ignore. I'll do you the favor and put YOU on ignore as well.

 

[BioDefenseGrad]

Fair retort. However, what indicts you specifically isn't your statements here in (in this thread) a vacuum. It's your statements here in the context of many of your other statements and themes you have added to these types of discussions.

I can understand if your position is now that you have asserted positions in the past that upon reflection weren't as well thought out as you once believed. Then there's room to consider you contemporary comments, positions and assertions on their own individual merit. Barring that, you (all of us) have to sleep in the bed you made.

Fair enough?

Do you want me to start bringing in YOUR body of work?

The hypocrisy never ceases. :1orglaugh

 

[Shifty]

Congrats ManifestDestiny. You created this thread as bait for controversy; a shit storm with no point and even less redeeming value.

Racism-tinged threads should be sought out and locked immediately. :2 cents:

Here's hoping that the new mod is a hardass son of a bitch.

 

[Hot Mega]

Do you want me to start bringing in YOUR body of work?

The hypocrisy never ceases. :1orglaugh

Please (Meaning, I want you to.).

 

[Ulysses31]

Congrats ManifestDestiny. You created this thread as bait for controversy; a shit storm with no point and even less redeeming value.

Racism-tinged threads should be sought out and locked immediately. :2 cents:

Here's hoping that the new mod is a hardass son of a bitch.

The new moderator is Manifest Destiny, he's the only one who applied