Ex-coworker ex-girl drama

jasonk282

Banned
I claim temporary insanity. The guy did deserve to know but obviously the reason why I told him wasn't for the sake of honesty since I had no qualms when she was just hooking up with me...

I'm a guy...a pretty girl doesn't have to "woo" me or whisper sweet-nothings in my ear...all she has to say is "do you want to fuck me" and the answer would always be a resounding YES. Just made me really upset that she said all these sweet things to me only so that I could fuck her when it would have been completely unnecessary for the purposes she in had in mind.

So you got played and was pissed, now you know how women feel about men sometimes.
 
Agree 100,000% petty childish stuff. like Rey said your the one who left her, your the one who knew she was engaged then you pull some low life bullshit like that.

I think he knows he can't have her and wants no one else to as well. That is why he did that to her imo.
 
I think all dudes myself including have those trophies. You know that "one" you just have to hook it up with. I have had many so I am content at this stage in the game.

There is that song about the gambler that says you got to know when to fold em.

I think most everyone can attest to getting wrapped up with the wrong one and letting the right ones slip away. Very hard to gain a clear perspective when you have too many irons in the fire. Best to step away, take a break, and then see what else is out there.

I also shun having any type of relationships with co workers.
 

Alyssa Rose

Official Checked Star Member
Looks like I'm the first girl to answer. Okay, First of all you should have never slept with her knowing she was engaged in the first place. That's what started all this drama. Second of all, If she is going to cheat on him, she is going to cheat on you. (Well to be fair 8 times out of 10 this is the case) It doesn't matter 'how bad he treated her', if it was that bad, she would've left him. Period. She WOULD have left him. The thing about the E.D. that he supposedly had, (which to be bluntly honest, if she's a cheater which well she is, then she is almost 100% a liar too, so anything she told you should be taken with a grain of salt) she either A.went into the relationship with him knowing he had it & chose to stay. Or B.Something happened while they were together to make it happen, & she chose to stay. If she's going to go out and fuck some other guy because her fiance can't get it up, she's now not only a cheater and a liar but also a bitch. If my husband wasn't able to get it up, I would never cheat on him, I would buy my self a dildo or I would sit on his face. (though she probably told you his tongue didn't work too right?) You moved away for a better job, if she really loved or wanted to be with you she wouldn't care if you were in the same state or even country for that matter. I have to deal with my husband being in different places from me all the time (he's in the Army) but do you see me telling him "this just isn't going to work because I need you HERE." No you don't because I really do love him & I'm not that selfish. To be honest, I don't even think you REALLY love her. I think this is a case of "I want what I can't have" (anymore at least) You were all set & ready to call her and break things off until you heard that she was fucking someone else(oh & by the way if she loved you she wouldn't have fucked another guy, especially your friend. She would've been too upset about you leaving to even want to.) anyways you heard she was fucking someone else and all of a sudden you were in love with her. Insanely jealous. Which is okay because that's human nature to want what you can't have but realize it for what it is. Lastly, her response when you told her that you loved her basically said, "You were a great lay but there's nothing between us however I might need a good fuck somewhere down the road so I don't want to burn this bridge so I might as well lead you on." That's pretty much what she said in girl speak. If a guy tells a girl that he is in love with her & she doesn't respond "Oh my God Oh my God, I love you too!!!" Then she isn't in love with you and doesn't see herself ever being in love with you because if she did she would say something like, "We haven't known each other long enough for me to know if I'm in love with you yet, but I know I'm going to love finding out." But to be honest even if she wasn't 100% sure that she was in love with you, most girls just go ahead and say it back anyways.

I don't mean to come off harsh if I have I'm sorry. I just want you to realize that you could possibly be throwing away a good relationship or letting tons others pass you by for a girl who has earned herself the title of lying cheating slutty bitch. Get over her and move on. Its for the best.


<3 Hissexslave
 
Update...her fiance kicked her out of his place and the new guy didn't want to take her in since I guess he was just fucking her and not interested in a relationship. The (now) ex-fiance called her ex-husband and told him everything and now the ex-husband (he lives in another state) doesn't want to expose the kids to her promiscuity and unstable life (he got the kids in the dissolution of the marriage...the court found her to be an unfit mother). She is depressed out of her mind. Fuck...I feel horrible, I didn't think so much would come from me ratting her out...

I got back with my ex-wife and all is good so far on that front.
 

ChefChiTown

The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
Forgive me for the length of this rant, you don't have to answer if you don't want to, of course.

Fucked up situation and question: I have been messing around with a chick from work, whom has a Fiance...

That's as far as I had to read. No. The answer is no. I don't know what the question is, but the answer is no.
 
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