Fired Today, Career Over, Possibly Marriage Too ...

[McRocket]

Besides - forgiveness is pointless without repentance.

god doesn't grant forgiveness just because you ask for it. You confess and you repent and if you do a good job of it all, ultimately god will forgive you.

cheers,

'If we acknowledge our wrongs and ask for forgiveness, God will forgive us - no questions asked: "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (1 John 1:9).'

http://www.allaboutgod.com/prayer-of-forgiveness.htm

 

[Homer]

Dood, you'll get over it. Your post was a little long, did you bang this chick or did you just tell her she looks fine?

 

[poggy]

I was thinking more of a molester then a rapists. :dunno:

That's because no one called Prof a rapist. (Except for Prof)

If you read the whole of the posts that Fox has tried to comment on of mine. You'll see how it turned to that been brought up.

You see the problem was that Fox tried to get on his white horse in his shiny armour and make everyone say how sorry they was for Prof. He became upset when it didn't work. So decided to try take posts apart. The only problem is as usual he took the thread off topic.

 

[Aegis]

Please take personal issues with other members to PMs. I don't care who started what. Many of the posts in this thread are out of line, and it'll simply have to stop now.

And all the rapist talk that's been going on, is also something I expect that we've seen the end of.

 

[Dillinger022]

Loose lips sink ships.

 

[free4440273]

Loose lips sink ships.

:1orglaugh:thumbsup:

 

[Bigcrankdaddy]

Re: (cont.) Fired Today, Career Over, Possibly Marriage Too

Are you fucking high, or just stupid?
Let the dust settle, keep your fucking big mouth shut. Get a hotel, get a bottle of jack, shut off your cell phone & take a fucking chill.

the last thing that that woman is gonna do is see you again, let alone tell your wife, get a grip man.

get a good drunk on, sober up, man up & tell your wife to shut the fuck up. If you did what you said, your ok. Worst case, you have to get a new job. Fuck the old lady, let her bitch. And your parents? Who cares, they raised you, they know how fucked up you are.

It will be fine, just don't say anything else & this will be a bump in the road of life.

 

[DOA82]

Re: (cont.) Fired Today, Career Over, Possibly Marriage Too

Are you fucking high, or just stupid?
Let the dust settle, keep your fucking big mouth shut. Get a hotel, get a bottle of jack, shut off your cell phone & take a fucking chill.

the last thing that that woman is gonna do is see you again, let alone tell your wife, get a grip man.

get a good drunk on, sober up, man up & tell your wife to shut the fuck up. If you did what you said, your ok. Worst case, you have to get a new job. Fuck the old lady, let her bitch. And your parents? Who cares, they raised you, they know how fucked up you are.

It will be fine, just don't say anything else & this will be a bump in the road of life.

And Prof, should you choose to follow this fine gents wise council, I recommend, placing the gun in the mouth at an upward angle when it come time to blow the top of your head off!

 

[Phaeton]

I got fired for flirting today, my wife found out and got pissed. Then I made things worse by calling the chick, taking her out and getting to first base.

Take away the drama and it becomes a manageable problem. Get a night job volunteering at an Abortion Clinic, go to support groups for Woman who have been raped or worse. Take those lessons and go back to your wife and show her how you've tried to be a better man. Work harder for less money and rebuild your professional status.

And I'm NOT saying your a rapist. But it will show you what REAL problems are, and when you go back to your wife it will be with a new perspective. Not perspective derived from a bottle, or from sex with a new bitch, but from your time consoling. And is she doesn't appreciate that new view on life, at least I will, and I hope you will.

 

[Member2019]

RIP Tyler Dergan ...

And Prof, should you choose to follow this fine gents wise council, I recommend, placing the gun in the mouth at an upward angle when it come time to blow the top of your head off!

Already tried. I think I killed Tyler Dergan instead and quite accidentally.

 

[Member2019]

Loose lips sink ships.

:1orglaugh:thumbsup:

But what if they were damn good lips?

 

[Member2019]

Well, no job leads ...

Well, no job leads, but that's expected.
It usually takes me 6-12 weeks to line up contracts, unless a short-notice deal comes up (I try to avoid those, all sorts of poor situations or expectations).

Wife is fine, and I'm leaving her alone.
Parents haven't called, and I've decided I'll give them until Christmas before calling them myself.

I'm just chilling.
I don't drink, so I'm dealing with it however I can.

I'm in good spirits, other than the harsh realities of my actions.
Life goes on.

And, if you haven't noticed, my humor has come back.

 

[hedonis]

Re: (cont.) Fired Today, Career Over, Possibly Marriage Too

Are you fucking high, or just stupid?
Let the dust settle, keep your fucking big mouth shut. Get a hotel, get a bottle of jack, shut off your cell phone & take a fucking chill.

the last thing that that woman is gonna do is see you again, let alone tell your wife, get a grip man.

get a good drunk on, sober up, man up & tell your wife to shut the fuck up. If you did what you said, your ok. Worst case, you have to get a new job. Fuck the old lady, let her bitch. And your parents? Who cares, they raised you, they know how fucked up you are.

It will be fine, just don't say anything else & this will be a bump in the road of life.

Wow- yes, prof. Just "man up & tell your wife to shut the fuck up." That's great advice, coming from someone who doesn't have to look your wife in the eye to do it. If you fucked up, and it sound like you did, he's right about letting the dust settle. But once the dust settles, walking back in and basically saying "fuck everybody" is a bad idea. I'm sure you know that.

Let the dust settle, admit you were wrong, and then "man up" and get on with life again. If your wife is there, cool. If she won't stick around, that's another of the ugly forks in life's long road.

H

 

[Member2019]

May hire an escort ...

Before you laugh at the title, please read (I'm serious):
May hire an escort ...

 

[poggy]

Re: May hire an escort ...

Well, no job leads, /QUOTE]

No job, no money coming in.

But I have a great idea how to cut back...

Before you laugh at the title, please read (I'm serious):
May hire an escort ...

Yes that should save some money. Paying for sex.

And before you say that it's for the company of talking to someone. You can do that down the pub with someone. You don't even have to know them.

But if it's for the sex. Isn't that again betraying your wife?




Isn't all this becoming too much.

Now three threads on this subject!

 

[Peter Gazinya]

It's Tyler Durden, not Dergan. You're thinking of Lisa Dergan, one fine piece of ass that works for Fox Sports.

 

[Member2019]

So, how did I come up with this "story" ...

If you've read the other threads, you know know I made all of this up. So where did I come up with this "story"?

Regarding #1, I've had these type conversations with women at work, but always outside work, possibly at lunch, but with others around (who are not judgmental) so it didn't seem like I was "hitting on them." But never in the office itself, or extremely limited. It's basically how I'm "prompted" and an example. I also never touch or cross various lines.

But I wanted to provide that alleged "wrongful lust" as the setup.

Regarding #2, that was an "orgy" of all the alleged things I have been "doing wrong" to my wife. My wife and I had a big laugh on that one. How I was "violating" or "hurting" her, doing things she allegedly "didn't enjoy." In reality, it's been the exact opposite. I haven't been nearly as aggressive in bed as my wife wishes, as I have trouble being overpowering and doing the things to her she asks me to.

I know some of you questioned this whole thing when you read #2.

Regarding #3, I didn't write it originally, I was going to just leave it at the first two. But I figured it "didn't go far enough." So what I used was something that actually happened to me in opposite. I had a secretary who was down many years ago. Not quite exactly the same setting, but close enough. I comforted her and, when I thought she just wanted a hug, I got her tongue down my throat. I didn't push her away, just put my hand up the back of her head under her hair and eased her off of me (which was pleasing for her, but it made her arch her head back away from my lips). So I now used the situation "in reverse."

I threw in #3 to separate those who thought I wasn't capable of this from those who believed my "lust" would and could lead me to do all this.

Again, it's almost an "orgy" of my life going wrong in a matter of hours, and I know many of you questioned it. For those that never did, then, well, I guess you can hate me. Or a few of you could reconsider maybe ProfV isn't so "screwed up" after all, although I doubt your reservations will change. You'll say it's only a matter of time before I let my "lust" go out of control like this or similarly. Oh well.

 

[McRocket]

Please delete.

Sorry mods.

 

[McRocket]

If you've read the other threads, you know know I made all of this up. So where did I come up with this "story"?

Regarding #1, I've had these type conversations with women at work, but always outside work, possibly at lunch, but with others around (who are not judgmental) so it didn't seem like I was "hitting on them." But never in the office itself, or extremely limited. It's basically how I'm "prompted" and an example. I also never touch or cross various lines.

But I wanted to provide that alleged "wrongful lust" as the setup.

Regarding #2, that was an "orgy" of all the alleged things I have been "doing wrong" to my wife. My wife and I had a big laugh on that one. How I was "violating" or "hurting" her, doing things she allegedly "didn't enjoy." In reality, it's been the exact opposite. I haven't been nearly as aggressive in bed as my wife wishes, as I have trouble being overpowering and doing the things to her she asks me to.

I know some of you questioned this whole thing when you read #2.

Regarding #3, I didn't write it originally, I was going to just leave it at the first two. But I figured it "didn't go far enough." So what I used was something that actually happened to me in opposite. I had a secretary who was down many years ago. Not quite exactly the same setting, but close enough. I comforted her and, when I thought she just wanted a hug, I got her tongue down my throat. I didn't push her away, just put my hand up the back of her head under her hair and eased her off of me (which was pleasing for her, but it made her arch her head back away from my lips). So I now used the situation "in reverse."

I threw in #3 to separate those who thought I wasn't capable of this from those who believed my "lust" would and could lead me to do all this.

Again, it's almost an "orgy" of my life going wrong in a matter of hours, and I know many of you questioned it. For those that never did, then, well, I guess you can hate me. Or a few of you could reconsider maybe ProfV isn't so "screwed up" after all, although I doubt your reservations will change. You'll say it's only a matter of time before I let my "lust" go out of control like this or similarly. Oh well.

I have a question that is but one, short word in it's entirety...

Why?