How do you cope?

You don`t.The love of my life has just got up and fucked off with someone else.It kills you inside and all you feel like is going outside and killing every person you see.
 

Facetious

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When a girl you love is dating another man? I realize this isn't a psychiatric clinic, but every time I imagine them fucking, it tears me apart. Anybody had to deal with that?

It's murder, I know.

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...on the psyche! Don't opt to kill anybody now, that is not what I meant, honest!!

Keep your mind occupied, learn new skills, go out drinkin after work, stay in the game and finally, never ever complain to your new prospects about your ex, it doesn't get you laid!
 
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How much do really want the girl? You could always give some chick a grand to hit on the guy she is with now and get him to cheat on the girl you like. In addition to the girl for hire, get a private detective for another couple of grand to photograph them being together with them making out and shit.

Then after you do all of this, have a woman to write an anonymous letter to the girl you are crazy about, saying "just didn't want to see you being played for a fool" and include the photos. Make sure the photos are time and date stamped.

You need to make sure the chick is smoking hot, so there is a better chance he will give in to temptation.

You need to be prepared that the woman you are in love with will like him even more after she learns of it. (very possible)

Be prepared that the woman you are in love with, will still not rebound over to you even if they guy falls for the bait and they break up.

Take solace that you gave it your best shot in the name of true love if it doesn't work in your favor.

Feel good that you injected a few grand into the local economy.

Or just move on and forget about her and find someone else.
 
I man the fuck up and move on to another girl.

I agree with that, but first I man up and go for the girl I want. If it fails, so be it. At least I went after what I wanted.

Then, I move on. Friends and Jack Daniels help ease the waiting pain.
 
if she's happy with the guy she's with, why can't you be happy? Its a sign that you're obsessing and projecting a delusion (that she's "perfect")
 
I man the fuck up and move on to another girl.

+1

To the OP, it doesn't sound like you "love" her, it sounds like you are infatuated with her.

But if you're Ryan Reynolds you could probably pull it off.
 

LukeEl

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Just move on man, plenty of better women to grow with and have mind blowing intense sex with. She's got her own headache to deal with now, believe me I have been down that road plenty of times. There have been lot's of guys that have probably fucked the shit out of my exs, and yeah it sucks but life goes on.
 

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Just move on man, plenty of better women to grow with and have mind blowing intense sex with. She's got her own headache to deal with now, believe me I have been down that road plenty of times. There have been lot's of guys that have probably fucked the shit out of my exs, and yeah it sucks but life goes on.

Agreed.
 
If you truly love someone, hard as it is, you have to let them go and try to be happy for them.

You have your own life to lead, and obviously if she was meant to be with you, she would be.

Harsh as it sounds, that's life, so go live yours! :cool:
 
Why worry? There are three things in life that are certain.

1. There will always be another job to come along.
2. There will always be another bus to come along.
3. There will always be another woman to come along.
 
Dating/sex with other women will ease your pain. Allow the one you "love" to notice this and you may be able to get her.
 
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