SpexyAshleigh

Official Checked Star Member
If you want to keep arguing that simple fact go ahead, I'm just going to block you for being an idiot. I don't care if you're an OCSM.

I'm an idiot because I have an opinion?

Seriously block me, I don't give a shit. You clearly have something up your butt.


.......har har har. :1orglaugh
 

SpexyAshleigh

Official Checked Star Member
Seriously dude, no need to get all butthurt over this thread topic. Your ass is getting too sore about all this discussion...you're gonna start bleeding soon. Chill and put some lotion on it :)
 

Facetious

Moderated
I'm finding all the prudes and closemindedness a huge turnoff. female"...because the person stimulating your prostate is also female...

Sorry, I just can't stand guys who are sexually repressed, and are judgemental of those who have a more open mind...not to mention guys who buy into the whole "gay is girly/weak" thing...


Stop it Ashleigh, you just want complete control of your man and you know it!
You want control in the bedroom and you want to control the terms of the break up... I know how coercion works, Ashleigh. I know the power of video! :tongue:

;)
 
I've had a girl finger my asshole when she was giving me a handy. It felt good as hell and isn't gay at all. The meaning of gay is that you like members of the same sex not the sensations or sexual acts you like. Even if a girl were to fuck someone with a strap on, I wouldn't think it was gay, I'm pretty sure that person would only enjoy that sensation if it was a woman doing it because he is attracted to her and there is a connection between them.
 

SpexyAshleigh

Official Checked Star Member
Stop it Ashleigh, you just want complete control of your man and you know it!
You want control in the bedroom and you want to control the terms of the break up... I know how coercion works, Ashleigh. I know the power of video! :tongue:

;)

Hell yeah I do. I wear the pants in my relationships :)
 

L3ggy

Special Operations FOX-HOUND
That is interesting.
 

Facetious

Moderated
^Oh, did we have to see that in consecutive posts?!! :pukey:


Anyway, it might as well be BF, he's retired, he's a grandpa.... and his wife is still really poed at him for screwin round. :1orglaugh
 
A strap on is not part of a girls anatomy. All the girl is doing is doing is hip thrusting a dildo in your ass. If you indulge in this, are you not enjoying the dildo, imagining a male was behind you, not a girl? The girl serves as a shield to deflect the gay aspect. Why would a hetero man need to do this act to obtain sexual pleasure with their female partner?

She-male fantasies follow the same trend. They are not even half woman, they're men with fake tits. The gay/bisexual aspect gets cloaked again by referring to them as her/she, not as male. If you're not turned on by the cock, why would she-men interest you?

I'm no prude, male anal play just doesn't interest me, so I have a right to voice my opinion. Are any of you that enjoys it willing to admit that you could have underlying gay/bisexual fantasies?
 
@ OP

I take it you're technically trying to find out if it's considered wrong or bad by a majority of people. To that I would answer yes.

Is it technically gay? No. Will people misnomer or mischaracterize it as such? Yes.

I don't think most men accept nor are interested in having their asses fucked by anything or anyone. I don't think most women are interested in men who are interested in that either.

It only stands to natural reasoning and logic. Most men (and women) fall on what's considered 'normal' by bell curve. As such, most men aren't in need or want of being dominated nor are most women hung up on being dominant.

I believe most men and women view sex as nature presumably intended, for cocks to go into something (namely a snatch) and do the fucking.

I mean, if there were ever a game that didn't need instructions for which you could merely look at and easily figure out, it would be what cocks and snatches were made for.

However, human psychology comes into play then we get a bunch of a-typical variations.

Characterizing the average individual who doesn't accept some of the variations as prudes or close-minded is pretty ignorant thinking IMO. As those characterizations suggest some deliberate thinking on it to arrive at a point of view. That's probably not the case as most people are just not 'wired' (psychologically equipped) to reconcile things like men having a desire to be penetrated, people who look like women but have penises, men who act like women, etc.

As far as the prude or close-minded characterizations;

Well, I once had a g/f who had one of the prettiest assholes I had ever laid eyes on. She utterly did not like having her asshole licked at all. Being a man who really appreciates doing that, it was pretty frustrating even though she personified literally a head to toe pick a part of things a man could like about her sexually.

I accepted pretty quick that this was not her thing and no amount of coaxing or coaching would change that. Even when she did allow it just because I wanted to it wasn't what I expected because I knew she didn't like it and was just doing it for me.

So from this I didn't take it that she was a prude or close-minded...nor that I had weird interests or that she was weird for not liking it. I know there are some women who love it and some who don't. There are some men who like doing it and some men who don't. Point is, it's not anything but the concept of someone for everyone and if you happen to be with someone who isn't into the shit you're into..there is someone else who is.
 

xfire

New Twitter/X @cxffreeman
@ OP

I take it you're technically trying to find out if it's considered wrong or bad by a majority of people. To that I would answer yes.

Is it technically gay? No. Will people misnomer or mischaracterize it as such? Yes.

I don't think most men accept nor are interested in having their asses fucked by anything or anyone. I don't think most women are interested in men who are interested in that either.

It only stands to natural reasoning and logic. Most men (and women) fall on what's considered 'normal' by bell curve. As such, most men aren't in need or want of being dominated nor are most women hung up on being dominant.

I believe most men and women view sex as nature presumably intended, for cocks to go into something (namely a snatch) and do the fucking.

I mean, if there were ever a game that didn't need instructions for which you could merely look at and easily figure out, it would be what cocks and snatches were made for.

However, human psychology comes into play then we get a bunch of a-typical variations.

Characterizing the average individual who doesn't accept some of the variations as prudes or close-minded is pretty ignorant thinking IMO. As those characterizations suggest some deliberate thinking on it to arrive at a point of view. That's probably not the case as most people are just not 'wired' (psychologically equipped) to reconcile things like men having a desire to be penetrated, people who look like women but have penises, men who act like women, etc.

As far as the prude or close-minded characterizations;

Well, I once had a g/f who had one of the prettiest assholes I had ever laid eyes on. She utterly did not like having her asshole licked at all. Being a man who really appreciates doing that, it was pretty frustrating even though she personified literally a head to toe pick a part of things a man could like about her sexually.

I accepted pretty quick that this was not her thing and no amount of coaxing or coaching would change that. Even when she did allow it just because I wanted to it wasn't what I expected because I knew she didn't like it and was just doing it for me.

So from this I didn't take it that she was a prude or close-minded...nor that I had weird interests or that she was weird for not liking it. I know there are some women who love it and some who don't. There are some men who like doing it and some men who don't. Point is, it's not anything but the concept of someone for everyone and if you happen to be with someone who isn't into the shit you're into..there is someone else who is.

:clap:

10,000x your last sentence, Mega.
 
Well, just because someone wants their ass played with, doesn't mean he wants a man to do it.


On the flip-side... if you enjoy this practice, there really isn't any sense whatsoever in getting offended by the gay perception of it, as it is mainly practiced by gays. Therein lies the downside. Most won't understand it, but most won't understand differential calculus either, but those that do have to live with the perception they're nerdy.

That's life.
 

larss

I'm watching some specialist videos
No, it is not Gay. Nor is it Bisexual.
It is just another way that a man and woman can get closer together in their sexual relationship.
BioDefenseGrad - there is plenty of this on FreeOnes if you want to look for it - It is a porn board, after all - e.g. Shanda Fay - http://www.filthycuteonline.com/mgp/forbigdaddy3/

The anus is one of the erogenous zones and both sexes can get pleasure from stimulation. There is also the prostate, as has been mentioned by a few people, that can only be stimulated be penetration, and manipulation of this gland can be extremely pleasurable.

To label someone as gay or even bi because they enjoy pegging or other anal stimulation is crass.
 
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