i need to get it out

McRocket

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kevinnnn said:
i see yur a very tipsy person...


Lol..well now I don't know who you are speaking to. But assuming it is me...I do not know what you mean by a tipsy person.

But you seem like a very guarded one. No offense.

ANd I cannot think what else you could have meant by pimp then what I meant by it. I think you did mean that. You certainly had the lingo down.

Please do not be trying to get this guy into that shit. He sounds unhappy enough as it is. He does that for a while and he will REALLY feel like shit - I bet.
 

kevinnnn

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tipsy is like all negative....they way u described pimps wow..no one is gonna wanna talk to a person who is negative about everything ....maybe thats the first step stop being negative about everthing ...
 

McRocket

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kevinnnn said:
tipsy is like all negative....they way u described pimps wow..no one is gonna wanna talk to a person who is negative about everything ....maybe thats the first step stop being negative about everthing ...


Tipsy=negative

Well, I learned a new word today/tonight. I like it.

Well, I am positive that I am negative on pimps. :)

I am not on hear to get people to talk to me per se. I am on here to give my opinion on stuff. And hopefully also learn some stuff - like tipsy means negative.

Tell me what I said about pimps that is wrong.
As long as I am telling it like it is - then I see nothing wrong with that.

You always gotta push the envelope. Or else you never learn anything. And that means being yourself. And I am a realist. Though many (most?) would call it negative. So be it.

SOOOOOOOO...how long have you been a pimp? DO you like it? Have you ever fallen in love with a person in your employ? I said most pimps were lousy. Not all. Maybe you are one of the decent ones.
 
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What are u majoring in gov., and why havnt I seen you in "The offilcial college thread"? :dunno: :glugglug: :hatsoff:
 
thegovna said:
i feel like shit, im so lonely, i just want a girlfriend, and not to get laid, because i just need someone to connect with on an emotional stage, just to connect, someone to talk to.
im a geek, i knew it all along but i refused to accept it until it was brought to my face today, i pretend not to be but i cane excape it
im sick of being alone im sick of being a loser i have no one to turn to
i just feel like things would better if i would just die, but i could never do that because im too much of a pussy
i hate sitting in my room all the time but if i went out of it id have no where to go
i hate the fact that im just over weight enough to not be average not fat but just enough to not want to ever take my shirt off
i hate being shy even though i try not to be
im sitting in a dark room listening to depresing music crying alone, and i fear that things wont get any better than this
i need somebody, and have no one, this is the only place where i wont get made fun of for teyying my truths
:helpme: :crying:
Check this out, this is waht you do. you know how yousaid that your shy dont be if a girl turns you down go to the next one, there are alot of girls that love geeks or even if you act like a dork all you got to do is gust talk to them. always remember there are billoins of fish in the ocean and the same with girls. put on som sean gohn pants and a shirt and go out there and get them man. if your by los angeles let me know ill send you to alot of kool places.
 
thegovna

Many people will probably argue against me. But.. this is my own experiances. Better self-confidence comes with better looking body. I used to be "thin" guy until 2nd year in college where I started work out really hard and telling myself I really wanted to change my current situation. Now after one year of regular work outs I get _alot_ more answers from women. But not just that, it opened more doors when I felt I had muscles and was looking better than before. I dared to confront and do something against my situation. I asked more frequently about work on places I never dreamt of going to. I got noticeable better self-confidence the more and stronger my body got.

So, my only advice to you will be: start work-out and dont be afraid to do so. All well-trained men (and women) u see wasnt born with those muscles.

And with better self-confidence Im sure u gonne score one or another pretty girl... or connect to them on an emotional stage.

edit: I saw u said u didnt know where to go once u got outside. Go to the gym, tell them u wanna start train and lose weight. After ur first workout I can assure u got someone to talk to in the gym. But as I said. Dont be afraid of going there. Most of them have started at the same level u are now.
 
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thegovna said:
im 19 and it feels like im just still a little kid and everyone else just passed me by, and dont worry id never actually do any harm to myself

You are 19 years young and life will always improve, the downs always pass, they always do in time. Corny as it sounds, take a long walk on a nice day, it really clears the mind, you can then think and focus on bettering life for yourself. :)
 

BNF

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When you are down, you feel like shit in your head, your body feels like jiggly dough - what do you do? Some go deeper down and may lose themselves, some get more reclusive and shut themselves in. Some start thinking about their problems and think themselves trying to rationalize and explain their depression - which of course makes thing worse. I guess that you're a freshman and maybe see the real world for the first time. (Maybe I'm wrong.)

Instead, look at all of the new opportunites in front of you. All of the new chances to meet new people, experience new things and see the world a bit bigger.

But, IMO, the best thing you can do is get your body into shape. Start eating right - I mean right, NO fast or snack foods, no soda, as little sugar as you can, and load up on proteins. Your energy will increase within days, your mind will feel clearer too. Next, do something physical, I mean real exercise. Ride a bike, jog, swim, start lifting small weights, do push ups, whatever, but make it a habit and learn to love it. You may not be able to get your mind right, but I promise that you can get your body right. If you get your body right, it only takes a few months to see an improvement, you have an accomplishment to be proud of... then you gain some confidence.... guess what, that starts your mind on a healthy track.

Anybody that tells you life is easy is lying, same for getting in phyical condition. Life is struggle, accept that. I suggest your starting with you body because it is always with you...
 

pitino

are you talking to me?
agreed with BNF, when you'll see your body getting better shaped, you'll
start feeling much much better for your self...everytime you feel bad,
COME CHECK THIS PLACE HERE!!!! for sure you'll find someone to talk
for a simple or complicated thing...there are already 2 pages of replies in this thread
which means that for sure you can chat with anyone of us, every when
you want....and HEY!! you are just 19yrs old...you got so many creative years
in front of you....do things that make you happy!!!! ;) cheers :glugglug:
 

McRocket

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I think the bottom line here is...you cannot be fat and happy (unless maybe if you are pregnant). Big is not beautiful. The only people who say that are fat people.

Lose the weight and then re examine your life. If it still sucks...well. But sounds like most of us feel it won't suck as much.

I wish you well.
 

BNF

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mcrocket said:
I think the bottom line here is...you cannot be fat and happy (unless maybe if you are pregnant). Big is not beautiful. The only people who say that are fat people.

Depending on your body type, your genetic profile, you may never been thin, may never be athletically trim. (The opposite is true too - so many men are skinny and struggle to gain any muscle at all)

If you are the endomorph type, you can be happy in the fact that you are apt to follow a powerlifter route, you will not look cut, but you can move small cars with your presses.

Losing weight is a good idea if you are feeling sluggish - but be realistic, look at your siblings and parents and you can more accurately and realistically pin your goals.

If you are inclined to plus sizes, then you could go this route . (Two links there)

Somebody, behind his back and in a different city might call him fat (6'4" 410lbs), but he'll bench 800lbs....

Focus.
 

McRocket

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I do not care how much a person can bench press. Too much body fat is NOT good. Period.

Type 2 diabetes is one of the fastest growing 'conditions' in Western society - particularily North America (re: Canada and the U.S.). It is potentially serious and, if let gotten out of hand, potentially deadly - if it turns into type 1.

Body fat is ugly. Body fat is bad. Period.


No offense. I know what you mean...but I just had to step in there with my thoughts...why break a trend? :)
 
mcrocket said:
I think the bottom line here is...you cannot be fat and happy (unless maybe if you are pregnant). Big is not beautiful. The only people who say that are fat people.

That whole body shaping thing might just be the right idea. I wouldn't have come up with it but it probably is a really good advice. Only thegovna himself can decide that.

But I wanted to address another thought you mentioned, that whole "I'm a geek and I gotta accept it" thing. Like mcrocket said here earlier, a lot of the things that are considered "geeky" when you're 19 turn out to be characteristics people like and value about you in a few years. I'm 29 and I can't believe how much my views have changed, how much things that once mattered a lot are completely unimportant to me now. I always think I sound like an old man but I really generally don't like teenagers all that much, basically because they try so hard not to be geeky. But this is what I want to tell you: Seen from today's point of view, I probably was pretty geeky too back then. And you know what? Girls actually liked that. I have a wonderful girlfriend who makes a lot of heads turn and I'm honestly not what God had in mind when he created the perfect male. It's much more important to be reliable, act responsibly, be a nice person, be funny, be intelligent and so on.

So don't just lie down thinking "I am what I am and that's not gonna change". Be proud of yourself, of who you are and what you stand for. It doesn't f**ing matter what other people think. Every person has something others like. Don't compare yourself to others. You are great the way you are.

Finally I wanted to say that I really like the way people here have responded to thegovna's post. Nu dumb comments, no bad jokes, but genuinely helpful and supportive contributions and ideas. Good work, everyone :thumbsup:
 

McRocket

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Very nice post Vegas Yankee.

And, on a superficial note, kudos to your girlfriend's exterior actractiveness. Encouraging for all us non perfect male physical specimens.
 

4G63

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If your a young male with to much energy and no outlet. And if your a technical person, you should really get into the car colture. Ther're are alot of cars out there you can make fast.

If speeds not your thing you could learn to paint cars, lower cars. Raise trucks, learn engines, transmissions. You could drive American, Japenese, German. If you learn something about cars, people will come to you. Beautiful women will approach you and say "Is that your car?" and you smile, nod and say "yes it is".

And even if it's not your thing at all, it is a money tree. You can buy cheap cars fix the for $500, and sell them for $1000 profits. Plus idle hands are the Devils playground. Your a young male you need to get that energy out.

It's good hard work too. I can't workout, it's to boring. I could not go to gym either, naked guys in the locker room, fuck that. Working on cars get you flexible, you will be crawling all over. You get strong from lifting tires, and wrenching all day. You may not get a perfect body out of it, but you will get in shape. Plus the feeling of pride you get when you fix it, or fix it up.

I make my living working on cars now, and I make good money, and it's only getting better. I'm married to my honest to God dream girl, and I'm happy. I owe it all to working on my various cars.

I don't know if It's good advice, but it worked for me. Like a great man said "Girls only want guys with great skills" - Napolean Dynamite. It's true, and once they see the car. They'll know you got skills :2 cents:
 

McRocket

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x4g63x said:
If your a young male with to much energy and no outlet. And if your a technical person, you should really get into the car colture. Ther're are alot of cars out there you can make fast.

If speeds not your thing you could learn to paint cars, lower cars. Raise trucks, learn engines, transmissions. You could drive American, Japenese, German. If you learn something about cars, people will come to you. Beautiful women will approach you and say "Is that your car?" and you smile, nod and say "yes it is".

And even if it's not your thing at all, it is a money tree. You can buy cheap cars fix the for $500, and sell them for $1000 profits. Plus idle hands are the Devils playground. Your a young male you need to get that energy out.

It's good hard work too. I can't workout, it's to boring. I could not go to gym either, naked guys in the locker room, fuck that. Working on cars get you flexible, you will be crawling all over. You get strong from lifting tires, and wrenching all day. You may not get a perfect body out of it, but you will get in shape. Plus the feeling of pride you get when you fix it, or fix it up.

I make my living working on cars now, and I make good money, and it's only getting better. I'm married to my honest to God dream girl, and I'm happy. I owe it all to working on my various cars.

I don't know if It's good advice, but it worked for me. Like a great man said "Girls only want guys with great skills" - Napolean Dynamite. It's true, and once they see the car. They'll know you got skills :2 cents:


Well, if 'Girls only want guys with great skills.'; well I guess I'm fucked then. :)

I don't personally think that is an accurate statement. I think there are some women that feel that way. But not most.

But I understand what you are trying to say.
 
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