How to convince gf to watch porn??

[ChefChiTown]

I've been with my gf for a while now and everything is going good...but i can't convince her to watch porn with me.........she's a freak in bed, but says she doesn't like porn..

Why do you care if she watches porn with you? Seriously, what the fuck does that matter?

One of two things will happen if your girlfriend watches porn with you...

- You pop in Black Cocks, Knee High Socks 4 into your DVD player
- You and your girlfriend sit on the couch
- You start getting an erection
- Your girlfriend sees that you're getting an erection and gets mad
- She gets jealous of the women on the porn and starts to doubt herself
- She begins to question your relationship
- She thinks that she doesn't turn you on as much as the porn stars
- She begins to feel inadequate and dumps you

OR

- You pop in Penis Juice On The Loose 7 into your DVD player
- You and your girlfriend sit on the couch
- You start getting an erection
- Your girlfriend starts getting wet
- You have sex together

So, to recap...

Either you're going to get dumped or you're going to have sex, which you are ALREADY HAVING ANYWAY. So, once again, what's the point?

 

[KDXXX]

What if she tried pressuring YOU to like something sexually that turned you off? Say she wanted to stick a finger up your bum and you said no. If she kept bugging you and bugging you about it, eventually you'd resent it and wonder "am I not good enough just the way I am to her?" and you'd tell her to fuck off about it.

Or imagine her pressuring you to go shopping/to the spa/to her parents house ALL the time (something I imagine you dislike). You likely wouldn't even ponder the idea for a second. So you need to just think about her, accept that she has a dislike for something and let it gooo. I don't know why guys try to force their girls to like someting that isn't their cup of tea. Who cares? If she's not telling you to stop watching it, and still puts out all the time, then count yourself lucky. Most committed men I talk to on forums like this have to beg their girls to even give BJS or put out. You have a girl who rocks in the sack, and the only downside is that she doesn't enjoy porn. Time to grow up, stop pressuring her and just fuck her brains out!

(I know, I posted again,this thread just irks me lol)

Well said.

 

[STDiva]

Why do you care if she watches porn with you? Seriously, what the fuck does that matter?

One of two things will happen if your girlfriend watches porn with you...

- You pop in Black Cocks, Knee High Socks 4 into your DVD player
- You and your girlfriend sit on the couch
- You start getting an erection
- Your girlfriend sees that you're getting an erection and gets mad
- She gets jealous of the women on the porn and starts to doubt herself
- She begins to question your relationship
- She thinks that she doesn't turn you on as much as the porn stars
- She begins to feel inadequate and dumps you

OR

- You pop in Penis Juice On The Loose 7 into your DVD player
- You and your girlfriend sit on the couch
- You start getting an erection
- Your girlfriend starts getting wet
- You have sex together

So, to recap...

Either you're going to get dumped or you're going to have sex, which you are ALREADY HAVING ANYWAY. So, once again, what's the point?

best post ever? discuss!!!

 

[jamrak]

Though Chef's question wasn't poitned to me, but have some thoughts upon that subject.

First, if I have to hide my sexual interests from my girl, it makes me feel like I am kinda double-faced. It is fucked up feeling. Besides, nothing is secret, that shall not be made manifest. One day shit gonna hit the fan. I do not want this to happen by accident. I want a girl that is with me to be informed about what kind of perver I am :dunno:
I just find it more fair and in general better than secretly enjoy porn behind her back.

And second, I think it is about equal level of lust. I think that such qualities like modesty & chastity are bad for the girl. I find them to be against sexuality. I want a girl to be explicit and "spoiled". Porn is kinda "litmus test" of these qualities, so I like when girl enjoys watching it.

Watching porn is a good curtain-raiser to fuck, it teases, and it can give a boost to the "competition feeling". I find it nice when girl is in excitement and to see lust in her eyes when she watches dirty shit. So what is the point? The point is in the head! Emotions. Feelings. Psychological component of the sex is very important. Yes, finally it all ends up with the cum - no mater how you start. But for me the beginning, and even the moment before fuck itself is kinda important... I enjoy electric atmosphere, and enjoy how does the desire grasp a girl.

I think I am talking about the same shit, that girls mean when they say about romantic atmosphere, soft music and candlelight dinner :1orglaugh ...Though it is also about to end with the cum, they like it to begin with gallant love-making etc. The only difference is that I am biased not towards romantic stuff, but towards dirty shit and explicit lustful atmosphere. But I agree that emotional/psychological component is very important when it comes to sex. Watching porn together helps to achieve this dirty and explicit feelings/emotions.

 

[Ashleigh]

Watching porn together helps to achieve this dirty and explicit feelings/emotions.

For YOU.

You mentioned how ladies want romance and emotional connection prior to sex...do you think watching porn will fill her needs? I think these kind of requests are far too demanding of any mate. I mean, sure I bet you could find a girl who loves watching porn, but she'll be someone who doesn't like BJS/anal sex/something else that you require. Every partner lacks or dislikes SOMETHING so you gotta figure out whats most important and find THAT instead of nitpicking over other things. If porn watching is at the top of your list, then fine, you should definitely be with someone who enjoys it too. But if its just something that would make sex "icing on the cake", then forget it. Women hate overly demanding men. (this post is directed at the OP too lol)

 

[jamrak]

For YOU.

You mentioned how ladies want romance and emotional connection prior to sex...do you think watching porn will fill her needs? I think these kind of requests are far too demanding of any mate

The whole conception of "overdemanding men" is ruined with one single word: mutuality. Or lack of it.

That's why, as I mentioned before, point of view upon porn is one of the first things to check yours and your partners compatibility with. And it is important criteria to select your partner. So, in the case I described - it is not "for me". For us.

As for the "demands", I do not like this approach. Everybody has demands, men have them, women have them. But it is a problem only when people demand different things from each other. But if the shit is mutual, it is not a problem at all. Just find the right person to be with (instead of trying to change him/her, which usually leads to brainfucking and scandals)

 

[Spleen]

Easy

 

[Member2019]

Why change her interests, values?

Seriously. She has her interests, values, why change them?

 

[Ashleigh]

The whole conception of "overdemanding men" is ruined with one single word: mutuality. Or lack of it.

That's why, as I mentioned before, point of view upon porn is one of the first things to check yours and your partners compatibility with. And it is important criteria to select your partner. So, in the case I described - it is not "for me". For us.

As for the "demands", I do not like this approach. Everybody has demands, men have them, women have them. But it is a problem only when people demand different things from each other. But if the shit is mutual, it is not a problem at all. Just find the right person to be with (instead of trying to change him/her, which usually leads to brainfucking and scandals)

...thats what I said. lol

I said that if watching porn together was super high on your list of things you want out of a sexual relationship, then make sure to be with someone that enjoys it as much as you do. But the OP pretty much said he's got a hot chick, who rocks in the sack and the only thing extra he'd want is for her to watch porn with him. I say, if she's that good in bed, then its likely worth overseeing. EVERYONE has one sexual "hangup" in a relationship...its just best not to nitpick about the stuff that really doesn't matter. So what the OP needs to do is weigh out the *great in bed* vs *I wanna watch porn with whomever I'm with* and make a call based on whats more important...because like you said, theres no point in trying to change someone..its not fair, and it usually doesn't get you what you want.