I need to stop watching porn!

[pornowatcher]

I've been single for the past year. No hookups, no sex, no nothing. Just work and masturbation and occasional drinking with friends over the weekend. I would masturbate daily to porn after getting home from work. Weekends it would be 2-3 times a day. Recently I met this girl at the club and we hit it off. After a week or so of hanging out, we had...tried to have sex. The problem here was I couldn't get a boner. Wtf! I went home and tried to jerk it but that shit was turned off.

I went online and tried to find a solution to my problem. Found something about your brain on porn. Blah, blah, reboot, don't watch porn. Not going to happen. I went to the doctor and told him of my problems and got a prescription for Viagra 100 mg pills. Success! I popped the pill an hour before I met up with the girl. We started making out. I was fondling her boobs. Still didn't feel anything downstairs. Then she started sucking and the pill started to work! I had an erection and everything was working. 5 minutes pass. Okay. No premature ejaculation. 10 minutes. Not bad, but this doesn't feel as good as the first 5 minutes. 15 minutes pass. Fuck yes, I should be a pornstar if I can last this long! She looked at me and ask if everything was okay. I told her yes and to keep sucking. 25 minutes pass.....25 fucking minutes and I still didn't cum! Wtf! I told her I took a pill and she said maybe it was the pill that prevented me from cumming. Maybe. I went home and jerked off to porn and cummed in 5 minutes. So it's not the pill, what is it?

I decided to not watch porn or masturbate for a few days in hopes of it raising my libido and making me one horny bastard. I took the pill again before we had sex. Still could not have an orgasm. I went back and tried to jerk it but couldn't cum. I had to watch porn to cum. Wtf! Something is not right! I went online and tried to find a solution to my problem. Sounds familiar, right? Your brain on porn popped up again. Okay, fine, let me read through this. Wait a minute, I'm having all these problems! What's the solution? Not watch porn or masturbate. Okay, no problem, but for how long? 3 fucking months?! What! The longest I've gone was those few days before I meet up with that girl. I can't do this, it's impossible, but I have to. To better improve my sex life. First step. Admit it. I have an addiction. Looking where I'm posting now, a porn message board!

I guess I can start this weekend. After I watch some more porn tonight. Okay, I really have a problem. All aboard the train to nofap land. And can we get a round of applause for the girl? She could have totally left my ass and went to some guy who had no problems. I hope she can wait around 3 months.

 

[timon]

You ll be fine and balance between ur sexual life and porn hobby and maybe y\u can make ur suppose participate into porn with u but slowly and dont rush things
Wish u all the best and i am sure we will here gr8 news from u soon

 

[LeyaFalcon]

Sounds like you're headed down the road of becoming a cuckold

 

[xfire]

Sounds like you're headed down the road of becoming a cuckold

If that doesn't inspire the OP to fix his problem, nothing will.

 

[Supafly]

You Might want to start by getting yourself a new username

Contact Adam

 

[Harley Spencer]

A lot of the problem may be in your head. When you have issues getting hard, that then becomes all you can think about, thus making it even more difficult to get or maintain an erection.

Yes, cooling down on the porn may help. Viagra is good too. You should also work on clearing your mind, and simply enjoying the moment when you get down to business. Don't focus on anything at all that doesn't pertain to how good it feels when you're with her, how hot she is, how much she turns you on, what you want to do with her, etc. Do not focus on whether or not you can get or stay hard.

It could be a long, slow, frustrating road, particularly seeing as what I noted above is far easier said than done. Eventually you will be fine, so hang in there.

 

[pornowatcher]

If that doesn't inspire the OP to fix his problem, nothing will.

I do enjoy watching interracial porn and I did enjoy a good one with Ms.Falcon in it. Started to think it might have desensitized me.

You Might want to start by getting yourself a new username

Contact Adam

Maybe watch less porn and not masturbate?

A lot of the problem may be in your head. When you have issues getting hard, that then becomes all you can think about, thus making it even more difficult to get or maintain an erection.

Yes, cooling down on the porn may help. Viagra is good too. You should also work on clearing your mind, and simply enjoying the moment when you get down to business. Don't focus on anything at all that doesn't pertain to how good it feels when you're with her, how hot she is, how much she turns you on, what you want to do with her, etc. Do not focus on whether or not you can get or stay hard.

It could be a long, slow, frustrating road, particularly seeing as what I noted above is far easier said than done. Eventually you will be fine, so hang in there.

Thanks for the advice. I need some more research and some guys have a hard time cumming to oral due to frequent masturbation or too much porn watching has desensitized them and only certain things they see will trigger a response. Just need to take it day by day.