How Many Sex Partners Have You Had
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member2686
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This is typical for people your age, Seraphim, who've dated and whatnot in their youth and played around a bit in their youthful follies, but who were NOT specifically looking for the next person to fuck just for (literally) the fuck of it... That's where/why I find this notion of keeping score, counting, and telling people about it like it's a sports score to be appalling.
I don't give a damn about how many ANY of the members here have slept with, but if friends tell me in confidence, fine. Otherwise, it's none of my business and it's their personal health (mental & physical) concern.
The only point in telling anyone here, publicly, about the number of sex partners we've had is to somehow make some sort of impression, and I find it pointless. I'm glad that people are opening up their lunchboxes, though - you can see part of their true characters that way.
People in their early 20s who've slept with dozens of other people perhaps need to review their priorities, IMO. That's pretty much a summary of my opinion here. If you're 24 and have slept with (i.e. had sexual relations) approximately 30-50 people, and assuming that your sexual activity started at around 16-18 years of age, that's just way too many, and is indicative of a problem; e.g self-validation through sex, triggered sexual response from a bad childhood or abuse, lack of true love/intimacy in your life, etc. That's just my opinion. Feel free to go fuck as many babes (or guys, or both) as you want, but be careful. That's just not my style.
But hey, to each their own... I just happen to be one of these people who thinks that sex isn't, or shouldn't be, a communal recreation like baseball, but rather an intimate thing between two people.
Oh well. :hatsoff: :2 cents:
I don't give a damn about how many ANY of the members here have slept with, but if friends tell me in confidence, fine. Otherwise, it's none of my business and it's their personal health (mental & physical) concern.
The only point in telling anyone here, publicly, about the number of sex partners we've had is to somehow make some sort of impression, and I find it pointless. I'm glad that people are opening up their lunchboxes, though - you can see part of their true characters that way.
People in their early 20s who've slept with dozens of other people perhaps need to review their priorities, IMO. That's pretty much a summary of my opinion here. If you're 24 and have slept with (i.e. had sexual relations) approximately 30-50 people, and assuming that your sexual activity started at around 16-18 years of age, that's just way too many, and is indicative of a problem; e.g self-validation through sex, triggered sexual response from a bad childhood or abuse, lack of true love/intimacy in your life, etc. That's just my opinion. Feel free to go fuck as many babes (or guys, or both) as you want, but be careful. That's just not my style.
But hey, to each their own... I just happen to be one of these people who thinks that sex isn't, or shouldn't be, a communal recreation like baseball, but rather an intimate thing between two people.
Oh well. :hatsoff: :2 cents:
Seraphim said:
member2686
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Hopefully he'll be running for his life, Doc, if you're after him. lol
drdeath67 said:So.....what are you doing later?
********** said:Quality sex with a quantity of partners is what I go for. Best of both worlds
How you can say it shows a lack of a capacity for intimacy is bewildering. The love of my life and I are celebrating our 7th anniversary. We love each other more than anything in the world. It's been seven great years. We have similar sexual appetites. There are millions like us. A lot of them call themselves swingers. Most of them are very careful. Are they all apalling too?
And as for people having dozens of partners: most people on here seem to be very careful, having slept with 5 or less people, which is great. Personally, I can't go a week without wanting a new sex partner, and I can never get enough. It's not about sexual prowess or a curriculum vitae, it's about as many different women, experiences, tastes, nationalities and as much fun as possible. You only live once: I love it way too much to do it in moderation. Besides, I get tested all the time. Sorry you find people like me apalling. You seem to find a lot of things apalling and love to tell people how apalling they are. Nice.
Fox
I agree the more the merrier, we used to have a game in the pub basically we all had to sleep with as many women as possible ie to score. the better we did the higher in the team we got, ahhh those were the days of great uncomplicated youth. Needless to say that i honestly don't know the number of women I have had sex with as i can't even remember them all:rofl:
Btw Mythex, the first time for me was the worst time ever but even so i had a freakin HUGE smile on my face for days
Only the one for me , its all we seemed to do for about a year or so,yes I do wish i had more , to develop my palette so to speak. Porn & Stripclubs just seem to be an easier option , brothels next I suppose.
Its been an interesting thread , nightfly inspired me to go & register with his/her site even ( looks great !) .
Refreshing to find an educated opinion in what most might call a smut site. Nightfly sure seems to have one of those , made me think back to how I didn't get any in my school years , the attitude people have ( " once you lose your virginity the sex just keeps coming " ) , people i socialised & worked with who always seem to just go from one partner to another , and how you can be labeled a fag if your not a slut.
Its been an interesting thread , nightfly inspired me to go & register with his/her site even ( looks great !) .
Refreshing to find an educated opinion in what most might call a smut site. Nightfly sure seems to have one of those , made me think back to how I didn't get any in my school years , the attitude people have ( " once you lose your virginity the sex just keeps coming " ) , people i socialised & worked with who always seem to just go from one partner to another , and how you can be labeled a fag if your not a slut.
member2686
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Sex at 10, Fox?! :wtf: Was it consensual or were you molested? Was it with another child or were you statutorially raped because it was with an adult? :eek:
I'm not picking on you or anyone else, Fox - I just have my opinions and this message board, as are all of them typically, is tantamount to Speakers' Corner in London. Pretty much anything goes as long as outright personal insults aren't used here. You DO know though that there are some pretty asinine things asked here, and people should be free to discuss them and offer their opinions of them as long as diplomacy is used. Calling a thread stupid does not mean that you're calling a person stupid.
To topic: I've had 6 sexual partners in 16 years, and only one of them was a one-night-stand (and it was the most disgusting, regrettable sexual experience of my life - I was rebounding from a relationship that had lasted 9 years and went down the toilet when the woman cheated and left me). I could have had more partners, but I choose to sleep only with one woman, a woman with whom I'm in love. I don't require any other sex, because the sex is wonderful BECAUSE we're in love.
Any imbecile can go get laid. Any imbecile can also get a woman pregant by accident, even using "protection." Any imbecile can become infected by STDs, including HIV, using "protection." I choose not to take those risks, as well as adhering to my principles/perspective as stated above.
Anyway, cheers and... :hatsoff: To each their own. It's just not for me, Fox.
I'm not picking on you or anyone else, Fox - I just have my opinions and this message board, as are all of them typically, is tantamount to Speakers' Corner in London. Pretty much anything goes as long as outright personal insults aren't used here. You DO know though that there are some pretty asinine things asked here, and people should be free to discuss them and offer their opinions of them as long as diplomacy is used. Calling a thread stupid does not mean that you're calling a person stupid.
To topic: I've had 6 sexual partners in 16 years, and only one of them was a one-night-stand (and it was the most disgusting, regrettable sexual experience of my life - I was rebounding from a relationship that had lasted 9 years and went down the toilet when the woman cheated and left me). I could have had more partners, but I choose to sleep only with one woman, a woman with whom I'm in love. I don't require any other sex, because the sex is wonderful BECAUSE we're in love.
Any imbecile can go get laid. Any imbecile can also get a woman pregant by accident, even using "protection." Any imbecile can become infected by STDs, including HIV, using "protection." I choose not to take those risks, as well as adhering to my principles/perspective as stated above.
Anyway, cheers and... :hatsoff: To each their own. It's just not for me, Fox.
Ax3C
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Regardless ... I'm kinda weary of reading about both of y'all's perspectives and opinions. Respect each other's stance or not; let's fucking move on with the thread's intent. Take this crap to private messages if y'all need to ... I'm kinda sick of reading the back 'n' forth between the both of you.
Enough of the cock-measuring contest!!!
Enough of the cock-measuring contest!!!
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********** said:
Geez you keep score, so what do you write them down or just have a good memory? You prob wont say but Ill ask anyway, can you mention any of the pornstars, even if u named the ones u just kissed?
For me 0, but Im perfectly fine with it. Im a very picky guy, plus dating sucks in Detroit. Once I move and get a decent job in a nice place then the number will change. Until then Im happy with 0, I just havent run into chicks worth it. I have hit on hundreds though lol, Im just really nice to chicks and they like me too. I guess they would call me a tease. Im still lookin for at least 1 with both personality and looks I mean they dont gotta be perfect though. I dont know where d-rock lives in Michigan but it would be funny if he lived in detroit like me and has the same reasons as me for having 0. I have hit on and chatted with so many models and pornstars I cant help but hope that I meet one of them someday and they actually have a personality to match the looks.
Keeping Score doesn't give you depth.
For example, I didn't lose my "intercourse virginity" until 18, and that wasn't voluntary! Had she not mounted me when I wasn't looking, I would have waited until I was 24, on my honeymoon, after dating my wife (to be) for 3 years! I got dumped in HS because I wouldn't have intercourse -- on a regular basis.
I was with exactly 49 women over a little more than 5 years in an intimate setting where someone orgasmed -- before meeting my wife (to be). It wasn't always me who orgasmed, only 42 of them did I have an orgasm for myself. I unloaded between the breasts of nearly all of those 42, although a few took me orally -- which is something I only reserved for women I had been with for a long while (BJs make me very vunerable, so I'm shy to let a woman).
I actually avoided any intimacy (nothing past "second base") until mid-HS. As I've posted elsewhere, I was a "trophy dater" and went out with the thin, popular women instead of the full figured women I found I actually desired around age 16 (until I met my wife, to be, at 21). I'm glad I did because it kept me honest and I didn't do anything too stupid before then (when several opportunities presented themselves).
But I can honestly say I went down on more women than I had an orgasm with. Nearly every one of those 49 got their carpet munched, and I never gagged and actually preferred full bush. In fact, the only woman to give me such a hard time about my going down on her was my wife (damn she was a tough nut to crack!).
In all honesty, I wouldn't have minded if it was only 1, my wife. But I don't regret what I had with all those women. And I can appreciate much of it. Especially since I saved many things like intercourse for my wife. All while not denying myself and others I loved of intimacy that two consenting adults shouldn't feel ashamed to share in the 5 something years before her.
For example, I didn't lose my "intercourse virginity" until 18, and that wasn't voluntary! Had she not mounted me when I wasn't looking, I would have waited until I was 24, on my honeymoon, after dating my wife (to be) for 3 years! I got dumped in HS because I wouldn't have intercourse -- on a regular basis.
I was with exactly 49 women over a little more than 5 years in an intimate setting where someone orgasmed -- before meeting my wife (to be). It wasn't always me who orgasmed, only 42 of them did I have an orgasm for myself. I unloaded between the breasts of nearly all of those 42, although a few took me orally -- which is something I only reserved for women I had been with for a long while (BJs make me very vunerable, so I'm shy to let a woman).
I actually avoided any intimacy (nothing past "second base") until mid-HS. As I've posted elsewhere, I was a "trophy dater" and went out with the thin, popular women instead of the full figured women I found I actually desired around age 16 (until I met my wife, to be, at 21). I'm glad I did because it kept me honest and I didn't do anything too stupid before then (when several opportunities presented themselves).
But I can honestly say I went down on more women than I had an orgasm with. Nearly every one of those 49 got their carpet munched, and I never gagged and actually preferred full bush. In fact, the only woman to give me such a hard time about my going down on her was my wife (damn she was a tough nut to crack!).
In all honesty, I wouldn't have minded if it was only 1, my wife. But I don't regret what I had with all those women. And I can appreciate much of it. Especially since I saved many things like intercourse for my wife. All while not denying myself and others I loved of intimacy that two consenting adults shouldn't feel ashamed to share in the 5 something years before her.
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