I don't expect anyone to agree with what I have to say, nor is that my point in posting here. However, I can speak from experience which is as it seems lacks in this thread. My girlfriend and I have done this several times and both found it enjoyable. I've heard a lot of comments to the effect of it being "gay" or wondering "what does she get out of it?" It is not gay as previously stated, since it's not an act involving two men. It's not about fantasizing about being with men while the woman does it. It's about pleasing each other. If you really care about someone you'll go above and beyond expectations to please them in and out of the bedroom. There's a difference between wanting to be with men and letting your woman use a strap-on and it's a very big difference. I don't see how anyone could see this as being "gay". It astounds me that anyone could even come to that conclusion. Furthermore, it brings up a greater question why are people so against the idea of "gay?" I don't care. Why? Because it does not affect me in any way, shape, or form. It's a word that describes two guys being together. Does anyone here use the term lesbian and think gross? Most likely not on a porn forum, but I respect that you are out there. It's a complete double standard. Why are certain things taboo? Why can't we all just give our opinions and not be ignorant? Stop thinking about it as being "gay" or anything else. Let people be. This isn't aimed at any one post or an attack on any one or their view points, but open your eyes and look around at the world. You're neighbors, co-workers, best friends are all into different aspects of life you may not be aware of. Just be courteous. :2 cents: