Ever Have Your Heart Broken????

[SN4P3]

....worst pain ever. It sucks that an individual can cause me this much pain and heartache. I know I'll overcome it and move on, but it will just take time. But from this moment till now, it's gonna suck.

 

[Hot Mega]

Yes. Had a puppy love relationship with a childhood g/f and she died of cancer very young.

Shaped most of my perspective on living and dying.

 

[Ace Bandage]

Yep, last girlfriend. It took me awhile to get over her. It's just something you have to take a day at a time. Every day that goes by I think of her less and less, and that's how you move on.

 

[biomech]

I think we all have been there. Nothing hurts worse than a broken heart; it's best to move on and not let the hurt consume you.
If you do, you will never be able to carry on a normal relationship.
Time heals all wounds.(cheesy I know, but it is true).

 

[Elwood70]

Yep....so badly that,aside from the physical one, I can honestly say I don't have one left.

 

[rabid_2250]

Must be the season for it. I just found out my wife's been having an affair. Then within a week two of my friends broke up with their partners (both long term relationships). The up side is that we're all bachelors again and can hit the clubs again, the down side is we're all bachelors again and don't feel like hitting the clubs. I feel your pain and am sorry that you have to go through it.
I think andronicus and biomech both give great advice. No point carrying a grudge it doesn't solve anything. And you can only move forward so use this as a learning experience and when you come out the other side you'll be a better and stronger person for it.
Good luck, and remember, if this is the worst thing to happen to you then you're still doing ok.

 

[L3ggy]

I've had my heart broken multiple times....

 

[~~whimsy~~]

Yup.

 

[ThatRedWing]

A couple of times.

 

[L3ggy]

Eh?

 

[Embryoyo]

Earlier this year, for the first time. We got back together for a while, then she admitted to putting me through hundreds of lies. The last month was so pathetic by the time we were finally over I didn't give a fuck a day later. Whatever.

 

[Neutron66]

Yes.

 

[lechepicha]

of course i have.

i even consider suicide... a pain very, very big.

 

[No_Man]

I've both had my heart broken once (caught her cheating on me) and broken someone's heart once (treated her like shit for two months because I didn't have the balls to break up with her properly). Every other break-up was fairly mutual and painless.

 

[gotham123]

mine still is, but then again i'm a pussy

 

[turtle825]

yes

 

[hillhopper]

Must be the season for it. I just found out my wife's been having an affair. Then within a week two of my friends broke up with their partners (both long term relationships). The up side is that we're all bachelors again and can hit the clubs again, the down side is we're all bachelors again and don't feel like hitting the clubs. I feel your pain and am sorry that you have to go through it.
I think andronicus and biomech both give great advice. No point carrying a grudge it doesn't solve anything. And you can only move forward so use this as a learning experience and when you come out the other side you'll be a better and stronger person for it.
Good luck, and remember, if this is the worst thing to happen to you then you're still doing ok.

Sorry to hear about your situation Rabid, I've been cheated on before, but not on the level you are experiencing it I'm sure. Hang in there yourself and hopefully there's no family to worry about.

 

[feller469]

A couple of times. been through the divorce thing, not fun. Gave my all to a job and had them fire me for being "unprofessional" when that "unprofessionalism" is what helped turn the business around.

Each day starts anew and what you make of it is what it will be. I am a skeptic at heart, but I try to hit each day with a smile and a sense of adventure.

Be it work, relationships or just a hobby, have fun doing it and do it well. Even if it is just looking for a job.

 

[Lust]

yep, it sucks to put it lightly. worst of all it hampered future relationships by making me skiddish. i'm sure i'm not alone on that. but, its also helped me to appreciate what i have when i have it.

breaking someone elses heart is a hard thing for me as well. to see that pained look they have when you walk in the room is really a terrible feeling and you're suddenly thinking, damn im a douche bag. i know thats not the case for everyone, hell the girls who have broken my heart didnt seem to really give a shit that i was in pain. that kind of made it worse.

 

[SN4P3]

Thank you all for your responses. I can find a little comfort in reading your encouraging words. For those who have been in my position once or more than once, I feel for you, for I know what it feels like.

I can't wait for the time to pass where I can finally be over her. I keep telling myself I am over her, but deep down inside I know I am not. With time though, I will be, and will hopefully be healed.