yeah but I still think kids can grow up fine without even spanking. there is so many other strategies to use other then spanking, just read it up in a book or the internet. Just because it happened to us, does not mean it has to happen to the new generation. Spanking is so easy to think of and do because it's already implanted in our brains. But to do the other things is what we don't really know, but can try. Sorry guys this isn't the old days anymore.