Great now im caught up in the thread. When i saw it I thought a chick started it until I read the first few sentences, and I thought the guy was gonna get flamed too. Thanks alot zoso for bringing it back, geez. But I did wanna comment on 2 things, 1 BNF your third post in this thread was a very good point, and 2 and calpoons first post was very good also. to julian to each his own is all I have to say.
 
I met Ron Jeremy back in early 02 and begged to see his wang. I stood there in aww.
I'm not attracted to men...but I get jealous by what some men have over me.

Whatever gets your rod ready to fish is for you and not anyone elses business.
 
Thanks for the support, Fox. I don't know if calling me gay or saying my feelings are gay qualifies as an insult, though. I mean, I'd happily admit that there are gay tendencies in my sexuality, that's not something I'm ashamed of. It's definitely homophobic to assume someone is a homosexual just because he takes an interest in dicks, though. It just seems to be very intimidating to some men to learn that a predominantly heterosexual male (like I am) can admit to being attracted by men and male genitalia.

Like I've said before, though, I was a bit surprised by the reactions I got in this thread. I had expected a LOT more flaming. I'm not denying that part of the reason for creating this thread was that I was a bit bored and wanted to see if I could provoke some people (which is not saying I don't have a genuine interest in discussing this). I thought this board would be full of testosterone-fuelled teen boys eager for a verbal queer-bashing. It seems I was wrong, though. I think this board is strangely civilized considering it's a bloody porn site.
 

Ax3C

Banned
julian999 said:
I'm not denying that part of the reason for creating this thread was that I was a bit bored and wanted to see if I could provoke some people (which is not saying I don't have a genuine interest in discussing this). I thought this board would be full of testosterone-fuelled teen boys eager for a verbal queer-bashing. It seems I was wrong, though. I think this board is strangely civilized considering it's a bloody porn site.

No offense intended towards you at all, julian999 ... but by virtue of you admitting that you intentionally created this thread to deliberately provoke people in to flaming you because of your views doesn't make much sense to me. In fact, in my humble, yet honest, opinion, it actually shows a side to you that's indicative of you being judgmental and more than a bit hypocritical in your thoughts and deeds. Though you pay us back-handed compliments as an after-thought, it only shows the true nature of your character (or lack thereof) by assuming that we - the Members of FreeOnes - would respond back with hatred and intolerance.

I won't deny there are some on here who are adamantly and viscerally opposed to what you suggest in your post, but I would think that for the most part, each of us is in some way, shape, form, or fashion, a tad bit more open-minded than you give us credit for ... after that fact, that is.

As I stated, this is only my honest opinion and is in no way meant to be an attack on you, how you see fit to live your life, or the contents of this thread. It's merely a simple, non-biased commentary on the last paragraph of your post.

:hatsoff:
 
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Oh, I'm definitely judgmental and hypocritical. It's the only way to remain relatively sane in this crazy age of ours. I can't stand most people and I contradict myself constantly. It's just the postmodern sensibility.
 

SeraphiM

Retired Moderator
I guess the members on this board have shown that "we"1 are willing to accept different points of views and differences of opinions as long as they are expressed points of view.
I would imagine if you had posting with just a few words saying something like "Cocks turn me on" or "I love to stare at cock", or something to that effect the result would have been a lot different.
You made us think about your statement and after reading it, most of us just shrugged it off an accepted it as your point of view.
Good things come out of making people think before they react.

1 - I use the term WE because i include myself Although a Mod I was a member first and still consider myself to be one.
 

BNF

Ex-SuperMod
julian999 said:
Oh, I'm definitely judgmental and hypocritical. It's the only way to remain relatively sane in this crazy age of ours. I can't stand most people and I contradict myself constantly. It's just the postmodern sensibility.

I feel a bit like you wasted my time. Someone may say that it provoked thoughts and that's enough... but it seems too easy, too much the coy "oh what have I done" to have, in the end, much value. It is a matter of tapping a few keys, on our site, or any site, to stir things up - anyone can do that.

There are, I assure you, far better ways to remain sane, than by trolling on porn boards.

I, OTOH, can stand most people. It's probably one of the things that lets me have the patience to deal with threads like this - especially when the truth about your intentions has come to light.

I wish you luck with your endeavors.
 
BNF said:
I feel a bit like you wasted my time.
This is as close to being enraged that I've ever seen BNF get!.:crash:


Well done julian...you 'fooled' us, though your by no means the first.

Seriously, It doesn't take a Sherlock Holmes to look at a thread title like that and not consider it a parody of sorts.
After seeing the likes of Lisa, Hotrod et al, I can't really take any newcomer too seriously.


..and some people thought my dumb threads were too harsh!
 

BNF

Ex-SuperMod
Too make it even worse, more a slap in the face: The premise of the thread was an admission, a confession, that maybe or may not be true - by this point I doubt anyone cares anymore anyway.
Luckily, no one (few?) came out and said, "Yes, I have too"... just to find that their own secret was exposed because of someone who was "bored" and may have no secret regarding this topic at all.

Psst, I have a very personal secret - here it is....... Now you tell me one..... Well, actually, I was just bored, but thanks for telling me.

Low in the extreme.
 
It's a good job I keep my 'confessions' under wraps...eh BNF ?;)
 
See BNF and tunsty I was wondering about this thread as well, its like he wanted people to make fun.

A post by julian:
julian999 said:
The first time I masturbated was together with a friend. I think we were younger than 12 but can't remember how old. We found a book about sex with explicit illustrations of sexual positions that belonged to his parents, had a look in that and one thing led to another. I think he'd done it before 'cause he showed me how to do it. So the first woman I masturbated to was one of those drawn women in that book, I guess.

My reply to that:
qweretyuiopas@ said:
rotflmfao julian you first wacked with a dude, you sure you are not gay? im not making fun or flaming but after that thread of yours and that post, its like you want everyone to think you are gay.
 
I will try not to get offended by you apparent lack of reading comprehension, tunsty. I haven't "fooled" anyone. All of my posts have been sincere and I think this is a legitimate topic of discussion. Saying that ONE of the reasons for making a statement is the pleasure of provocation doesn't make me a "troll", just as saying I like dicks doesn't make me a homo. If you can't see beyond that kind of black/white reasoning I would suggest you take some time off from this board and read a few books before you post in this thread again.

I like provocation, in fact I think controversy is the best thing about internet forums. But by controversy I definitely don't mean calling each other names and useless spamming. I just mean honest expression of views that might be uncomfortable to some people for various reasons. I think it's the most important factor in intellectual progress, to be honest. There is too much back-slapping. You can't be everybody's friend and thank god for that. I'd rather be myself than some sycophantic slag kissing the ass of the general consensus (not saying you are, tunsty).

Having said that, though, I have to say I'm a bit tired about all the posts in this thread that just pertain to my motives for creating it. I'd rather discuss the subjects I brought up and this is my last reply about the thread per se.
 
julian999 said:
I will try not to get offended by you apparent lack of reading comprehension, tunsty. I haven't "fooled" anyone. All of my posts have been sincere and I think this is a legitimate topic of discussion. Saying that ONE of the reasons for making a statement is the pleasure of provocation doesn't make me a "troll", just as saying I like dicks doesn't make me a homo. If you can't see beyond that kind of black/white reasoning I would suggest you take some time off from this board and read a few books before you post in this thread again.

I like provocation, in fact I think controversy is the best thing about internet forums. But by controversy I definitely don't mean calling each other names and useless spamming. I just mean honest expression of views that might be uncomfortable to some people for various reasons. I think it's the most important factor in intellectual progress, to be honest. There is too much back-slapping. You can't be everybody's friend and thank god for that. I'd rather be myself than some sycophantic slag kissing the ass of the general consensus (not saying you are, tunsty).

Having said that, though, I have to say I'm a bit tired about all the posts in this thread that just pertain to my motives for creating it. I'd rather discuss the subjects I brought up and this is my last reply about the thread per se.


Ouch...I'm going to just curl up in a ball and cry now.


Thanks for being so understanding...I'm only just past the colouring book stage of my life.


I have been on this board long enough to have seen just about every type of thread and poster, your thread title had all the signs of being just a 'send-up'.
Having already witnessed a fake cancer sufferer and the world's greatest lover(not), I tend to take these type of threads with a pinch of salt.
Your intention was to provoke people and you succeeded, but that wasn't the apparent intention of your initial post.
As you said yourself, you were 'bored' and decided to provoke some reaction, the actual subject matter was a secondary concern..
in that respect you WERE fooling us.

I have kept away from this thread up to now, partly because I doubted the sincerety of it and partly because I would not want to (intentionally or otherwise) be drawn into a war of words with yourself or anyone else.


For what it is worth, I applaud you for bringing the subject to the fore, this is a 'discussion' board and quite rightly the subject was openly discussed.



BTW: Nothing wrong with 'ass-kissing'...just make sure you kiss the right asses.
 
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tunsty said:
Ouch...I'm going to just curl up in a ball and cry now.


Thanks for being so understanding...I'm only just past the colouring book stage of my life.


I have been on this board long enough to have seen just about every type of thread and poster, your thread title had all the signs of being just a 'send-up'.
Having already witnessed a fake cancer sufferer and the world's greatest lover(not), I tend to take these type of threads with a pinch of salt.
Your intention was to provoke people and you succeeded, but that wasn't the apparent intention of your initial post.
As you said yourself, you were 'bored' and decided to provoke some reaction, the actual subject matter was a secondary concern..
in that respect you WERE fooling us.

I have kept away from this thread up to now, partly because I doubted the sincerety of it and partly because I would not want to (intentionally or otherwise) be drawn into a war of words with yourself or anyone else.


For what it is worth, I applaud you for bringing the subject to the fore, this is a 'discussion' board and quite rightly the subject was openly discussed.



BTW: Nothing wrong with 'ass-kissing'...just make sure you kiss the right asses.


only comment i am gonna make in this thread....



BAM!!!! Take that evil do-ers!!! well said tunsty well said!:glugglug:
 
the only time i like seein a guys dick, is when a girls suckin it, or it bein rammed into a pussy. yup, thats about it
 
What I can't get is how cum turns men on, but the cock doesn't?
Even if you're 100% heterosexual, admit you like to see the meat in action, before the payoff as much as after.
No, a cock on its own doesn't turn me on -- but seeing a cock in play definitely does!
 
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