How do you cope?

[BoboBrowne]

When a girl you love is dating another man? I realize this isn't a psychiatric clinic, but every time I imagine them fucking, it tears me apart. Anybody had to deal with that?

 

[anomaly]

A few questions first!
Do you know her?
Is she attainable?
Does she know you?
Is she your ex?

 

[STDiva]

I've gone through this with the first few ex girlfriends. It wasn't the fact that they were fucking, it was the thought that I wasn't the one making her happy anymore. It's tough to accept, but time heals all wounds I guess.

 

[Bloodshot Scott]

http://www.guyshampoo.com/vodka/images/2-phillipsface_06.jpg

that is all

 

[busaguy79]

Alot of masterbating, your tears make a really good lube!

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

If this is your ex, wallow in your sad feelings for two weeks, and after that, just move on. Immerse yourself back into your life, do new activities, spend time with friends and start dating again.

If this girl isn't someone you've dated, and its just a girl that you're lusting after, then you getting a life is nearly impossible because you had none to begin with.

Oh and I'll I'll second Busaguy, but make sure to keep a steady flow of tears while bating because the salt content in tears tends to dry out your dick if you don't keep constantly lubed. :2 cents:

 

[busaguy79]

Oh and I'll I'll second Busaguy, but make sure to keep a steady flow of tears while bating because the salt content in tears tends to dry out your dick if you don't keep constantly lubed. :2 cents:

The trick is to let your dick dry out because the pain you feel stroking it off will dull the pain and sorrow in your soul!

 

[ralph furley]

don't love women. just think of them as sex objects only

 

[PlasmaTwa2]

Do drugs, they are a great way to handle reality.

 

[Hypergalaxy]

Simple advice.. Find someone better, it will cure your sadness quickly. In the meantime remind yourself that the better person is out there.

 

[gunslingingbird]

I've grown, ah, I wouldn't quite say immune to the feeling, but I've learned that it's gonna happen whether I like it or not, and there ain't a goddamn thing I can do about it, so it's easier to just let it be and not think about it.

 

[Katja]

Bloodshot could not have said it better. Its frowned upon but will work wonders, trust me.

 

[Hypergalaxy]

Bloodshot could not have said it better. Its frowned upon but will work wonders, trust me.

Not really. Alcohol can heighten emotions and make shit feel even worse at times. Depends on the person.

 

[gunslingingbird]

Alot of masterbating, your tears make a really good lube!

And, according to Human Centipede 2: Full Sequence, so does sand paper. :thumbsup:

 

[BoboBrowne]

A few questions first!
Do you know her?
Is she attainable?
Does she know you?
Is she your ex?

Yes
Kinda, sorta
Yes
No

To those who say alcohol, I'm way ahead of you. Hate to sound like a pussy, but I'm still really hurting.

 

[Hypergalaxy]

Yes
Kinda, sorta
Yes
No

To those who say alcohol, I'm way ahead of you. Hate to sound like a pussy, but I'm still really hurting.

You are not a pussy man but don't let yourself get caught up in a taken women. It sucks and they barely leave who they are with. Look for someone better, there is someone better.

 

[BoboBrowne]

You are not a pussy man but don't let yourself get caught up in a taken women. It sucks and they barely leave who they are with. Look for someone better, there is someone better.

Hope you are right. Thank you. Thanks to all of you.

Okay, go back to porn, guys.

 

[Mayhem]

Save the rage until you are alone in your car and can scream at the windshield. Night is preferable to day, so people won't see the tears.

This method works. Trust me, I know.

 

[CherylFan]

What you need to do is exercise mind=control and put her behind you and find someone yourself. What you don`t want to do is waste a lot of time daydreaming about what might have been, fantasising about how her tits feel to her bf`s grasp, what her nipples taste like as he sucks them, what her lips would feel like wrapped around his cock, or what her pussy feels like as he pumps his cum into her. That`s really not what you want to do.

 

[xfire]

That's just the sound of your soul breaking, brother. The good news is it only happens once, so once you're over this bitch it'll never hurt quite the same again.