How do you delay ejaculation?

[Mz Zodd]

The other day I got a blow job, and granted it had been a very, very long time and I should have been prepared, but in far less than a minute after she had me in her mouth, I came so fast that I didn't even have time to tell her to stop. I'd really like to avoid this in the future as much as possible.

It also got me wondering once more how porn stars do it. I know they alter their tempo a bit, withdraw here and there, and they are desensitized a bit from the constant sex, and other factors, but the fact remains that they still can go minutes at a time banging away at the sexiest girls on the planet, and unless it's all done through editing, they can do this for at least 15 minutes, sometimes much more.

It's of course much easier to control when you're by yourself - you know when you're about to cum so you can just stop and wait a bit, or completely control the tempo, but speaking for myself whenever I start back up at a normal pace I've only got a few seconds, certainly not minutes. I don't try thinking about gross or terrible things, as some have said, because that seems not only unnecessary but also worse than cumming early.

I could use some good info on this.

 

[SabrinaDeep]

I've heard that strenghtening your pelvic muscles helps, but the guys can tell you better, i guess eheheh

 

[Deepcover]

Either don't think about it or jacket off before she blows on you. Every guy is a diff. I usually last a very long time which leave girls shitting in their pants.

 

[lurkingdirk]

Keep a hot iron to hand. When you're getting close, tell her, and she'll rest your scrotum against the scalding hot iron. You'll be back to square 1. Problem solved!

 

[Red Spyder]

I never delay it. it does take a while to get there :tongue:

 

[gunslingingbird]

I've heard that if you either squeeze or tug your nut sack when you're getting close to cumming you can delay it, but I have never tried it.

 

[Mayhem]

Delay it? The faster you get your nut off, the faster you can roll over and go to *****.

Some things shouldn't have to be explained.

 

[gunslingingbird]

Delay it? The faster you get your nut off, the faster you can roll over and go to *****.

Some things shouldn't have to be explained.

I got one better than that. I once fell ****** while my girlfriend-at-the-time was riding me cowgirl. She was PISSED!!!

 

[Mr_Balls]

Stop what your doing and eat pussy for a few minutes

 

[tartanterrier]

Just think of Susan Boyle

 

[lurkingdirk]

Just think of Susan Boyle

naked on a cold day.

 

[BlueBalls]

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[SabrinaDeep]

Just think of Susan Boyle

Listen to her voice and songs.

 

[Shifty]

Think about baseball.

 

[Kingfisher]

Stop what your doing and eat pussy for a few minutes

Yup. Or go to town on her first, make sure she gets hers a couple of times, then it doesn't matter if you blow fast.

 

[luis1972]

Mental concentration

 

[TheSpokenWheel]

Keep a hot iron to hand. When you're getting close, tell her, and she'll rest your scrotum against the scalding hot iron. You'll be back to square 1. Problem solved!

Thanks, this worked great!

 

[DOA82]

The other day I got a blow job, and granted it had been a very, very long time and I should have been prepared, but in far less than a minute after she had me in her mouth, I came so fast that I didn't even have time to tell her to stop. I'd really like to avoid this in the future as much as possible.

It also got me wondering once more how porn stars do it. I know they alter their tempo a bit, withdraw here and there, and they are desensitized a bit from the constant sex, and other factors, but the fact remains that they still can go minutes at a time banging away at the sexiest girls on the planet, and unless it's all done through editing, they can do this for at least 15 minutes, sometimes much more.

It's of course much easier to control when you're by yourself - you know when you're about to cum so you can just stop and wait a bit, or completely control the tempo, but speaking for myself whenever I start back up at a normal pace I've only got a few seconds, certainly not minutes. I don't try thinking about gross or terrible things, as some have said, because that seems not only unnecessary but also worse than cumming early.

I could use some good info on this.

First thing, don't compare yourself to porn stars. The girls in those videos might appear to be having a good time, but I promise you if you give an actual woman a 45 minutes of straight pounding she will be very unappreciative! Its a vagina, not a trampoline that got left out in the rain!

You hadn't had any sexual contact in a long time so hardly worth beating yourself up over it, your human - it happens!

Whats wrong with stopping in the middle of sex? Blowjob or intercourse, there is nothing wrong with taking a break and focus on her for a while or anything to take your mind off cumming. I do it all the time, I might ask her to stop, or I'll stop her myself and give her some attention for a while. Slow it down if needs be, its not a race and it can be just as enjoyable to slow the pace!

 

[Mayhem]

I got one better than that. I once fell ****** while my girlfriend-at-the-time was riding me cowgirl. She was PISSED!!!

I once lived with a girl who would loosen up at unpredictable times, and she didn't seem to know it. I could never figure how to talk to her about it and there were times......oh, there were times...."Please God, make me cum. I'm begging you God...."

Wasn't too disappointed when that one ended.

 

[Shifty]

Keep a hot iron to hand. When you're getting close, tell her, and she'll rest your scrotum against the scalding hot iron. You'll be back to square 1. Problem solved!

Guys, don't try this. It doesn't work and as it turns out its very painful.