and not just in this thread
Ha! Touch'em all brody! :rofl:
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Ha! Touch'em all brody! :rofl:
1) Who is she to tell you what you can and cannot do? I mean there are certain things that you probably shouldn't do when you're in a relationship, but it's not like you can't if you really feel you want to.
2) Have you ever asked her what she thinks of your sex life? If you're not having fun, then she might not be either. Just let her know that you want to spice things up (without making it sound like she's a dud in the sack, which would really hurt her feelings) and pitch some ideas. A new position might be a good place to start before you get really freaky.
2) Have you ever asked her what she thinks of your sex life? If you're not having fun, then she might not be either. Just let her know that you want to spice things up (without making it sound like she's a dud in the sack, which would really hurt her feelings) and pitch some ideas. A new position might be a good place to start before you get really freaky.
Exactly. Reminds me of what my father used to say, "I ain't no monkey and I sure can't climb a tree. And I ain't gonna let no woman make no monkey out of me!"
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Oh yes Timbo, I'm sure they're so right. You're much better off listening to those who's posts only ever consist of :rofl: :thefinger :nanner:
:fight: wow she's hot, or some equally enlightening statement that contributes to the overall interest of any given thread. So please just ignore my posts.LL
Love? That sounds like a loving relationship to you?
Nobody who is seriously considering going to a prostitute behind their partners back is in love with them in my opinion.
I agree, it doesn't sound like you love her, your not sexually satisfied with her, find a new girl.
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I never said that, I simply said he said he loved her. He apparently has doubts about his thoughts of an escort or he wouldn't have posted it here. So I figured he is asking for other options.
This explanation of my post has been brought to you totally gratis btw. :hatsoff:
LL
That is why I phrased my statement to you in the form of a question.
I was asking you, not telling you.
I meant no offense.
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1st let me say thx for all the posts....most i will take as good advice and for a couple i just blowoff lets says....this is a decision that could make things better or way worse.....
Well i talked to her like ladylove said and guess just see how it goes form here...
and just so i make the sitution a lil more clear... im 20 and been dating the girl for 2 almost 3 years....she is a my 1st gf and "high school sweetheart" blah blah blah....so honestly i cant really say if i am in love...im only 20 and i dont neccessary know what love is exactly......
p.s. she said the sex is great but she just doesnt have a need or want like most girls.....
Well i talked to her like ladylove said and guess just see how it goes form here...
and just so i make the sitution a lil more clear... im 20 and been dating the girl for 2 almost 3 years....she is a my 1st gf and "high school sweetheart" blah blah blah....so honestly i cant really say if i am in love...im only 20 and i dont neccessary know what love is exactly......
p.s. she said the sex is great but she just doesnt have a need or want like most girls.....
WARNING- DANGER! If she's told you now, 2 or 3 years in that she just doesn't have the want or need, that's not likely to increase or get more exciting with time. Also, the high school sweetheart thing (just being realistic here) rarely works out after high school. And after two or three years, if you don't know you're in love or not, probably not.
Best of luck to ya!
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Best of luck to ya!
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Nah, I think he was blowing off that posts that were like "fuck- dump her, dude!"
kind of things. You had some good and interesting points.
I agree, I think anyone can know what love is, because it is likely different for each and every one of us. I just don't think the high school sweetheart thing ever lasts after the safe and guarded environment of high school goes away.
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Love is ...
Love is about what you enjoy giving to someone.
If you don't enjoy giving it to her, including what some may call "give up" for her, then you should consider moving on.
Same deal with her, and no one should force themselves into a relationship where they feel they are "giving too much" including "giving up too much."
Of course, that also means there are just some people who would have a great difficulty having any relationship with most people.
Love is about what you enjoy giving to someone.
If you don't enjoy giving it to her, including what some may call "give up" for her, then you should consider moving on.
Same deal with her, and no one should force themselves into a relationship where they feel they are "giving too much" including "giving up too much."
Of course, that also means there are just some people who would have a great difficulty having any relationship with most people.
Yeah, like everyone already said, stop living in the past.
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