Girls saying or referring to things during sex

I gotta say i like it, I LOVE IT really but ive been with a few girls that arent really that into it initially and their too self conscious about it.
Its definitely a turn on and although they're probably faking it is nice to know when something feels good.

That's really interesting, I haven't really ever thought about them being self conscious about it... although I don't know what in particular you're talking about but interesting. I do have to agree with you about the faking although if it's so forced sometimes I'd be too frustrated to continue.
 
It irks me when you slap the girl's butt and they don't respond or when they don't respond to anything when you're trying to give them every bit of pleasure! To me, I think that no one is ever going to have the perfect sex because it's impossible.
 

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i hate when the girls say daddy. But otherwise dirty talking is sooo hot I'll love it when they asked to be fucked harder and stuff like that. I think that it adds more to the general watching experience
 
i hate when the girls say daddy. But otherwise dirty talking is sooo hot I'll love it when they asked to be fucked harder and stuff like that. I think that it adds more to the general watching experience

Exactly and I think for most people that's the biggest turn on/exciting thing.
 
I love when the girls are doing that thing really professionally in porn, like in doctoradventures.com, the guy have a normal conversation with the girl he's currently doggystyling^^
 
I love when the girls are doing that thing really professionally in porn, like in doctoradventures.com, the guy have a normal conversation with the girl he's currently doggystyling^^

That kind of fantasy is really cool, I like those kinds of sites as well... I'd like to do that kind of roleplaying, seems interesing and to "spice" things up sexually.
 
It's been my experience that the more comfortable one is with the person they are having sex with, the better the sex is. Of all the women I have had sex with the best vocal sex came with the women that I had a previous relationship with ie, friends first, or girlfriends that I had been with for a while and the relationship was a good one.

The contrast the worst sex in my life were a couple of one night stands, however you do get those women occasionally who just love to fuck and that can be some of the best sex of a man's life. Getting back to the point of the thread, I also love when a woman spouts some nasty porn style talk in the sack. Now that I am married and settled down, my wife knows I like all that stuff and she lets the dirty talk fly. I ended up with a woman that loved sex and her own sexuality and loves to watch porn and suck cock!
 
It's been my experience that the more comfortable one is with the person they are having sex with, the better the sex is. Of all the women I have had sex with the best vocal sex came with the women that I had a previous relationship with ie, friends first, or girlfriends that I had been with for a while and the relationship was a good one.

The contrast the worst sex in my life were a couple of one night stands, however you do get those women occasionally who just love to fuck and that can be some of the best sex of a man's life. Getting back to the point of the thread, I also love when a woman spouts some nasty porn style talk in the sack. Now that I am married and settled down, my wife knows I like all that stuff and she lets the dirty talk fly. I ended up with a woman that loved sex and her own sexuality and loves to watch porn and suck cock!

You totally get the idea of what I was talking about for this thread and I totally agree with being with someone a long time. That's what bothers me, you have to work up to that point with the agony of being horny and sexually frustrated all the time. Good to hear that you got a lady that you can really be happy with sexually because isn't that really hard to find these days?
 
It seems to be yes, trust me I went through a lot of pussy and failed relationships to get here. I not trying to sound like a jerk with the next statement, however when the wife and I were dating it's a good thing she could fuck because I was not sticking around if the pussy wasn't good. That's just the way I was in those days, I could have always found someone else for the time being that could fuck me stupid!

At the time I was looking for someone but I wasn't. Turns out that she fell for me from the getgo and we have a great time together without the sex and then the sex was great so what else can one ask for.

As far as working up to something and being frustrated, don't put yourself through that. If it has been a while and you are feeling comfortable you need to get those feelings about sexual activity out in the open. Talk to your partner and tell her what you like and ask her what she likes and all that kind of a thing. I've found that you don't get anywhere in life by keeping your mouth shut. Life is too short to be unhappy sexually.

My wife and I were together four months and I bought her a vibrator for her birthday. One of two things were going to happen and I knew it, I just wanted to see if she was open minded enough for me sexually.
 
^^ Totally understandable, the only problem is seeing as life is so short we put off sex like it isn't important for things that we actually need.
 
Hey fellas enjoy your girls talking dirty to you. Do not try to respond or keep up with her. When women talk dirty it can be sexy, us guys are more likely to say something stupid or filthy and ruin the moment.:D
 
Hey fellas enjoy your girls talking dirty to you. Do not try to respond or keep up with her. When women talk dirty it can be sexy, us guys are more likely to say something stupid or filthy and ruin the moment.:D

Yes that's very true but one of the things that I worry about is the girl won't talk dirty (and by "dirty" I don't mean anything too nasty) enough and won't respond to you if you do. That type of stuff irritates me and would make me want to quit having sex with her.
 
Yes that's very true but one of the things that I worry about is the girl won't talk dirty (and by "dirty" I don't mean anything too nasty) enough and won't respond to you if you do. That type of stuff irritates me and would make me want to quit having sex with her.

I see where you are coming from. I just let the girl do what comes naturally to her. My current girl doesn't say anything when we're having sex. I've had girls who talked so dirty I wanted them to tone it down a bit.:)
 
I see where you are coming from. I just let the girl do what comes naturally to her. My current girl doesn't say anything when we're having sex. I've had girls who talked so dirty I wanted them to tone it down a bit.:)

Yeah I know what you mean, I think I might be asking too much because we're all different sexually and we should all be happy that we have someone to do that with if we have the chance to you know?
 
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