I know it is a dumb ass question, but I got to know some opinions. Please don't write stupid things this is something I really need to know. Serious answers only GIRLS FEEL FREE TO COMMENT!! I have been out of the dating game for a while, and I meet this girl at Hot Topic. She is by far the most beautiful girl I have ever seen in my life. We don't talk much but I ask if she maybe wanted to catch a rock show. She said it would be fun, something to do. Now all she does is ignore me what the fuck am I suppose to do? It has been a month she does not answer my text or anything. I was going to go into the store and see how she is doing, but I don't want it to turn to controversy. Anyone have this problem with bitches ignoring you, but saying she would like to hang out some time??? This shit is confusing. Please answer seriously, this shit is driving me insane. I have never had a girl act like this.
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So did she ever pick up and join on your invite to the concert? Apart from chatting at the store, you've texted and whatever else for a month with no answer? Sounds like a total flake and not worth your time... if she was really interested, she would have contacted back... if it's a few days or a week, something may have come up... self-respect goes a long way... value that first... move on and see what happens when you come across the next person you like while improving yourself (we all can) and doing the things that make you happy. There are plenty of them! Woman (and guys) flake for a myriad of reasons - don't get too caught up on it... At least you interacted to try, and that counts for something.
Oh I wouldn't turn it into some kind of drama if you happened to visit the shop... meaning, don't avoid the store because she is there haha. Don't bring it up or talk shit to her like why didn't you return my inquiries. If she mentions some excuse or whatever, just say... that's cool - I kind of got the hint, the concert was great... would have been nice if you came, and take care, and see you around - don't ask for another opportunity (unless some crazy thing happened like she lost her cell phone and got a new number or she's on her knees begging haha).
One more thing - your title for the topic was confusing... is she in a relationship/dating someone? If so - that's crazy, and if she did decide to go out with you while in a relationship... what's to stop her from doing it to you.
Oh I wouldn't turn it into some kind of drama if you happened to visit the shop... meaning, don't avoid the store because she is there haha. Don't bring it up or talk shit to her like why didn't you return my inquiries. If she mentions some excuse or whatever, just say... that's cool - I kind of got the hint, the concert was great... would have been nice if you came, and take care, and see you around - don't ask for another opportunity (unless some crazy thing happened like she lost her cell phone and got a new number or she's on her knees begging haha).
One more thing - your title for the topic was confusing... is she in a relationship/dating someone? If so - that's crazy, and if she did decide to go out with you while in a relationship... what's to stop her from doing it to you.
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I wouldn't have waited a month to go back. Get the tickets, text her once. If no answer go back to the store in a day or 2. Make her the offer face to face. Don't even mention the text. See what the reaction is and take it from there. If she's a flake then move on and use the ticket for someone else.
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Buy the tickets, chloroform that bitch, and take her to the goddam concert.
Demand sex afterwards. Have a van nearby in case she refuses.
Side note: bitches be crazy.
Demand sex afterwards. Have a van nearby in case she refuses.
Side note: bitches be crazy.
VeronicaVice
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Girls like to confuse. I know I do. 
Alyssa Rose
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I agree with this for the most part..
Especially the part I put in bold. If I were you I'd make a conscious effort to go back to that store! I'd go back there act as if you're there for something you need then when you spot her just give a little head nod but continue looking at whatever you're looking at then after a little while it will drive her crazy that you didn't come to talk to her so she will come to talk to you. When she does act completely uninterested. Tell her the concert was great and all about the awesome after party. Don't mention anything about you wishing she was there. Casually say something like, I sent you a text to see if you still wanted to go but I didn't hear back from you so I just sold the other ticket. Don't try to make her jealous by saying you brought another girl, you going with friends or even by yourself shows you went for the music and not just to get laid.
I would say something like, sucks You Missed it cause they won't be in town for like another year or so, anyways I've gotta run. Then when she tries to make plans with you, and she will trust me, tell her you'll have to see when you're free but she can text you later to find out. DON'T SAY THAT YOU WILL TEXT HER! MAKE HER TEXT YOU!
Once you do this she'll be in your bed by the end of the week.
Bitches are definitely crazy. Trust me, I am one
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Harley Spencer
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Did she specifically say she'd like to go to the concert with you? Or did she say something like, "That sounds like it'd be a lot of fun!"
My guess is that she's not interested in you and that she chatted with you in the first place simply to be nice, not lose a customer, and she may be afraid to say no. Given with the amount of technology people use today and all the social media, more people find it easier to turn someone down via text or email rather than face to face or over the phone. Or they'll just flat out ignore someone to avoid confrontation. As much as I hate to say it, I know I've done that before.
She may also have given you a fake number.
My guess is that she's not interested in you and that she chatted with you in the first place simply to be nice, not lose a customer, and she may be afraid to say no. Given with the amount of technology people use today and all the social media, more people find it easier to turn someone down via text or email rather than face to face or over the phone. Or they'll just flat out ignore someone to avoid confrontation. As much as I hate to say it, I know I've done that before.
She may also have given you a fake number.
Forget about her. If she's ignoring you, she has a reason to do so.
Get a life and live it. She doens't want a bitch like you.
There, facts and reality.
Get a life and live it. She doens't want a bitch like you.
There, facts and reality.
You got rejected. Get over it. Plenty of women out there
LaneSisters
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Sounds like she didn't want to hurt your feelings so she said yes and has just ignored you since. I would go to the store and simply say "the decent thing to do would have been to say no right away or at least have the courtesy to reply to a text" do it calmly. A guy that stands up for himself is a huge turn on for me. Just remember go in there with pride and not with the intention to beg cause that is a turn off
SpexyAshleigh
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To her, you're a random customer from her work. She's not interested at all dude. I don't know ANY woman who would immediately accept a date offer from a random creep who visits her place of employment. She was just trying to be nice since you were a customer and its her job to give good customer service ...rejecting you wouldn't fall into "good customer service"
Next time? Don't bother girls while they're at work. They're there to do their job, not pick up. Chances are, if she's the most beautiful girl you've ever seen, that she's got a bf already.
Next time? Don't bother girls while they're at work. They're there to do their job, not pick up. Chances are, if she's the most beautiful girl you've ever seen, that she's got a bf already.
Exactly. She wants you to make your move after she gets off work ... when she's walking to her car. Go get her stud.
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