How to convince gf to watch porn??

I've been with my gf for a while now and everything is going good...but i can't convince her to watch porn with me.........she's a freak in bed, but says she doesn't like porn..
 
:dunno: As your fucking her, turn it on.
 
If she's a freak why do you want to watch it with her? If she says she doesn't like it, it shouldn't matter. Just save it for yourself when she's not available.
 
:dunno: As your fucking her, turn it on.

Do not do that. Not unless you want to have a SERIOUSLY pissed off girlfriend. I think you have to lay low for a while, and do what I did. One day, we were sitting around, and the windows were open, and it was a nice spring day outside. While she was in the middle of a sentence, I calmly put on the TV, turned on my XBox, and fired up some porn through the server that runs everything in my house. I kind of played it off, like, WHOOPS, how did that happen.

I was a little worried, as she is not a huge fan of porn, but to my luck, she doesn't hate it either. But still, I wasn't sure how she would respond.

She was quiet at first.

So, I basically picked up her conversation where she had left off, and before I knew it, we were both watching the movie and making comments, which naturally led to me running my hand up her leg, etc. etc.

However, when it came down to the main event of the afternoon, I did have to turn off the T.V.

Hmmmm.....I didn't really help you at all. I saw a chance to tell a story, and I took it. My bad.

p.s. To stampede2873....."your" is a reference to possession......."you're" is the contraction that you were looking for there...."you are". See how that works?

Goddamn it, what kind of English are they teaching these days in the public schools?
 
p.s. To stampede2873....."your" is a reference to possession......."you're" is the contraction that you were looking for there...."you are". See how that works?

Goddamn it, what kind of English are they teaching these days in the public schools?


You are correct sir.... more of a typo, than grammatical.

Hey wait a minute. I'm older than you... So I get to use the senility defense!!! :nanner:
 
If she rocks in the sack, why would you want anything more out of her? So she has a sexual dislike, who cares?! She likes YOUR COCK and thats all that should matter.

Save the porn for when she's outta town. Or better yet, ask her to make you some homeade porn...thats kinda the same thing as her watching it with you...sorta....not really. But its better. :D
 
If she rocks in the sack, why would you want anything more out of her? So she has a sexual dislike, who cares?! She likes YOUR COCK and thats all that should matter.

Save the porn for when she's outta town. Or better yet, ask her to make you some homeade porn...thats kinda the same thing as her watching it with you...sorta....not really. But its better. :D


Oh Ashleighcwh.......I think I love you.
 
If she rocks in the sack, why would you want anything more out of her? So she has a sexual dislike, who cares?! She likes YOUR COCK and thats all that should matter.

Save the porn for when she's outta town. Or better yet, ask her to make you some homeade porn...thats kinda the same thing as her watching it with you...sorta....not really. But its better. :D




Good Advice..



But to the OP if this^ isnt a good enough answer and you really are stuck on her trying it out. Why dont you let her pick out something she likes and let her watch it alone then slowly work it into you both watching because a lot of girls feel insecure watching porn around other people esp bf's
 

Torre82

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Tie her up, set her down and put on something SHE likes. See, when common sense prevailed...

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... sorry, lemme reword this: Have some common sense. You can buy it on eBay cheaply. Do it. Then remind yourself that porn is geared toward a male audience.. with zero production value and no real erotica so much as helping-you-nut-quickly before the GF comes over. Then.. ya know, the whole cameron diaz hair gel thing.. yeah. That's the purpose.

Soo anyway. Find out what she likes, shop around.. and buy something classy. Hell, it doesnt even have to include nudity. It doesnt even have to be PORN. You know how a friend of mine got his girl to like porn? Thru a mainstream thriller. American Psycho. You know the one with Christian Bale? The scene where the chicks dance and get fucked on cam... it totally took her by surprise and yet, it's part of the movie so she cant cry foul that you switched some porn on.. mid-movie! LOL

So after the movie she rode him like a wild beast. She didnt go into the scene biased.
 
Time my friend, time. Just be open and honest about the fact that you enjoy porn (so long as it doesn't offend her in any way). Find some really nice scenes (maybe vivthomas or andrewblake?) and occasionally say hey check this out as you would a youtube video.

If she likes it she likes it, if not, then don't force the issue. It's not everybody's cup of tea.
 
I've been with my gf for a while now and everything is going good...but i can't convince her to watch porn with me.........she's a freak in bed, but says she doesn't like porn..

tie her to a chair,tape her eyes open,...you can figure out the rest
 
Frankly, if that's not her bag it's not her bag and conventional wisdom says you should respect that or risk being the guy she had to leave because he tried to "force her" to watch porn.

Better would be to get her to accept YOU watching it (if she already hasn't) and eventually she will get curious about why you like it and possibly join in to see.

That would be your opportunity to help her appreciate what you like by intelligently explaining what it is you like about the type of porn you like watching. :thumbsup:
 
well what turns her on....there is something for everyone in the beautiful world of porn
 
well what turns her on....there is something for everyone in the beautiful world of porn

All porn is based on voyeurism and you have to be some degree of a voyeur to enjoy porn....If she's not a voyeur it won't matter what she likes IMO.
 
Why does she not like porn? More girls do than is represented, we are usually just not fanatics. Did you try something you can watch together. If she really hates it don't force the issue, give it time. She likes to make you cum anyway right? Well there you go, so if she won't come around. Save it for yourself or u and the boys!
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To my mind this mission is impossible.

That's why I prefer to ask girls right ather the acquaintance if they are fond of porn :1orglaugh

It is like a neccessary requirement. If a girl is not dirty enough by nature, you can spend a lot of time and nerves trying to make her more dirty, but the most possible result of that attempts will be the break.

It is hard to sinspire female with formed character and certain point of view on some sex-related things. Thats why I am sure that compatibilty in these questions is one of the first things people should check before starting relationship.
 

girk1

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It was actually a woman who really turned me on to porn when I was 24/25.

Women do like porn & the ones I have known used porn basically as a sly way of showing their sexual likes/dislikes.

But honestly when their is a hot piece of wet kinky vagina in my face I am not really interested in porn.:dunno:
I only get off on porn when the real thing is not readily available. Maybe she feels the same way if she has a man in front of her.

Keep bugging her about porn & it may just creep her out/turn her off. She may feel that you are more interested in porn than her.
 
What if she tried pressuring YOU to like something sexually that turned you off? Say she wanted to stick a finger up your bum and you said no. If she kept bugging you and bugging you about it, eventually you'd resent it and wonder "am I not good enough just the way I am to her?" and you'd tell her to fuck off about it.

Or imagine her pressuring you to go shopping/to the spa/to her parents house ALL the time (something I imagine you dislike). You likely wouldn't even ponder the idea for a second. So you need to just think about her, accept that she has a dislike for something and let it gooo. I don't know why guys try to force their girls to like someting that isn't their cup of tea. Who cares? If she's not telling you to stop watching it, and still puts out all the time, then count yourself lucky. Most committed men I talk to on forums like this have to beg their girls to even give BJS or put out. You have a girl who rocks in the sack, and the only downside is that she doesn't enjoy porn. Time to grow up, stop pressuring her and just fuck her brains out!

(I know, I posted again,this thread just irks me lol)
 
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