how do you get your girlfriend or wife off?

how do you get your girlfriend or wife off?

  • oral sex

    Votes: 77 46.1%
  • vaginal penetration

    Votes: 81 48.5%
  • manual stimulation

    Votes: 52 31.1%
  • anal penetration

    Votes: 18 10.8%
  • havent figured it out yet or she fakes it :

    Votes: 19 11.4%

  • Total voters
    167
My old onw before wife: purely oral sex. She loved to get licked.
Wife before kids: missionary position long and slow all night fuck.
Wife after kids: doggy hard and fast, the only way she can cum. Usually results in me blowing my load first but I soldier on as long as I can. Talking dirty helps.
 
I've gotten my honey to cum through vaginal and anal penetration. And she usually lets me get off by giving me a blowjob afterwards. :cool:
 
Speaking from a woman's perspective, for me it's not just about speed or length of time, it's about pressure. Pressure on the pubic bone and whole pubic area as well around the clit. Maybe try fingering her with one hand and with the heel of the palm of your other hand try massaging that against her pubic bone in hard, slow rotations. Might not work for all women, but it works for the ones I have talked too.

Hope that helps!

Thanks! Great advice. I think I will try that tonight. :thumbsup:
 
well i am just reflecting on all the good times i had. They were good times indeed. both parties would agree to that :p
 
Pretty much everything works for me, except anal, never found the thought of that anywhere close to appealing so it's a definite no-go for me. ;)
 

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Two words: Gold Card.

Indeed. As a jewish guy, I gotta laugh at the jokes about my jewish girls.

How do you get a jewish girl to orgasm? Talk nasty about the credit cards and jewelry!

Thats *almost* true. I swear, no day goes by when my girl doesnt tell me about the compliments she gets about the jewelry I bought her. Her smile speaks volumes. She isnt the most material girl I've ever seen, but it certainly plays a role. :bows kindly: And with that excerpt from my own relationship, I now have to caiter to my inflamed prostate. (I swear I pee as much as the lil woman does these days!)
 
well wouldn't you do oral to get them off? Thought that would be sensible?
 
Speaking from a woman's perspective, for me it's not just about speed or length of time, it's about pressure. Pressure on the pubic bone and whole pubic area as well around the clit. Maybe try fingering her with one hand and with the heel of the palm of your other hand try massaging that against her pubic bone in hard, slow rotations. Might not work for all women, but it works for the ones I have talked too.

Hope that helps!
She's right! :D ;)
 
No limit credit cards!
 
in this post, it's the "fingering her clitty hard" part that broke the 100 in 80 minutes barrier, and it's the last part that tells you how to get her to squirt everywhere, and no, it's not pee, BBFC, BASTARDS.

FINGERING HER CLITTY - soft and slow

While it may be fun to slide your fingers in and finger inside her pussy, I'll concentrate first of all on playing with her clitty. Most girls, when they masturbate, concentrate on the clitoris, which is actually not inside the pussy at all, it is above the entrance. If you don't know where it is, look it up. Get a diagram.

In case you don't know, when the pubic hair gives way to the beginnings of the pussy slit itself, you are right above the clitoris. It is less than half an inch below that point at the very top of the pussy, and it is often hidden behind folds of pussy meat and protective layers - at the very very top of the pussy, on the outside.

It is between the two pussy lips, but at the top of them, where they meet. You will know when you find it because it sticks out a little from the rest of the pussy, and there is nothing above it but pubic hair (or shaved, sexy girlie skin, if she shaves down there, which is so fucking hot...).

Now, the way lots of girls like to be fingered to orgasm is slow, soft, and very very gently. First, make sure it's nice and wet (licking and kissing it is always a great idea - if you want to know how to do that, ask me for more oral advice), by using lube or even better - wetting your fingers with your mouth. If she's really wet, you might even want to dip your fingers gently into her hole, and get them wet like that, before placing them over the clitty.

If she's not wet, don't start playing with the clitty before you've touched her and kissed her in other places: kiss her lips, bite and nibble on her neck, suck her earlobes and nipples, kiss her tummy, whisper, moan into and put your tongue in her ear, run your hands up and down her back, kiss her inner thighs, her legs, suck her toes, kiss her ass: whatever it takes to get her wet, whatever she likes. You can talk dirty to her too, and whisper right into her ear - lots of girls find that a big turn-on. I told you how to do that in the first paragraph.

When she's ready, place one or two fingers (your first and middle finger, usually) over her clitty, when it's wet and slippery, and start to gently rub and tease. Rub it slowly from side to side, or up and down. Rub around it, too. Not hard. In fact, you might not want to have too much contact between your fingers and her pussy. Try to be as light and delicate as you can, just tease it and play with it as if it were the delicate petals of a flower.

You can vary the motion, firmness of your touch, and the speed with which you touch her, but at the end of it, you should be turning her on and you should feel it swelling and expanding. If it's getting less wet, spit on your hand or use her pussy juice or more lube and keep it REALLY wet.

Once she's getting really into it, find a regular motion that she likes, and repeat it again and again. Not necessarily harder or faster (unless that works), but perhaps more firmly, more repetitive. Circular motions usually work well. Sucking her nipple or kissing her while you're doing it often helps.

When she's squirming and loving it, just keep doing what you're doing, continue with the motion, and before long, she should start throbbing (you'll feel it pulsating) and she'll gyrate and have a really powerful orgasm. This can take anything from one minute to thirty minutes, but it's usually between five and fifteen. Don't keep going after five minutes if she's not enjoying it at all. If she starts enjoying it less, vary it, because the idea is to BUILD the pressure and the pleasure. It's a very slow, gentle process.

Ask her to tell you what she likes, when she wants it harder or softer, faster, slower, or differently, and when she wants you to keep doing what you are doing.

If it doesn't work, don't worry, it doesn't work on every girl. Try the harder one or the squirting one (internal) and best of all, try licking her pussy to orgasm.

FINGERING HER CLITTY - harder

Some girls like it rough. A lot more than you think. That doesn't mean every girl likes it rough all the time: but a lot of girls that enjoy delicate sex and oral and fingering also like to be animalistically made to cum by forceful fingering or licking or fucking. With these girls, the above may work, and can often lead to more powerful orgasms, but there is a quicker, faster way. That way is fingering her clitoris (same place) much harder, pressing fairly hard down on it with your finger, and rubbing it very very quickly from side to side.

This way, again, make sure it's REALLY WET and she's horny (use spit on your hands or juice from her hole or lube or all), then find the clit with your finger (this works when you're standing up, really well) and start moving your finger from side to side while pressing on it. As she starts to enjoy it, do it harder and faster. You can use one or two fingers for this, usually it doesn't work too well with more than two. After thirty seconds to two minutes, she'll start really enjoying it, and just keep going harder and faster. Make sure it's wet. Press even harder on the clit itself and keep rubbing from side to side, over and over, as fast as you can.

If this hurts at any time (in a way that she doesn't like), or she says she doesn't like it, you should stop, or slow down.

If it works, she'll have a sudden, overwhelming orgasm, where she suddenly goes tense and peaks and cums, quickly, then comes down again. You can keep going and make her cum again. It's not hard. Keep doing it till she gets sore if you like. Some women can orgasm ten or more times like this. My girlfriend and I broke the record when she came over a hundred times this way in less than an hour. So as you can see, this is very very very productive if your girl is into this kind of play and you do it right. Try and keep your fingers right on the clit... that is the important part. If you're rubbing the wrong part, it will have little or no effect. It's the nub, the swollen part, the mini-dick in the place I pointed out to you earlier.

If those two don't work, and she won't tell you how to do it (maybe - cause she doesn't know), you need to try the squirting orgasm. This is the BEST of the all methods and involves going inside. Are you ready? This could change your life and her life...

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one more part coming (squirting) sorry about the multiple posts. This all does answer the question pretty accurately though ;)

you sir have too much time on your hands, thnx for the lip tip though, Iv allways tried to just barely touch her clit with my toungue, but the lips idea, has me going crazy allready
 
Indeed. As a jewish guy, I gotta laugh at the jokes about my jewish girls.

How do you get a jewish girl to orgasm? Talk nasty about the credit cards and jewelry!

Thats *almost* true. I swear, no day goes by when my girl doesnt tell me about the compliments she gets about the jewelry I bought her. Her smile speaks volumes. She isnt the most material girl I've ever seen, but it certainly plays a role. :bows kindly: And with that excerpt from my own relationship, I now have to caiter to my inflamed prostate. (I swear I pee as much as the lil woman does these days!)

hey why do little women like mine pee every fkign 5 minuts?, and now my best friend gary pees like ever fking 10 minuts, I feel liek a parent before we go somewhere except I cant ask if everyones gone to the washroom cause id look liek a dick, ahahhahahahha
 
most of the time she goes whenever i start to go... she say i just get rock hard and go in deep... and she says whenever i go all she can think about is me filling her up and she cant help but go
 
i've given girls multiple orgasms through both vaginal penetration and oral (most often oral)

Two girls i've made cum in under 5 minutes with oral, so i guess thats my skill?

Shame none of them where actually any good at returning the favour, heh :D

lol that sounds like me also.

one girl i made her cum 7 times in 30 mins, i was FUCKED and she was too she needed her ventalin :rofl:
 
You mean get her off the bed? Usually a good kick will do.

Seriously, Becks is like most other women in that department, the quickest and best way to get her off is a combination of oral and manual stimulation.
 
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