Not even remotely my view ...
I think we're into the concept of sexual worship because of the power issue. It's the same reason I'm into rough sex. Deep down we want to be wanted on as high a level as possible. Men want to be the rockstar that goes back stage with "a-plenty" to choose from.
That is about as far from my view as you can get, especially since I was 15 and became sexual aware of my real desires as well as solidified my values.
Sexual worship is about my sharing my raw, physical, emotional and intellectual desires with a partner in a place of comfort and safety for the relationship we have.
To do that, I have to share similar values with my partner, or adopt her values that conflict as my own, as her needs and views are now greater than mine.
I could give a rats ass of how others "define" alleged "absolute values" or whatever they want to say is "the standard" or "what people want" or, worse yet, "should want."
All I know is that envy and desire without approval of the parties involved or who would be hurt is the enemy, and I see too many people "excuse" stomping on other people's values with alleged "oh, there's nothing wrong with this."
Values are relative, they will always be relative, and my values are about comfort and safety, starting with compatibility and conforming to the values of those I care about.
That's why my wife and I have sex that people would criticize if they knew (and have on this board), as well as why I would not take issue if my wife wanted another man in bed.
Before my wife it was the women who would honor me by share themselves with myself, of which I realized (after one attempted 3-way with 2 women) was one woman at a time.
My fantasy is to worship one woman for the rest of my life, not out of content, alleged respect or some other "absolute values."
But it's out of my own interests in safety, comfort but, most of all, compatibility, which only grows in my total combination of love and lust with time, including the increasing, sexual knowledge of each other's desires.
